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Tzang69 02-28-2011 10:16 PM

if you look at the varying range of answers its largely circumstantial. how is this even a topic of discussion

RCubed 02-28-2011 10:19 PM

^Well its currently being discussed, isn't it?
Therefore it is a topic of discussion. Duh.

lowside67 02-28-2011 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by toyota86 (Post 7322752)
I've never heard of this either. But I joke with my girlfriend that if she doesn't stop rubbing the side bolster when getting in and out of the car and wearing the leather out, I'm going to make her sit in the back. Cars with sports seats are not chick friendly.

Maybe you need a smaller gf? :troll:

tripleA 03-01-2011 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by PuYang (Post 7322869)

if im alone with my dad while he drives, i MUST sit up front with him. or it is considered disrespectful. (hes not my cheauffeur, and i am not the boss.) if me and my bro both ride in my dads car, ONE OF US (doesnt matter which), must also sit in the front.

This is what me and my dad do as well since i was little.

StaxBundlez 03-01-2011 11:47 PM

when i read the thread, this is what i came up with..



J-Chow 03-02-2011 01:12 AM

Whenever I have a passenger they always sit in the front. Whether it's family or friend. It's just blatantly rude to sit in the back as the only passenger, and that's been noted already.

Plus, all my passengers hate sitting in the back. My exhaust annoys the hell out of them and all they hear is droning. By the end of the road trip, they step outta the car and complain my car sounds like a boat. :troll:

Jayhall 03-02-2011 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by J-Chow (Post 7325590)
Plus, all my passengers hate sitting in the back. My exhaust annoys the hell out of them and all they hear is droning. By the end of the road trip, they step outta the car and complain my car sounds like a boat. :troll:

same thing I tell people who complain about my exhaust, or the small back seat in my pick up: Dont like it? GTFO and find your own way, theres no complaining allowed in my car or truck.

Another thing I found interesting last night. I was driving my room mates home from work and gave another friend a ride home too. She was the first one out leaving my room mates in the back, and he insisted that his girlfriend came and sat up front and he stayed in the tiny ass back seat.

MG1 03-02-2011 11:36 AM

What pisses me off more are people who fiddle with the climate controls or the damn stereo. Sitting there is OK - a privilege, but don't mess with my dash controls. That is grounds for hitting the eject button.

Exceptions - heat and adjustment controls for their seat, maybe the vents on their side. I even allow visors to be touched, but that's about it.

LenovoTurbo 03-02-2011 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by 89blkcivic (Post 7325970)
What pisses me off more are people who fiddle with the climate controls or the damn stereo. Sitting there is OK - a privilege, but don't mess with my dash controls. That is grounds for hitting the eject button.

Exceptions - heat and adjustment controls for their seat, maybe the vents on their side. I even allow visors to be touched, but that's about it.

Especially the stereo's EQ adjusted to your liking and they mess with that and the sub control. :devil:

marksport 03-02-2011 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by stewie (Post 7322423)
in no way am i trying to be rude here, but me and my friend were noticing that we see asian families drive with the husband driving, while the wife sits in the backseat with either the front seat empty, or occupied by a child. why is this?
again, me and my friend were just curious, we've only seen asian families do this, is there a reason for this?

Children love bouncy castles and airbags, so this makes sense.

ae101 03-02-2011 09:47 PM

my dad went so skool in the states back in the 70s, so were not really super chinese in a way, but we taught that the elder guest always come 1st so it doesn't matter if male or female elder guest comes 1st

& at home i always let my sister sit up front even thought shes younger then me, cuz my dads just gonna nag me if its a long drive

mb_ 03-02-2011 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by shenmecar (Post 7322803)
^

This is because my mom doesn't drive at all, so now I got my license and a car, I can drive my mom around so my dad can chill at home. :fuuuuu:

Same thing with me :fuuuuu:

But she'll pay for my gas most of the time :fullofwin:
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butter_sashimi 03-02-2011 10:21 PM

I don't get why a lot of Chinese moms insist of having their son drive them around, even to do simple errands.... while they hold drivers licenses themselves. Sure, you don't have to do any work and driving solo can be scary at first but relying on someone else is pretty restrictive. Not my cup of tea.

hk20000 03-02-2011 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by butter_sashimi (Post 7326762)
I don't get why a lot of Chinese moms insist of having their son drive them around, even to do simple errands.... while they hold drivers licenses themselves. Sure, you don't have to do any work and driving solo can be scary at first but relying on someone else is pretty restrictive. Not my cup of tea.

And so you will never be an Asian mum either. :fullofwin:

ae101 03-02-2011 10:39 PM

whats weird is my auntie did all the driving back in hk, then when they moved here my uncle did all the driving & after my cousin got his drivers he just did the family driving if there doing long trips while my uncle did short trips or when my cousin is at work

Nlkko 03-02-2011 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by butter_sashimi (Post 7326762)
I don't get why a lot of Chinese moms insist of having their son drive them around, even to do simple errands.... while they hold drivers licenses themselves. Sure, you don't have to do any work and driving solo can be scary at first but relying on someone else is pretty restrictive. Not my cup of tea.

Asian children are supposed to take care of the parents in every imaginable ways when the parents reach old age. That's just the way it is. Most of the time, the children would be happy to do it. If the son is busy, he could ask his wife to do it. As the parents get older, they rely more on the kids, not just because they need to but also because they want to hang with them. Who don't want to hang with their kids when they're old?

Not directly related but we do have senior homes but it's an absolute disgrace leaving your parents in there.

Call it cultural difference.

butter_sashimi 03-03-2011 12:00 AM

Thank god my mom prefers to drive to Richmond alone or with my dad to get groceries and stuff. Yay for rare independence.

wouwou 03-03-2011 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by butter_sashimi (Post 7326876)
Yay for rare independence.

that, or your driving is so bad they chose not to sit in the same car with you:troll:

Oleophobic 03-03-2011 07:14 AM

fuck backseat drivers are annoying. Some people really need to be sedated before getting into other people's cars.

flagella 03-03-2011 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by 89blkcivic (Post 7325970)
What pisses me off more are people who fiddle with the climate controls or the damn stereo. Sitting there is OK - a privilege, but don't mess with my dash controls. That is grounds for hitting the eject button.

Exceptions - heat and adjustment controls for their seat, maybe the vents on their side. I even allow visors to be touched, but that's about it.

Shits like that don't happen in s2k.

Passenger> where are all the buttons?


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