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Old 05-26-2011, 12:30 PM   #1
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GF hooking up with friend I introduced

So this is what's happening to my friend who is a guy.

He and his gf has been dating for years, recently he introduced some friends to his gf, then within weeks his gf is hooking up with one of the friends he introduced. He confronted the gf and they got into a huge argument, the gf denies that there is anything between them, but he has confirmed that there is something between them. The gf uses the argument as an excuse to break up with my friend, but continues to deny that she's hooking up with the new guy. Has anyone experienced this? My friend thinks the gf is denying just so she won't be seen as a slut.

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Old 05-26-2011, 12:34 PM   #2
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This relationship was doomed before the introduction. It was just a matter of time. I have seen this situation played out a million times (typically in the 16-23 year old crowd).

And seriously, who dates a girl for years before introducing her to his friends?
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My guy friend has been taking his gf to his parties and introducing her to his friends. I guess this particular time it was some relatively new friend?
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I agree with TheNewGirl. Its usually the younger ones that jump from guy to guy like that.
Always on the lookout for "something better"

Girls like this need to be taken out back and shot. If a guy were to do it women start bitching and moaning about it, so what makes it ok for them to?
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Leave it at that. Your buddy deserves better.. Better sonner than later.
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Old 05-26-2011, 01:19 PM   #6
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That's what I have been telling him, but he's really upset as he really liked this chick and spent a lot of time + effort for her.
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sunk cost.

Can't do anything about it. Tell your friend not to fret, guys stocks always go up with age anyway, girls always go down -- he'll find the equilibrium.
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I agree with TheNewGirl. Its usually the younger ones that jump from guy to guy like that.
Always on the lookout for "something better"

Girls like this need to be taken out back and shot. If a guy were to do it women start bitching and moaning about it, so what makes it ok for them to?
It's not just girls who do this. I have seen boys bounce from friend to friend the same way.

It's just a thing people do in their late teens and early 20s (usually) when both their hormones are raging and they don't know what they want in a partner so they're trying out lots of different things until they do find what works for them.

It's normal and to be expected. And while it sucks when it happens to you it's also nothing to be overly worried about.

Clearly the relationship wasn't going to work out. Time to look else where.
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Did your friend confront this guy? Also just for curiosity, how old are all these people?
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First off, a bad friend obviously, taking your buddies girlfriend?
2nd , the girl is just using it as an excuse so she wouldn't be labelled a slut

Like said above, who introduces friends after years into a relationship ?
Things were just not ment to be .
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well on the bright side, at least he's not the one having his friend's second hand poon l0l
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Old 05-27-2011, 01:12 PM   #13
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They all in their mid-twenties. Not sure if the guy was confronted, but he did confront his gf.
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Old 05-27-2011, 05:09 PM   #14
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What exactly are you looking for here?

If we have any experience with said situation?

or what we think?

or advice?

you need to be more descriptive
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the fuck are you gonna do about it? haha
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i think he's just venting... theres no call to action
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Just trying to see if there are any ways to help a friend, or share experiences. I just tell him to move on.
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Tell him to put his feelings aside and let it ride.
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the fuck are you gonna do about it? haha
even though he can't do anything, he is still trying to ideas to help out his friend.
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Tell your buddy to man up and call his friend to get confirm what the fuck is going on.

If he said yea I been banging her then gg
if he says no buy her a chanel bag so she stfu
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That's what I have been telling him, but he's really upset as he really liked this chick and spent a lot of time + effort for her.
its what happens when you spoil a girl. they get bored...


Plently more fishes in the sea... dont let your friend worry..
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tell your buddy to fuck one of her good looking friends....grudge fuck always makes you feel better......
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