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Mr.HappySilp 06-01-2012 06:31 PM

LOL good thing my parents aren't strict.

Gridlock 06-02-2012 08:08 AM

I think a few people are missing some things here.

A) she probably didn't have money...so that rules out a cab and public transit

B) SHE PROBABLY DIDN'T WANT TO GO HOME!

Her dipshit father freaked out about a test that she didn't do well on, drove her to a fucking mall and said" off you go". Would you be in a rush to go home?

That would be the last place I would want to go.

What's he going to do when you finally arrive home 4 hours later...hug and say you made past the first test, your next challenge is a different city?

Psykopathik 06-04-2012 08:31 AM

all i want is my kid to be smart enough not to die on the street or before me.

Phil@rise 06-04-2012 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gridlock (Post 7935467)
I think a few people are missing some things here.

A) she probably didn't have money...so that rules out a cab and public transit

B) SHE PROBABLY DIDN'T WANT TO GO HOME!

Her dipshit father freaked out about a test that she didn't do well on, drove her to a fucking mall and said" off you go". Would you be in a rush to go home?

That would be the last place I would want to go.

What's he going to do when you finally arrive home 4 hours later...hug and say you made past the first test, your next challenge is a different city?

Yeah I guess she's the only 16 year old girl with no friends or family to go to while dad chills down.
I'm a father of a 16 year old girl I know the game and have no sympathy for stupidity or lazyness. This may just be another case of law enforcement or government steppin in where they are not needed.
I also highly doubt a transit driver would refuse entry to a broke, scared, lost kid. They would give her directions and a pass to get home.

Mr.HappySilp 06-04-2012 06:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Phil@rise (Post 7937476)
Yeah I guess she's the only 16 year old girl with no friends or family to go to while dad chills down.
I'm a father of a 16 year old girl I know the game and have no sympathy for stupidity or lazyness. This may just be another case of law enforcement or government steppin in where they are not needed.
I also highly doubt a transit driver would refuse entry to a broke, scared, lost kid. They would give her directions and a pass to get home.

Would u want to go home after being kick out? I sure don't. Beside the father drop her off 4hours drive from her house. So is like from Whislter to Metrotown. Pretty far to try and catch a bus.

Grades isn't all the important IMO. Say you are a Chinese, you speak and use the language everyday and then takes a Chinese course in school at get 100%. It doesn't prove a thing coz you know it already. Beside good grades doesn't really get you a good job these days. There are so many bookworms who got couldn't find a decent job. Is connections, street smart and some schooling that gets a good job.

Noir 06-04-2012 09:46 PM

What are the odds that it was just the father daring her to go out on her own... kinda like: You know, when you threaten your parents you will run away, they show you the door. Or if you will call child protective services, they hand you the phone.



I'm just wondering if they just had a big blowout argument and she threatened either, she doesn't want to live with them anymore, or she can survive on her own, etc... and the parents called her bluff and said... "I'll drive you there myself"

goo3 06-05-2012 03:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Phil@rise (Post 7937476)
Yeah I guess she's the only 16 year old girl with no friends or family to go to while dad chills down.
I'm a father of a 16 year old girl I know the game and have no sympathy for stupidity or lazyness. This may just be another case of law enforcement or government steppin in where they are not needed.
I also highly doubt a transit driver would refuse entry to a broke, scared, lost kid. They would give her directions and a pass to get home.

:lawl:

Ghetto Asian parents raising ghetto Asian kids. Textbook.

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A Lower Gwynedd father who authorities accused of abandoning his teenage daughter in Cheltenham, allegedly because of a failing grade, faces several years of court supervision.

Tuan Huynh, 47, of the 1100 block of Walnut Farm Road, was sentenced in Montgomery County Court Tuesday to two years’ probation and 100 hours of community service after he pleaded guilty to a misdemeanor charge of endangering the welfare of a child under 18 in connection with the Feb. 22 incident.

With the charges, authorities alleged Huynh abandoned the 16-year-old girl at Cheltenham Avenue and Washington Lane, near the Cheltenham Square Mall, after she received a bad grade in a calculus course.

“Throw her out instead of getting her a tutor. What kind of choice is that for a parent to make?” said Assistant District Attorney Cara McMenamin, who prosecuted Huynh. “It’s unconscionable and outrageous.”

