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Old 08-23-2010, 07:45 PM   #1
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How does a girl reject a guy without giving a definite answer?

Long story short, how does a girl let a guy know that he has no chance with her without giving him a definite NO.

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Old 08-23-2010, 07:54 PM   #2
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We are good friends.

You are like a brother.

I love you, but not in that way.
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Old 08-23-2010, 08:00 PM   #4
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what about her actions? things she does, lets say in a peroid of a month, she still flirts, but why?
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what about her actions? things she does, lets say in a peroid of a month, she still flirts, but why?
she wants attention
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Old 08-23-2010, 08:47 PM   #6
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"I'll be your girlfriend, but I'll never put out or touch your cock." Lol goodbye!

Girls just flirt, it's natural. It's almost like a guy has to look at a chick when she walks by, it's just natural.
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Old 08-23-2010, 08:52 PM   #7
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what about her actions? things she does, lets say in a peroid of a month, she still flirts, but why?
It's like teasing you, basically doing something to make you still want her as you get closer and closer you want her more it's a power they have.

When you sober up from her lure she is not going to like it and is going to lure you in by telling you that she is interested but don't fall for it it's a trap!
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Old 08-24-2010, 08:23 PM   #8
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Yea, because think about it, you would want every girl to like you too right? So you flirt, but you don't necessarily like them back. It's just a nice feeling when you can get someone to like you. That's just what I think.
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"OMG, you are like the nicest guy ever! Whoever's gonna end up with you is gonna be so lucky!"
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"OMG, you are like the nicest guy ever! Whoever's gonna end up with you is gonna be so lucky!"
"You could've been that lucky person. wtf?!" hahaha
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"OMG, you are like the nicest guy ever! Whoever's gonna end up with you is gonna be so lucky!"
ugh.. i hate that. seriously, and "you're so cute" "so nice"
that shit lands you in the friend zone. god damn friend zone.
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show him this thread

Ask him the same question, even the most clueless guy in the world will get the hint.
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Old 08-25-2010, 03:17 PM   #15
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"You could've been that lucky person. wtf?!" hahaha
lol, you say that to them and the response will be "Nah, you deserve better than me!"

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ugh.. i hate that. seriously, and "you're so cute" "so nice"
that shit lands you in the friend zone. god damn friend zone.
LOL. "If i'm so cute, then sleep with me!"

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Ask him the same question, even the most clueless guy in the world will get the hint.
Girl: How does a girl reject a guy without giving a definite answer?
Guy: [gives a good answer that will impress the girl so she'll sleep with him]
Girl: Oh, nice answer! Thanks!
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if you ask her to go places and she says no, shes not interested
if you ask her to hang out with other friends you guys know and she says no, shes not interested
if shes interested, she will hang out with you.. if she's busy she would say "im busy, but how about next week" or something like that.
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if she says she doesn't want to hang out with you, just go hang out with other girls and stop talking to her. She MIGHT get jealous....
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What is the reason for the girl not to give a definate NO? Is she attention starved??
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emergency cock. when she fails miserably at all the other guys she wants, she'll be calling the dude in the friend zone.
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A girl can tell you that you’re the greatest thing since Enrique Iglesias and say anything else to you during the course of a half hour conversation, and it doesn’t mean horse manure to a tree. Girls flirt.

I can see why she can't give a definate no, she could be too nice or be a professional dater and have you up in strings as her puppet. Either way, if the chick has to think a question like this through, then buddy shouldve picked up the hints that she ain't interested.

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emergency cock. when she fails miserably at all the other guys she wants, she'll be calling the dude in the friend zone.
What he said. Women always need some sort of back up plan.
So yes, in a way it is for attention. When the guys she wants dont want her, she knows the guy that
she "friend zoned" will want her.
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"you so nice"
"you're the nicest guy i know"
"you're such a good friend"

if you hear that, you're pretty much done, cuz its true when they say "nice guys finish last"

they're usually looking for a bf, not a husband, so be the bad guy for once and keep them guessing
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^ i agree. dont be a nice guy. they are suckers for love.
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lol, she'll be calling that guy in the friend zone alright...but not to fuck him...more like ear-fuck him with her sad stories. she gets her emergency cock from that guy who's grinding her in the club when she's our partying to relieve her frustration/anger.
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i think we all use to be a nice guy, "once." then you realize eventually, and those who haven't realized may or may not in the future. most do, some don't.

it's not that nice guys finish last, so don't go ahead and be mean. it's that girls like men who can not be controlled. ie: the bad boy, the convict, the asshole, motorcycle rider, etc..

why? because not only can they not be controlled, they speak their mind/opinion. you know the cliche be yourself, they are themselves. however, for instance say your heart and mind is aching to tell the girl you're having dinner with that you love her. that you do not fucking say, especially on the first few dates. why? because you are no longer a challenge LIKE AT ALL 0% challenge, and she sees this and will either do two options. use you because she has you hooked and can control you (remember the bad boys can't be controlled) or run away because she's afraid of clinginess. therefore, golddigger or the one that broke your heart... pretty much. be yourself, speak your opinions. thats how a conversation gets going right? when it comes down to admitting your feelings no matter how much you want to, bite that fucking tongue. this creates self-control, you need self-control. it leaves a girl guessing, leaves her wanting more. which is the objective isn't it?

this could be an easy or hard process depending on you and the type of person that you are. but, if you want that girl to be with you in the long run the plan is set out right infront of, and the only way for her to lose interest in you is by your own actions. if you're a challenge enough to her, she won't need someone better. you're already great. it's the moment you fuck up, the relationship fucks up. so you keep calling her, texting her, not giving her her space is the consequence of your own actions. that is why she left you or is still using you.

a nice guy would mope and continue to fight for whats "right" when everything has gone wrong (because of him and his actions). thinking maybe she is "the one" while a smart guy is already off to find a new broad.

that's my opinion about the nice guy.

ps: loveydovey movies like step up, hitch, all that romance is bullshit. don't let hollywood brainwash you. Spread is pretty good movie though. learn to distinguish fake and reality, flowers and gifts don't work either, that's begging which isn't a challenge.
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