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Blinky 03-26-2011 04:09 PM

Money doesn't guarantee happiness: The Secret Fears of the Super Rich
 
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/...per-rich/8419/

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The study is titled “The Joys and Dilemmas of Wealth,” but given that the joys tend to be self-evident, it focuses primarily on the dilemmas. The respondents turn out to be a generally dissatisfied lot, whose money has contributed to deep anxieties involving love, work, and family. Indeed, they are frequently dissatisfied even with their sizable fortunes. Most of them still do not consider themselves financially secure; for that, they say, they would require on average one-quarter more wealth than they currently possess. (Remember: this is a population with assets in the tens of millions of dollars and above.) One respondent, the heir to an enormous fortune, says that what matters most to him is his Christianity, and that his greatest aspiration is “to love the Lord, my family, and my friends.” He also reports that he wouldn’t feel financially secure until he had $1 billion in the bank.
If you're of the mindset that money is an assurance of happiness, here's a bit of insight on why it might not be all that one thinks it might be.

And no, I will not provide Coles notes.

optiblue 03-26-2011 05:07 PM

If you're born with with money and could have everything you ever wanted, then money probably won't bring you happiness. For the rest of us who grew up in the working class and suddenly got rich, it sure as hell can make us happy for a lifetime!

EmperorIS 03-26-2011 05:23 PM

we get emo because canucks lost a game

kids in africa thinks they hit the jackpot if they have clean water

CanadaGoose 03-26-2011 05:32 PM

It's all relative.

It's human nature to never be satisfied, to always strive for more and more and more

When I was younger, all I could dream of was having my license, driving, having this or that, you know. Fast forward to today. I have all those things, and more. Yet I still don't feel totally happy. I want more. But when I sit down and really think about it, I have everything I need - I should be the happiest guy in the world.

Teh Doucher 03-26-2011 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by CanadaGoose (Post 7362441)
It's all relative.

It's human nature to never be satisfied, to always strive for more and more and more

When I was younger, all I could dream of was having my license, driving, having this or that, you know. Fast forward to today. I have all those things, and more. Yet I still don't feel totally happy. I want more. But when I sit down and really think about it, I have everything I need - I should be the happiest guy in the world.

same here. i wish i could be happy with all the stuff i have, but im always sitting here thinking oh, "i could by this, or i could buy that". like right now, im thinking of buying an ipad2. do i need one? nope, but it seems like something totally pointless that would be cool to have.

Carl Johnson 03-26-2011 05:57 PM

"Great wealth is a misfortune; it attracts parasites and repels friends."

Rings pretty true to me.

MG1 03-26-2011 05:59 PM

I don't know about you guys, but I feel lucky to be where I am. I appreciate everything I have. When I start to lose perspective, a trip back to the old neighbourhood brings me down to earth again.

My kids aren't crackheads - my sons aren't douchebags and my daughter has her head screwed on right. They are not going to be a burden on society. That in itself, is gold. Everything else in life is a bonus.

If I were born rich, I wouldn't know what it's like to struggle.

Doesn't matter if you're rich, poor, or all things in between, in the end, we all end up 6 feet under. Having compassion and a good heart - making a difference. Those things make you rich, IMHO.

Don't get me wrong, money is great, but too much is not a good thing. If I won the lottery, I would spread the wealth. Give a lot of it away to people. People who are just down and out and need a helping hand to get them going again. Lotto Max is at 50 million again. Wow!

$_$ 03-26-2011 06:22 PM

Money doesn't guarantee happiness,

but it sure fucking helps.
:fullofwin:

Jegz 03-26-2011 06:51 PM

$ --> happiness

liu13 03-26-2011 07:03 PM

$ buys peace of mind at least, and what's more important than that?

LiquidTurbo 03-26-2011 07:40 PM

What a load of crap. These articles are written by rich people to make sure poor people stay poor :D
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Death2Theft 03-26-2011 07:54 PM

All money does is give you more choices. Whether you are able to make good use of those choices is another thing.
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Hondaracer 03-26-2011 08:04 PM

of course money buys happiness if your smart enough

From the first day of your life when you have a bill to pay, a mortgage, etc. what do you think about 100 times a day?

Money

if you didnt have to think about somthing 100 times a day, that wouldnt make you a happier person?

Psykopathik 03-26-2011 08:28 PM

money can't buy happiness. you rent it.

sh0n 03-26-2011 08:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 89blkcivic (Post 7362465)
I don't know about you guys, but I feel lucky to be where I am. I appreciate everything I have. When I start to lose perspective, a trip back to the old neighbourhood brings me down to earth again.

My kids aren't crackheads - my sons aren't douchebags and my daughter has her head screwed on right. They are not going to be a burden on society. That in itself, is gold. Everything else in life is a bonus.

If I were born rich, I wouldn't know what it's like to struggle.

Doesn't matter if you're rich, poor, or all things in between, in the end, we all end up 6 feet under. Having compassion and a good heart - making a difference. Those things make you rich, IMHO.

Don't get me wrong, money is great, but too much is not a good thing. If I won the lottery, I would spread the wealth. Give a lot of it away to people. People who are just down and out and need a helping hand to get them going again. Lotto Max is at 50 million again. Wow!

Thanks x10000.

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subwoffers 03-26-2011 10:27 PM

Money can't buy happiness. But I would rather cry my eyes out in a Rolls Royce than a rusty Bug.

CanadaGoose 03-26-2011 10:37 PM

^ LOL hahahahah

flagella 03-26-2011 11:18 PM

wow... talk about cliche...

FerrariEnzo 03-27-2011 12:10 AM

of course money can bring happiness... see how many bitches you can have in one night.. then try to break that the next day!

Meowjin 03-27-2011 03:51 AM

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Originally Posted by optiblue (Post 7362409)
If you're born with with money and could have everything you ever wanted, then money probably won't bring you happiness. For the rest of us who grew up in the working class and suddenly got rich, it sure as hell can make us happy for a lifetime!

you're also likely to commit suicide to based on my sociology text book since the norms fall apart since your no longer working class.

illicitstylz 03-27-2011 06:01 AM

sure, money may not be able to buy happiness, but it's a damn good down payment.

v.Rossi 03-27-2011 07:47 AM

No longer having to work Monday to Friday 9-5. That would bring tears of joy to my eyes.

Then I remember how less others get paid for how much more labour they do in other countries, then I just shut up.
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dark0821 03-27-2011 08:08 AM

sigh... as much as I agree with everyone else...

going to a revscene meet all the while owning a stock 1996 corolla doesnt help hahaha
and lets not even bring the kids from SR auto into this...

meh

van_driver 03-27-2011 08:56 AM


rsx 03-27-2011 09:47 AM

Money = Freedom = Options = Happiness


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