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Old 04-12-2011, 11:46 AM   #26
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This guy knows.

I'm asian, well, 75% anyway. And I've dated white girls, mixed girls, and asian girls.

Like Lolkai said, most white girls and asian guys just have different lifestyles, at least in Vancouver. It's just how we all grew up. Which would you expect to see at a rock concert? What about at an arcade?

It really comes down to who you are, and who she is. And everyone's different, regardless of your race.
Your hobbies, clothing style, food choices, brand of humour, music preferences, all come into play. I'm not saying you have to like all the same things, but just generally speaking.

How many asian guys do you know that wear Etnies and know all the words to Journey's Don't Stop Believin, or Aerosmith's Don't Wanna Miss a Thing?

So the way I see it, it's not what you are, but who you are.
Not so much the Etnies part but the rest, I do!



Not going to lie, had more than a few drunken occasions to memorize the songs. Not mention I can only really remember when I'm drunk.

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This guy knows.

I'm asian, well, 75% anyway. And I've dated white girls, mixed girls, and asian girls.

Like Lolkai said, most white girls and asian guys just have different lifestyles, at least in Vancouver. It's just how we all grew up. Which would you expect to see at a rock concert? What about at an arcade?

It really comes down to who you are, and who she is. And everyone's different, regardless of your race.
Your hobbies, clothing style, food choices, brand of humour, music preferences, all come into play. I'm not saying you have to like all the same things, but just generally speaking.

How many asian guys do you know that wear Etnies and know all the words to Journey's Don't Stop Believin, or Aerosmith's Don't Wanna Miss a Thing?

So the way I see it, it's not what you are, but who you are.
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This guy knows.

I'm asian, well, 75% anyway. And I've dated white girls, mixed girls, and asian girls.

Like Lolkai said, most white girls and asian guys just have different lifestyles, at least in Vancouver. It's just how we all grew up. Which would you expect to see at a rock concert? What about at an arcade?

It really comes down to who you are, and who she is. And everyone's different, regardless of your race.
Your hobbies, clothing style, food choices, brand of humour, music preferences, all come into play. I'm not saying you have to like all the same things, but just generally speaking.

How many asian guys do you know that wear Etnies and know all the words to Journey's Don't Stop Believin, or Aerosmith's Don't Wanna Miss a Thing?

So the way I see it, it's not what you are, but who you are.
I've found this thread really interesting as an actual white girl. I have to agree that it's where and who you are. There's certain things that can't be changed, height, race, your family being bat shit crazy, these sorts of things have to be worked around but there's a lot you can do and for the most part I tell all my guy friends to get the hell out into the world doing things they enjoy doing and they'll meet girls who also do things they enjoy doing.

Also - the whole pick up artist bull shit REEKS of desperation. It's gotten cliche and is no longer impressive to the sober. It's like a big ass red flag 'hey I'm trying to convince you to like me against your better judgement' and it has the opposite effect. I'd rather have a slightly nervous guy walk over and say hey then someone working off a script that I promise, sounds cooler in your head then it does coming out of your mouth.

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This has been in Ulic's sig for years and years and it's just as relevant today I guess.

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silvia i have a couple asian guy friends that do very well with the ladies. but guess what, they go to the gym, they dont have long hair, they dont wear orange pants, and they dont play counterstrike. its not the ethnicity that the girls dont like, its the style and personality.
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Not so much the Etnies part but the rest, I do!



Not going to lie, had more than a few drunken occasions to memorize the songs. Not mention I can only really remember when I'm drunk.
Haha me too! Even though I'm 3/4 Asian (i just consider myself an asian boy), I grew up skateboarding, playing guitar and going to rock shows. I guess it makes sense that my first couple girlfriends were white.
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^bro those are total white traits haha!

I used to not know the lyrics to Journey-Don't stop believin' but after working at a hotel with karaoke every night, it just gets drilled into you since every fucken drunk person has to sing this.
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Old 04-13-2011, 07:25 AM   #32
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lol....go to aubar....lots of drunk white girls will grope you after a few shots of red dragons and grenades.
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Old 04-13-2011, 01:31 PM   #34
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I have really close friends who are white and who are asian. it's been said before and I'll say it again, it's the differences in cultures that makes a gap.

Eg. My white girl friend's idea of hanging out is to go to an open mic night and have some beers. The entire time I was there it was 99% white people, I saw maybe 2 other asian people there that night.

My chinese girl friend's idea of hanging out is bbt maybe go karaoke or try a new restuarant. I usually see about 99% asian people at these places, occasionally a white person.

The key to bridging this "gap" is to just be open minded to trying different experiences and to have fun. I had a blast at my first open mic night, some of the people sucked but I made it fun by focusing on what i liked, not what i didn't like.

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I've found this thread really interesting as an actual white girl. I have to agree that it's where and who you are. There's certain things that can't be changed, height, race, your family being bat shit crazy, these sorts of things have to be worked around but there's a lot you can do and for the most part I tell all my guy friends to get the hell out into the world doing things they enjoy doing and they'll meet girls who also do things they enjoy doing.

Also - the whole pick up artist bull shit REEKS of desperation. It's gotten cliche and is no longer impressive to the sober. It's like a big ass red flag 'hey I'm trying to convince you to like me against your better judgement' and it has the opposite effect. I'd rather have a slightly nervous guy walk over and say hey then someone working off a script that I promise, sounds cooler in your head then it does coming out of your mouth.

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Old 04-13-2011, 01:57 PM   #36
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dude its sooo much easier getting white girls than asian girls.

most likely white girls don't know alot about asian culture show them a few things take them out grab ramen or something just play it cool keep her interested and BAM you got them on your nuts
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straight up i bow to every white girl I meet haha it works not lying
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I have a bunch of asian buddies and I'm pretty sure they ALL have white girlfriends...
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what we talking about when we say 'asian'?

ive seen alot of brown and flips with white gf's but its extremely rare to see chinese/korean/japanese with white gf's

so for the people who are saying they're asian and been with a white gf, what kind of asian are u?

at the end of the day, i think being what kind of asian you are plays a big part in this
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what we talking about when we say 'asian'?


so for the people who are saying they're asian and been with a white gf, what kind of asian are u?

at the end of the day, i think being what kind of asian you are plays a big part in this
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what we talking about when we say 'asian'?

ive seen alot of brown and flips with white gf's but its extremely rare to see chinese/korean/japanese with white gf's

so for the people who are saying they're asian and been with a white gf, what kind of asian are u?

at the end of the day, i think being what kind of asian you are plays a big part in this
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The #1 reason is because you lack true confidence. Girls in general can easily sense your aura of desperation. If you can develop an appearance where people (men and women) can easily approach and talk to you, it will increase your chances in meeting any girl.

Most girls are attracted to guys with power and status too. With the right combination of having the right aura and knowing the right people, you just stand and wait - the girls will come to you naturally.
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yup i totally agree with what you just stated. im sure it happens if your a chinese, korean, jap guy that is like at least 5 10 and nice car it doesnt hurt and your english is good and all but still its very rare to see.
the guys that say the get it. well i like to see it or its just really all talk.


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what we talking about when we say 'asian'?

ive seen alot of brown and flips with white gf's but its extremely rare to see chinese/korean/japanese with white gf's

so for the people who are saying they're asian and been with a white gf, what kind of asian are u?

at the end of the day, i think being what kind of asian you are plays a big part in this
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this has to be the first time joe_45 has responded to his own thread
he's probably started half of the thread in this forum and never reply back.
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lol, it's relevant everyday, this topic has been brought up a lot for years.
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