[Confidential] Advice after breakup

[racerman88]

time to move on

[Lamboda]

You need to take some time off and do stuff that takes out some of your energy. If I were you I'd hit the gym and drive because those activities keep my mind out of these things. But ultimately only time heals the heart and mind. If you stop thinking about her, she'll eventually fade out of your mind. There will be some lingering thoughts about her but that's all natural.

I'm not here to tell you that there's a lot of girls out there because she holds a special place in your heart. But what has past is a past chapter. Flip open a new page and write the better story. All those errors you had before take the lessons and improve it.

I don't suggest calling or texting her because that will only make things more awkward. What are you going to talk about? If anything, talk in person and show that it doesn't affect you in any way.

[miss_crayon]

Truth be told:

-she isn't texting/contacting you because you were never that important to her
-if you do hear from her it's because she's lonely and wants attention/feeling that she's loved
-the reason you miss her is because you probably haven't had much realationship experience to know what a good relationship should feel/be like
-you did the right thing by breaking it off because it wouldn't have lasted if she wasn't willing to meet you halfway
-relationships are a 2 way street..nobody should have to put out more effort than the other. This goes for friendships, relationships with a bf..gf etc,
-don't feel too bad because one day you will fall in love with the right person and she'll never make you feel less than what you deserve
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[El Bastardo]

The following is a reply from the Anonymous member

Well I want to thank everyone for the support and advice. I guess the reason we all search for others opinions and advice is to look for someone to give us the answers we want to hear, despite ourselves knowing the answer.

Just an update:
I just found out from a friend that this girl loves to sleep around, i could have sworn it felt otherwise. She swings with a bunch of different guys within her own group of friends and sleeps with her "Best Friend's" boyfriend. She also plays out the same story about the to every guy and uses that excuse to leave them. (i know from a few others who knew my exact story)

Sad and needless to say I never saw coming that she was such a sleaze and a dirt bag (but a good sleaze the type that wont gold dig you on the way of taking you down) Frankly one day she will get whats coming to her, I honestly dont know if she was sleeping around for that month we were together but thank god im out now. I feel bad for whoever is next in line.
But im thankful for her because she taught me how to be a good person and realize my wrong ways from my past relationship. She also taught me what was important to me and what I require in a partner.

If she ever comes across this all i have to say is good luck in life and see you hell when i get there

[FerrariEnzo]

Man, sounds like she played you... hope you didnt spend a fortune on her already...

do something to get your mind off her...

like go hang out with your guy buddies... go play sports...




Post pics of this Slut!!!

[The_AK]

Do you bro, do you, hit the gym, lift heavy, no mambo jumbo just 100%, helps clear the mind. Keep your chin up no fuss no fight feel me?

Always.

[will068]

Whatever you feel like doing that involves her - do the opposite.

- you wanna call her ? Don't call her
- you wanna text her ? Don't text her
- she reaches out to you and you wanna respond ? Don't respond

[Gridlock]

Advice after a break-up?

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone.