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!Yaminashi 06-12-2011 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by scottsman (Post 7469670)
No guy would be sending msgs like that unless there was a reason to do so. I also wouldn't be proud about the fact that she got 3 texts while you were with her. How did you find out about the msgs? if she is telling and showing you it is because she wants to make you jealous and get a reaction.

Like others have said you are getting played or about to. If guys are waiting for her to be single then whatever she is telling them is leading them on.

I would consider to get rid of her if this behavior continues because your only solution at some point down the road will be to get in fights with her(verbal) and/or fights with these guys(physical/verbal). Then you have to think is taking it that far even worth it for a girl like this.

I agree with this. It doesnt sound lile shes worth the trouble or worth waiting to find out
If shes as shady as she seems.

Why waste your time with some chick that gives you reason to doubt her
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The_AK 06-12-2011 10:01 PM

i love how this thread went from "How to deal with coworker bothering girl" to "You should leave her ass"

/waits for updates =P

tiger_handheld 06-12-2011 10:05 PM

also, it would be good if we can get pics of said female - just to verify the story is not bs.

terryjai 06-13-2011 07:37 AM

and my question to the OP is.....HOW LONG HAVE YOU GUYS BEEN TOGETHER?

Jayboogz 06-13-2011 08:00 AM

Lol sHeZ gOt GuYz On daH sYd3 foo!
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Ulic Qel-Droma 06-14-2011 11:11 PM

you guys are ruling out the fact that maybe she's really pretty.

and that some guys out there just don't stop.

the thing is, how do they get her number? lol she's obviously giving it out.

PornMaster 06-15-2011 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma (Post 7473120)
you guys are ruling out the fact that maybe she's really pretty.

and that some guys out there just don't stop.

the thing is, how do they get her number? lol she's obviously giving it out.

She probably is giving more then her number out.

To OP if the only reason you found out about those text messages is because you were there with her then you got to watch out.

Sounds like she just got busted and trying to bail her ass out.

El Bastardo 06-18-2011 09:26 AM

The following is a reply from the Anonymous member

GF missing for a day with no replys from fb/text/call while I was at North Van

her story was that she left the phone in the car of her friends the earlier night and went to work the next day. Didn't call me at break or anything after. My computer was on the whole time, msn/fb

i dumped her with many doubts. Thanks revscene

:fuckyea:

!Yaminashi 06-18-2011 01:56 PM

Well played. Go find yourself a real woman
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FerrariEnzo 06-18-2011 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Tachycardia! (Post 7478806)
The following is a reply from the Anonymous member

GF missing for a day with no replys from fb/text/call while I was at North Van

her story was that she left the phone in the car of her friends the earlier night and went to work the next day. Didn't call me at break or anything after. My computer was on the whole time, msn/fb

i dumped her with many doubts. Thanks revscene

:fuckyea:

LMAO... cant believe she fed you that BS...

doesnt she have work phone or co-workers phone to use..

did you get pics of her nake!! should post it on the net to get back at her!!! :fullofwin:

ruthless 06-18-2011 04:58 PM

Good Job Anonymous poster...you came to your senses, not many do :thumbsup:

Presto 06-18-2011 09:17 PM

Thanks for manning up, Anon. You are a credit to our gender.

Ulic Qel-Droma 06-19-2011 02:19 AM

you did something, many people wouldn't be able to do.

lol please update us if she decides to contact you again haha!

Skyline350gt 06-19-2011 09:00 PM

ummm yo.... since you guys broke up... curious to see what she looks like.

POST PICS~!! :alone:

The_AK 06-19-2011 09:02 PM

yo whats her number?

ruthless 06-19-2011 09:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Skyline350gt (Post 7480481)
ummm yo.... since you guys broke up... curious to see what she looks like.

POST PICS~!! :alone:

No Locals :moderatorban:


Spoiler!

brokentelephone 06-20-2011 02:00 AM

This thread is clearly BS....

dasani604 06-20-2011 12:30 PM

LOL out of the very few threads that I have read in this section, this has to be the most entertaining yet relatable.

If this is a true situation, then you did the right thing. The only reason why you should have stayed after such a stunt was only for sex. <-- consider it shallow all you want but at the end of the day, we're mammals and that's what we're out for.

Do update if she contacts again because that will be the most difficult part (especially if she throws herself at you if you know what I mean ;) but by then you'll probably have a better concept of what kind of girl she is). Out of curiosity does she have family (mainly daddy) issues?

El Bastardo 06-22-2011 02:02 AM

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just giving an update. We both felt sad and i tried to get back with her :facepalm: i felt :alone: I sort of regret dumping her because it felt too early.

ended up Kissing for a bit and she is too cute to let go

We are not officially back together but She wants to hang on the weekend... so I don't know what is going to happen... And what is the question with daddy issues? What does that mean??

Also

She actually blocked me off and I don't think she is the type that will be asking me back. and no, this story is NOT bs...

dasani604 06-22-2011 07:41 AM

Daddy issues as in if she has relationship issues with her father - do they fight a lot, do they not speak often, does she resent him, does he resent her, does she often talk about how she is being mistreated by him.

Those signs usually lead to a girl who constantly desires attention whether she will admit it or not. She can deny it all she wants but her actions show it. Why you may ask? It's because it took her a while to finally state that she has a boyfriend. Also, with every guy she could have said something that suggests "screw off I'm not interested", but she didn't. I know some girls have their ironically hypocritical rule of not being blunt and honest to a guy when rejecting him (while they expect us not to talk to any girls - this is an extreme case and usually only related to the "daddy issue girl" personality).

It's ultimately your decision, but I'd suggest letting her work for it to see if she really does want the relationship with you. If not, then you will know for sure you got played cause she'll have a handful of guys to choose from. Throw away any pride, ego, emotion - think logically for this decision. Good luck

SkinnyPupp 06-22-2011 09:19 AM

The thing about these anonymous posts is that we can't fail the OP when they are being dickwads :mad:

Presto 06-22-2011 10:01 AM

:facepalm:

El Bastardo 06-23-2011 12:39 PM

The following is a reply from the Anonymous member


Just wondering, does it mean that we are back together if she kissed my lips for a long time before I left? I still talk to her but I am unsure... we are going to see each other in the weekend too if that helps..

Jsunu 06-23-2011 12:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tachycardia! (Post 7487541)
The following is a reply from the Anonymous member


Just wondering, does it mean that we are back together if she kissed my lips for a long time before I left? I still talk to her but I am unsure... we are going to see each other in the weekend too if that helps..

Err did you ask her?

also :facepalm:

TypeRNammer 06-23-2011 12:48 PM

Physical contact doesn't mean you're back together :facepalm:


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