Forget the BITCH and tell yourself you have been PLAYED. You knew it head on, you KNOW you were used. MOVE on and learn to be a better person. I have been in your shoes and the ball is always on the girl's court, you were just one of the options.

I have been on both sides MULTIPLE times. This is my advice I gave myself and I live by it. I will NEVER EVER be the 3rd wheel and I will never ever be the guy in your situation. I never want to use people and I never want girls to use me again. Society is slowly making people THINK these actions are ok "he cheated on me first so I can justify this by cheating with you". I started playing the game in 2001-2006 and I told myself in 2007 I will never ever be the guy and took my equation from this jaded relationship world.

Bottom line, walk away; if you decide to continue to play this game, learn to brush the feelings off your shoulders as if it was snow during the winter. If you can't, don't hate the player, hate the game.

You are clearly not going to win with this girl, stop texting her. When you be yourself at work, act as if nothing happens, when the girl is super jealous because you put her in the back burner... she will once again find you attractive. THAT'S when you tell the bitch she ain't good enough for you.

That's how you epic-lly get the ball back into your court. She will be begging for more, they come crawling for more.

You have lots to learn young grasshopper. Good luck with the chick

Bro, this one is a lost cause.
It seems like she just used you. Kinda sucks that you fell for her though.
I'm sure she had feelings for you. But, her feelings for her original BF are too strong, so those feelings trump the ones she has for you.

I hope we are all wrong though. Let us know if it works out.


on another note.
I fucking hate my gf sometimes!

in a nutshell, it was what it was, and now it's time you let her go and move on. If you need to try so hard to make it work before it even gets started, it's not working.

On a sidenote... dating a girl from work?!? You really should have known better as the consequences are always shitty. I have a friend where the two didn't work out, but still need to see each other everyday and holy awkwardness. On the opposite end, I have another friend who's still dating the girl and let's just say people at work WILL talk.

Feelings that you have for her will eventually fade, but you have to stop messaging her!

thanks for the input guys
ill update every now and then

forget the chick, get tested

clearly, shes a hoe







haha jokes... dont waste your time man, plenty of other girls out there

Saw you driving towards UBC on Tuesday I believe. With who I THINK was a female passenger? Any updates?

hmm tuesday i didnt go towards UBC. what street approx time?

um its still a little complicated, were friends, we have hung out a couple times
sometimes there are awkward moments...but were trucking through it.
no serious poop has hit the fan yet

UH OHH, sounds like you're falling into the friend zone. EJECT IMMEDIATELY

Sounds like you're still her shoulder to lean on. You want more but it probably isn't going to go there. Cut her loose.

:facepalm:

Stop it. Stop hanging out with her. There's nothing to "truck" through. She's a manipulative slut, and you're a willing, lap dog servant. You are not making any progress with her, and, most importantly, you aren't making any progress with yourself.

I was going to write something like this, but decided to read through the replies to not look stupid, lol.

But yeah, what he said. Do you want to date a cheating slut? If she's doing that with him, odds are she will do that with you.

edit

your shitting me right?.. so techically she cheated on her "bf" with 5 other guys inlcuding yourself.. your CEREAL about trying to get together with this girls who's obvvously been around the block.. >.>..

Just think about this.. if she can do it to him why wouldnt she do it to you later on?... Just saying..

i know someone who kept her x as a backup all the time...when she'd get bored, she'd dump him for someone else and then when that didn't work out she'd go back with him.....what I'm trying to say is that if you keep allowing her to use you when she feels it convenient, then she'll never stop ....

i came to my senses... i have kicked this girl to the curb

^ 10+ for you my man

after reading the 65 post....one more advice....when at work...treat her like a co-worker and nothing more