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mac25 12-25-2012 01:53 AM

i used shit loads of foundation when i was gothic and eyeliner. mind you i had a hot ass goth girlfriend who liked it, so it is nice to have a support structure for different style choices.

i guess that's where the issue lies. even though i've worn makeup i'd still razz the hell out of you, that's just what guys do, lol. but if you're confident in how you want to look no one will mess with you. you're girlfriend and friend probably picked up on the fact that you didn't want anyone to know and that's why they're having a bit of fun.

as well go to a makeup consultant. my guess as an artist who picks up on visual cues and has worn makeup, you probably didn't do one of the fallowing

-put moisturizer on first, this prevents the foundation drying and turning into little balls.

-get the right shade and tone. shade is the value of light and dark (pale, tanned) and tone is the base hue, cold or warm, with slight colour bases (a simple example would be the small amounts of red or blue that have to match the red and blue in your skin).

-blend the foundation to the end of your face. watch under the nose, under the eyes, blend it to your jaw line (if you stop before you'll see it, if you stop bellow you'll have to do your neck to match).

-applies it too thick. if you're just using your fingers you can apply it too thick, where when you make an expresion the foundation creates a line where the parts of your face wrinkle.

Gnomes 12-25-2012 05:04 AM

You need to tell your girl it is not ok to encourage your friends to mock you for wearing concealer. I think the line was crossed.

I occasionally put on small dabs of BB cream on special occasions. Not everytime I go out though.

Nintensity 12-25-2012 05:19 AM

I dunno. I'd rather buy products that would help reduce these imperfections rather than using make-up to cover it
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Mr.HappySilp 12-25-2012 10:26 AM

I think is wired unless you have to use for medical reason by doctor.
Come on you are a guy, be more confident. In fact I prefer girls who use/wear little make up. Would you rather wake next to someone totally different at night or accept someone for who they are?

Jegz 12-25-2012 11:37 AM

Your gf made of you LOL gay boy :gay:

BethesdaSkyrim 12-25-2012 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Energy (Post 8115254)
Isn't this normal in Korea and some Asian countries?

its normal in Korea. guys wear makeup and nobody gives a crap. plus i only use it to cover marks not like I purposely doing it to be gay

If you watch TV all the men wear makeup newscaster, sportscasters, hosts, actors

Akinari 12-25-2012 02:30 PM

Putting issues related with the touchy topic of of men putting on makeup aside, if you do want to put on foundation, do it right or don't bother doing it at all. