question about meeting somone
 

Ok so Ill try and make this short. I meet this girl online about a month ago(we haven't met in person yet)So i asked her out and she said yes. So the day we were going to met she did not reply to my txt's. Didn't really think about it much.so she txt's me a couple days later saying she really wants to meet me.ok well lets try this again. She blows me off again. no reply"s. So today she txts me asking if i want to go to the beach. I say sure but she doesn't have a car so she wants to meet me at a outdoor pool/park so I can drive her. oh and her profile on the dating site was deleted, I dont know if that means anything.
I've never Meet any one from a dating site before so I just want to get your guys opinons. should I meet her r tell her to fuck off?

Personally I do not think hooking up with anybody online is much of a great idea anyways, since one lacks the direct connection of meeting somebody in person in the first place, and then getting to know them, then taking it another step further. If you want this to go somewhere then by all means just put in that bit of effort to meet her in person (even though she keeps blowing you off and postponing)

Have you talked on the phone? Slim chance, but if not, it could be someone like a buddy just yanking your chain.

I've met plenty of people online. Its not very rare these days.

Never pursue a girl who plays games.

Meeting someone online CAN and DOES work, but it needs to involve honesty and maturity from the start. If she had either of those qualities, she would not have blown you off twice already.

Don't tell her to "fuck off", but explain that you are looking for someone who does not play game and move on.

Girls who play games need to have it brought to their attention like children. And, guys need to stop falling for it or allowing behaviour like this to happen. If dudes keep allowing this to happen it, promotes it...treat them like children who are misbehaving. This will teach them not to do it in the future.

Tell her you're going to meet her at a day and time, and then blow her off. :D

tell that bitch to fuck off 'cause you're a MAN, and MEN don't associate with immaturity like that

bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
not to mention this is online, so who gives a fuck. there are plenty of beautiful women in Vancouver i'm sure you'll have chances with



inb4 "blah blah no respect for women blah" lecture

You single, dude?

nope, happily ocupado w/ my girlfriend of over 2 years
and i'll have you know that we both love each other like there's no tomorrow

we're from different generations lol so we have completely different notions

OP, have u even talked to this "girl" on the phone yet?

Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

OP sounds desperate to pursue this.

you didn't think to ask her for an explanation? lol

no man, you gonna get raped :troll:

But seriously, thats what alot of women think when it comes to meeting people online. :fulloffuck:meeting up at starbucks on robson is not gonna get you raped...

you sure "she" is a real person, not some fake account made by your friends or homosexual

thats a shame. they way you talk about women really turns me on.

From my experiences with online dating heres how it goes.

Be prepared for a lot of fakers and flakers. From what I had gathered from online dating, I think its a complete joke. Dont get me wrong e-Harmony and whatever can work I guess depending on your luck. Ive chatted to tonnes of ladies on POF and OKCupid back in the darker days of my life. A lot of them are all talk and no show (makes you wonder why theyre wasting their time on these sites anyways) Great for hook ups but lets me real, would you bring home a tramp home to the family probably not.

Also do not forget the site makes up fake accounts with good looking ladies who seem to fit what you are looking for in a woman. They do this to help bring traffic to the site.

As for your current situation I would drop her. If shes not eager to see you now what makes you think shes going to be eager to be and do anything with you in the future?

:fulloffuck: talk about immaturity...

LOL dude are you still hurt because I called you immature for laughing at the word "genitals"? sorry man :ahwow:

Sorry to disappoint you pinn3r but I don't recall you ever making a post about me that was worthwhile noting. But geez, thanks for the reminder, I looked it up.

I made an immature 'lawl' post about some hot coffee injury mainly bacause I thought the victim was just blowing shit up to make a claim. You proceeded to call that post immature which doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure. I guess I should have thanked you for the lesson?

I made a post in this thread because your advice to the OP about the concept of 'men', 'immaturity' and 'bitches' seemed highly ironic and incoherent. Resorting to Ad hominem in a debate is an 'immature' rhetoric by the way.

Perhaps you need a taste of your own medicine.

he's 16

I'm 15 :D

I'm sure everybody has their own opinions but how bout we just shut the fuck up with the drama and help poor OP here.


On a more related note, you should meet with her if you like her and be sure to carry a weapon because who knows what could be behind that profile? In my opinion, online dating does not work, you end up talking online even when you have met in person because its much easier. Instead you won't say things when you are with her, you leave it until she's online LOL. None of this probably made sense so thank you for wasting your time.

you were pissed off 'cause people failed you on that post .. so i just had to tell you WHY
didn't mean to offend you honestly, but i guess you took it the wrong way

you remembered:hay:

honestly though, if you don't like what i post don't even bother replying to me or provoking me 'cause i don't want any shit

:fullofwin:

so i did go and meet her, she i real lol. im really shy so thats why im trying online dating and im not desperate i just really wanted to know if she was real. thanks for the adi

The only thing I can suggest is that the OP learns game.


Women are animals like you and I, and you do not hunt animals with flowers and friendliness. You hunt them with money, status, and looks.

A woman does not care if you're a nice guy.
A woman does not care if you want to make her smile.
A woman does not care if you can protect her.
A woman does not care if you miss her.
A woman does not know the word "honor".

Once a woman has lost respect for you, it is next to impossible to get it back. It sounds like she does not respect you, which is exactly how online dating (profile shopping) works. You are nothing more to her than a thumbnail photo on a screen.

OP, try your best to build up your confidence to meet women in person, online dating truly is the home of the lowest status men who need to meet people online, rather than through their social circles.

She was playing games with you to gain control over you. It worked. Women love to do it all the time.