McMenamin described the teenager as a “soft-spoken, extremely serious young girl” who has aspirations of being a classical pianist. The girl feared she would never see her family again, McMenamin said.

“She was devastated. She wandered quite a ways looking for help. Fortunately, she encountered a minister who stayed with her and called police,” McMenamin said.

Judge Garrett D. Page, who accepted a plea agreement in the case, also ordered Huynh, who was represented by defense lawyer David S. Dessen, to complete parenting classes “prior to moving back into residence,” according to court papers.

After his arrest, as a bail condition, Huynh had been prohibited from living in the family’s home.

Another charge of recklessly endangering another person was dismissed against Huynh as part of the plea agreement.

An investigation began about 3:35 p.m. Feb. 22 when Cheltenham police responded to the intersection of Cheltenham Avenue and Washington Lane after receiving reports that a child was asking strangers for a place to stay, according to the arrest affidavit.

When police arrived at the intersection, they encountered the teenage girl who initially gave police a false name and who possessed a backpack that contained a blanket and a change of clothes. The girl was eventually identified through music books she was carrying that contained her name, court papers indicate.

When asked by police about why she initially did not tell police her real name, the girl told police that she was told “by them not to tell the police who you are,” according to the arrest affidavit.

“She further stated that she was no longer home because she was not meeting her parent’s expectations, and that there had been many arguments over her failing grades,” Cheltenham Township Police Officer Mark Gindhart wrote in the arrest affidavit.

Prosecutors alleged that after an argument about the girl’s grades Feb. 22, she was told she had one hour to pack and that she couldn’t live with the family anymore.

“After she had packed, her father had her get into his car with her backpack and a small satchel type bag,” Gindhart alleged.

Huynh then drove the girl to Cheltenham from Lower Gwynedd, a distance of 13.6 miles, “where he ordered her to get out of the car and drove off leaving her to fend for her own well-being with no provision for shelter or food.”

Authorities alleged the girl did not have a cellphone to call for help and had no family in the area to go to for help.

“She didn’t know where she was. She had never been to the area before,” McMenamin alleged. “She was terrified. She’s lucky somebody didn’t grab her and abduct her.”

Lower Gwynedd man admits to endangering teenage daughter - Ambler Gazette - Montgomery News

GLOW 06-05-2012 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Muay-thai (Post 7935006)
I pray for your unborn kids :okay:

his location says "The Ghetto" :lawl:

seriously though. if the grade didn't cut it, instead of leaving your kid how about getting her help to up the grade :facepalm:

Gumby 06-05-2012 10:15 AM

Poor girl... no matter how book smarts she is or isn't, or talented in piano or whatever, she appears to have no street sense whatsoever as a result of living under her father's reign of terror.

Gridlock 06-05-2012 10:48 AM

I would like to change my assessment...

http://i.imgur.com/m7kWw.png

It doesn't seem that far, but I still contend that home is the last place she'd like to go at that point.

Google says its 12 miles, 20 minute drive(not counting for specific addresses, this is just road to road. B is the mall, A is home and C is where they found her.

Gumby 06-05-2012 10:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gridlock (Post 7938303)
I would like to change my assessment...

It doesn't seem that far, but I still contend that home is the last place she'd like to go at that point.

Google says its 12 miles, 20 minute drive (not counting for specific addresses, this is just road to road. B is the mall, A is home and C is where they found her.

And yet the report says it would take her 3 hours to walk home... :rolleyes:

Phil@rise 06-05-2012 06:57 PM

stupid kid couldnt even get the basic direction right

Gridlock 06-05-2012 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Phil@rise (Post 7938783)
stupid kid couldnt even get the basic direction right

I thought the same thing when I saw the map...

you silly rabbit, you live that way.

goo3 06-06-2012 01:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gumby (Post 7938313)
And yet the report says it would take her 3 hours to walk home... :rolleyes:

Google Maps says 19km = 4 hour walk = UBC to Brentwood Mall. Seems about right.

To add to it, you're not gonna go walking along the expressway just because you see a line on a map.

xilley 06-06-2012 03:30 AM

came in the thread thinking "must be asian"


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