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08-05-2012, 03:15 AM
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#26 | | Marcosexual Fan Club, CEO
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I'm not quite sure what bizzaro world some of you guys live where you think that with enough confidence you can get any girl you like. People need to be realistic and date within their league. Do not affect the balance of the universe, please.
Btw to OP, it's a bad idea asking out your best friend's friend. Unless she has given any indication she is attracted to you romantically through her body language you are going to make things awkward between the 3 of you. Sure there are some that say fuck it, who cares. But those are the ones who usually don't have endearing relationships because they upset social conventions. You'll fall from the friend ladder into the abyss. The only thing that matters is whether she is interested in you before you ask her out. Women are pretty transparent about who they like.
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08-05-2012, 08:00 AM
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#27 | | Banned By Establishment
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Originally Posted by Marco911  I'm not quite sure what bizzaro world some of you guys live where you think that with enough confidence you can get any girl you like. People need to be realistic and date within their league. Do not affect the balance of the universe, please.
Btw to OP, it's a bad idea asking out your best friend's friend. Unless she has given any indication she is attracted to you romantically through her body language you are going to make things awkward between the 3 of you. Sure there are some that say fuck it, who cares. But those are the ones who usually don't have endearing relationships because they upset social conventions. You'll fall from the friend ladder into the abyss. The only thing that matters is whether she is interested in you before you ask her out. Women are pretty transparent about who they like. | I'm not saying that she'll say yes, it is after all, her choice.
I'm also agreeing that yes, there are certain attributes that certain women will look for given what they are offering.
BUT...making the decision for her isn't going to get you anywhere. Walking around in life constantly seeking out "your league" afraid of upsetting social convention is a waste of time. Ask the girl out, she'll tell you straight up.
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08-05-2012, 10:31 AM
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#28 | | Official Texas Ambassador
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Friendzoned  Really bummed about it, but at least I put myself out there. Should I just give up on her and try to do the impossible: get unfriendzoned or just move on the other 49?
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08-05-2012, 10:59 AM
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#29 | | MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
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Move on... if you try to get unfriendzoned (unlikely) it will make you seem desperate and needy. If you move on like you don't even care, it will make you more confident when it comes to asking another girl out.
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08-05-2012, 11:00 AM
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#30 | | Banned By Establishment
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Move on.
Don't waste your time chasing someone who is just not that into you.
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08-11-2012, 10:48 PM
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#31 | | reads most threads with his pants around his ankles, especially in the Forced Induction forum.
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Originally Posted by El Bastardo The following is a reply from the original poster
Friendzoned Really bummed about it, but at least I put myself out there. Should I just give up on her and try to do the impossible: get unfriendzoned or just move on the other 49? | Welcome to my world. | |
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08-12-2012, 07:12 AM
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#32 | | I keep RS good
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lol obviously the OP is very young.
I say let him do whatever. lol our advice will not help him, unless it's a very specific situation.
there's too many variables right now. plus he's young. he should learn from failure right now.
you never become alpha without failure, and you never become alpha without having your heart being first broken. hahaha!!!
go get your heart broken! come back as a man!
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08-12-2012, 10:03 PM
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#33 | | Official Texas Ambassador
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Apparently my best friend "sensed" that I liked her and told the girl that a year ago. Am I reading too much into this? She never told me about it, nor did the girl. Was she waiting for me to make a move? Did she do this to ruin this possibility for me? I just don't get it.
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Originally Posted by MG1 She taught me right from wrong and always told me to stay positive and help others no matter how small the deed - that helping others gives us meaning to carry on. The sun is out today and it's a new day. Life is good. I just needed a slap in the face. | | |
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08-13-2012, 12:29 AM
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#34 | | I keep RS good
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your intuition is trying to play out every scenario to make sense of the result.
in the end you'll realise, it could be any of the things you thought, and none of it matters at the end.
the more you put yourself in these situations the better you'll get at it.
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