[Confidential] Not just about sex, but I have needs too.
 

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Hi I just have a lil problem with my gf and i want it confidential and i wanna get some insights from fellow members..

anyways i havent had any sex more than a week now and being a man it kills me inside. Its like all day i dream about is sex and im losing my mind(seems crazy but it is what it is).
Recently i started hinting her that its way pass due and it need to commence asap. I got cranky one time cuz i got lots on my mind and shes like "whoa someones cranky,probbably cuz someone didnt one" and i was like "well its not my fault,i gave all the clues".
She got all emotional and she said "its all about sex huh" and its not,i truely love her but i have needs too. i explained everything to her and shes still not fully convinced.
we had this argument before too same exact situation and results...


How do you guys deal with drought?..is it me whose wrong in this situation?..how do you "smooth talk her" and all that stuff?...thanks revscene, show me the light..

Problem:

Solution:

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Man, I would have killed for a boyfriend who actually wanted to bone.

Back on topic. Hm, have you guys been doing it a lot before? If so, maybe she might feel as though it's turning into a routine. I know several of my friends decided not to have sex as often so it feels more "special."

Besides, you have your best friend Jill! :D

:suspicious::suspicious:

OP should just go rub one out.




Seriously. It's not that bad.

actually when the guy is making a lot of money or making results, the drive for sex becomes less and less, until it becomes a waste of time to him


true story

Buy a fleshlight!!

edit, wrong thread

How old is op?

I just had this complication in my life.. gf and I broke up over this exact situation.
Happily back together now.. yet I realized 1 thing.

Guys have needs, definately no arguing that. But if she doesn't want it, she doesn't want it. If you love her you got to respect that. I temporarily LOST my relationship over sex, and I've seen that it's not the most important thing in the world.

Give her a massage.. or something to intise her to have sex.. you can't just stare at her and be like "Lets Fuck." especially if she doesn't want it to begin with.. You need to put some effort into it.

PS. Your a guy.. do you get hints when your gf gives you them.. I definately don't get hints.

Why would your gf give you hints if she's horny? Tell her to man up and just say it
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Well I mean you have 2 choice. Either stick it out or break up.

You arleady told her how you feel and what you want. If she isn't willing to work with you or make some compreiste then she doesn't care. Is like she only want things done her way only.

She is already cutting you from sex now think about what happens when you marry.

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It's okay.. it's coming from a user that misspelled his username.

OP, if she doesn't want to fuck, how her about giving you a BJ or HJ? Worst case: FAP. If you're horny all the time, it's good to have options!

my body is ready


anyways yea this is a touchy subject. best thing to do as always is to talk about it tell her how you feel and how find out what she wants in order for her to put out more. be straight forward

This one is a good one:

"I wish you were my homework."

Not hints about sex.. hinting about ANYTHING.

Lol wait till ur married. It gets worse. She's the one hounding you for sex, and you will be the one who will consider it a chore
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you dont have kids by any chance.. lol...
the more kids you have, the less chance for sex....

go to the porn thread, get some tissues and done in 5mins.. lol...


get her drunk.. BANG the fuck out of her and finish as many times as you want... when she wakes up, make her breakfast.... she wont know what happen the night before... lol



this is how to do it..

Make a nice dinner/wine, play some nice music, buy her some lingerie.. and get ready for a good night...


or take her to fright nights and scare the shit out of her and shes gona wana have to sleep with you that night..

Look just tell your gf you need to have sex and is part of a relationship. If she doesn't want to then you can either break up or live with it.

Your GF will not change what she thinks. Think about it, if she isn't willing to see things from your end is she really a gf you want to keep?

The thought that she may be getting it from another man never occurred in anyone else's head? No one at all?! Perhaps a man who lays down expectations? No one?! May not be true, but it's a possibility that we shouldn't rule out.

A slight hint from OP about sex to his SO and an argument erupts. Of course the concept is don't think about sex, in the end you usually receive sex as chicks get turned off by sexual innuendos and comments but still. That ain't love, she's bored of you. You don't think a chick with high interest wouldn't be thinking about sex? And no, pleaseo don't get defensive, that wouldn't make her less trashy or a considered as a nympho/whore whatever you wanna call it.
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..wait I don't have a gf :alone:

Sex can play a huge part in a relationship especially if needs aren't being met, a lot of times leading to resentment, break ups or affairs/cheating. But a week isn't that bad. Start worrying when it's only once or twice a month. Try talking to her, setting the mood. Remember, guys are visual creatures and gets stimulated through sight and females are more emotional and cognitive creatures, compliment her, make her feel sexy and special. If not, girls can distinguish between competition and sexual arousal, you challenge her to a video game or something, make sure she's having a good time and suddenly you find her gettin' friskay witcha ;)