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G35_ 10-22-2011 10:10 AM

lolz

will068 10-22-2011 10:49 AM

To the OP:

The point of freedom of speech is so that you are allowed something controversial. However, do not expect that everyone is going to respond politely to controversial things that you said.

Saying "Nigga" - especially if you have some whiteness in you, is controversial.

If she found it offensive (since her homegirl is black), then she'll give you an earful. Expect that. Don't bitch about it.

Lastly, it's an ugly girl, why do you care so much about opinions of ugly women :heckno:


By the way, what happened after she approached her black friend? :fullofwin::fullofwin:



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Originally Posted by mx703 (Post 7622531)
It's just common courtesy in my opinion.

Defintely agree.

Skyline350gt 10-22-2011 11:10 AM

Nigga is in my daily slurrr niggass

minoru_tanaka 10-22-2011 12:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 1exotic (Post 7622216)
too bad you're a phaggot

Quote:

Originally Posted by illicitstylz (Post 7622223)
Good luck with your racism goals of 2011.

Quote:

Originally Posted by nsmb (Post 7622274)
strong username to thread topic

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Originally Posted by The_AK (Post 7622322)
Next time op please.... stay safe.

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Originally Posted by rsx (Post 7622403)
Everyone just stay safe

Is this a revscene STT I am missing out on?

I was caught by an african canadian saying nigga to a friend before when I was younger.
The guy said "wasup". I said "I'm talking to him(a half black friend)". Black guy laughed and walked off
But on the other hand a hindu friend of mine was making fun of the Guru's to another sikh friend. A stranger punjabi heard and a short shoving match ensued. Since then I have kept my racism among friends more low key and for sure not yelling it out in public.

Tim Budong 10-22-2011 12:51 PM

serious question
from a story Orgasm_Donor told me

What if a black man said this to a white guy
Cool shirt nigga?

spideyv2 10-22-2011 12:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by minoru_tanaka (Post 7624717)
Is this a revscene STT I am missing out on?

I was caught by an african canadian saying nigga to a friend before when I was younger.
The guy said "wasup". I said "I'm talking to him(a half black friend)". Black guy laughed and walked off
But on the other hand a hindu friend of mine was making fun of the Guru's to another sikh friend. A stranger punjabi heard and a short shoving match ensued. Since then I have kept my racism among friends more low key and for sure not yelling it out in public.

Only wk's use the term 'be safe' :troll:
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minoru_tanaka 10-22-2011 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by jayare604 (Post 7624727)
Only wk's use the term 'be safe' :troll:
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Sorry I guess one slipped by. Sorry

spideyv2 10-22-2011 12:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by minoru_tanaka (Post 7624730)
Sorry I guess one slipped by. Sorry

Stay safe
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Lamboda 10-22-2011 01:44 PM

You weren't wrong for saying the N word. You weren't right for saying it too. This is because in this context you provided you were referring to your friend and he wasn't offended by it. However, this girl that you mentioned just happened to hear it. Now, if you were referring it to her then you are definitely in the wrong, but she was in fact in the wrong here too. She shouldn't have demanded you to stop using that word; she can't force it on you. She should have politely asked for an apology or something.

But you've also made a bad choice to respond in the way you did. You can blame it on the alcohol or whatever, but it takes a man to accept your responsibilities. You could have politely replied sorry instead of agitating her and yourself. Sorry is a word that doesn't have meaning until you back it up. You could have just 'apologized' but not mean it for that girl and it would have avoided the whole situation.

My main point that I'm trying to get across is that it takes two. There are always multiple sides for situation like these.

By the way, I don't really like the way you described her as 'ugly' you didn't have to put it there. I think you should keep this stuff yourself sometimes it doesn't matter if she's ugly or not. However you did mention that her ugliness agitated you, so I think something is wrong here.

TheKingdom2000 10-22-2011 02:42 PM

^ actually, I think her appearance has everything to do with it.

I mean, what if this chick was a ten? Chances are, OP's reactions might have been different?
Appearance has everything to do with everything. (Initially, anyways)

jack3d 10-22-2011 02:55 PM

this is one of those cool story bro moments.. cool story bro

static 10-22-2011 02:58 PM

"NiggA (with an A)" to my close friend , and just him- not loud enough for anyone else to hea

...clearly it was loud enough for someone else to hear it, wasn't it...

!YaoShi 10-23-2011 10:17 AM

Op is just a nagger
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nsmb 10-23-2011 10:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by minoru_tanaka (Post 7624717)
Is this a revscene STT I am missing out "


please respond

Psykopathik 10-24-2011 08:10 AM

Quote:

...." and finger her. She storms off and fingers me.
who brought the lube?

