TekDragon | 10-01-2010 02:05 PM | Quote:
Originally Posted by ae101
(Post 7127925)
self defense or fight, don't bother with "walking away" cuz that don't work
i know a kid thats was getting bullied a lot & he thought about killing himself once so he came & ask me if that was the way to go since he thought the whole world hated him, i was once in his shoes in elementary so i told him no don't kill yourself cuz that just shows the world that u gave up
so i told him that u should show the world u that your not afraid, so he ask him if i should take the bully help lines advice to just "walk away", he told me it doesn't work after he used it so i said just fight him once u take him down he be scared of u so he told the advice & he never talked or stare at the kid again | I was bullied all through elementary and most of high school. Problem is, looking back on it, that despite schools and facilitators preaching a zero tolerance for bullying, they do nothing to stop or punish it. Walking away, yes it only works to a point. Reacting to what the bully does is what keeps it coming.
I understand that it's a hard subject, and that a kid did die. Could it have been prevented? Probably. Could the school system done something better? Certainly. Could the parents be more responsible with firearms, definitely. But hindsight is 20/20. I just hope this story helps to wake up someone. Either parents, teachers at schools, or even a bully. |