The_AK 10-24-2011 10:34 AM

If you really wanted a good response from her and her friend you would have asked the dj to drop this:


tiger_handheld 10-24-2011 10:56 AM

could've avoided this entire thread by replying "ok" to the polish chick and have a blast with your budz.

Yuffa 10-24-2011 12:16 PM

You are.

/end thread.

white_guilt 10-24-2011 01:07 PM

Late reply, but I had school and other pressing matters. To be honest, I already knew exactly who was in the wrong. This country was built on freedom of expression. That broad should have known that. I did not go around yelling "Nigger" at the top of my lungs (in fact I have never used that word in malice , ever in my life), nor did I trample upon someone else' unalienable rights to freedom of speech , expression, culture, etc. It was an exchange that took place between two friends- between two adults, in a crowded and noisy environment during a party where alcohol was present.

Your rights to free speech end where someone else' begins. I never crossed the line; I was right in this case, and she had no business to come into mine. I am a sociology minor and I posted this to see what kind of reaction I'd get. To see just how totally PC-crazy this free country has become. Thanks for proving my point. You people should learn the meaning of the word "context", and how even the most disparaging comments have no weight given certain contexts. However, I am not here to give you guys a lesson on socially acceptable forms of syntax, perhaps when you leave high school you will encounter it first hand. In the mean time, all you PC-lunatics absolutely sicken me (but it's probably not your fault since most of you are ESLs). Thanks to everyone else who saw my side. toodles! :)

white_guilt 10-24-2011 01:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lamboda (Post 7624792)
You weren't wrong for saying the N word. You weren't right for saying it too. This is because in this context you provided you were referring to your friend and he wasn't offended by it. However, this girl that you mentioned just happened to hear it. Now, if you were referring it to her then you are definitely in the wrong, but she was in fact in the wrong here too. She shouldn't have demanded you to stop using that word; she can't force it on you. She should have politely asked for an apology or something.

But you've also made a bad choice to respond in the way you did. You can blame it on the alcohol or whatever, but it takes a man to accept your responsibilities. You could have politely replied sorry instead of agitating her and yourself. Sorry is a word that doesn't have meaning until you back it up. You could have just 'apologized' but not mean it for that girl and it would have avoided the whole situation.

My main point that I'm trying to get across is that it takes two. There are always multiple sides for situation like these.

By the way, I don't really like the way you described her as 'ugly' you didn't have to put it there. I think you should keep this stuff yourself sometimes it doesn't matter if she's ugly or not. However you did mention that her ugliness agitated you, so I think something is wrong here.

I owe her an apology for what exactly? For being in her presence? For breathing her air? For exercising my right to free speech? For the emotional and physical torment I inflicted upon her virgin ears? What?? givemeafuckingbreak.

chun 10-24-2011 01:29 PM

^ I believe what Lamboda is saying is that if you keep up this attitude and you're in for a lot of unnecessary, meaningless and most importantly AVOIDABLE shit in your life.

GLOW 10-24-2011 01:33 PM

whenever using the N word pops up i immediately think of this scene @ 4:15


Mananetwork 10-24-2011 01:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by white_guilt (Post 7627025)
It was an exchange that took place between two friends- between two adults, in a crowded and noisy environment during a party where alcohol was present.

First, as a mature adult, you handled it like a drunk 18year old with a chip on his shoulder. Putting your smart as attitude ahead of your common sense was stupid. Secondly, stop blaming your judgement on alcohol because if you were an adult, you'd know how to handle it like one.

Only smack talkers and young kids can't handle their booze who need something to prove

SumAznGuy 10-24-2011 02:18 PM

Didn't read what you said. The thanks is for your avitar. =)

darkfroggy 10-24-2011 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by white_guilt (Post 7627025)
Late reply, but I had school and other pressing matters. To be honest, I already knew exactly who was in the wrong. This country was built on freedom of expression. That broad should have known that. I did not go around yelling "Nigger" at the top of my lungs (in fact I have never used that word in malice , ever in my life), nor did I trample upon someone else' unalienable rights to freedom of speech , expression, culture, etc. It was an exchange that took place between two friends- between two adults, in a crowded and noisy environment during a party where alcohol was present.

Your rights to free speech end where someone else' begins. I never crossed the line; I was right in this case, and she had no business to come into mine. I am a sociology minor and I posted this to see what kind of reaction I'd get. To see just how totally PC-crazy this free country has become. Thanks for proving my point. You people should learn the meaning of the word "context", and how even the most disparaging comments have no weight given certain contexts. However, I am not here to give you guys a lesson on socially acceptable forms of syntax, perhaps when you leave high school you will encounter it first hand. In the mean time, all you PC-lunatics absolutely sicken me (but it's probably not your fault since most of you are ESLs). Thanks to everyone else who saw my side. toodles! :)

ITT: Butthurt racist and probably a sexist too (refers to women as "broads").


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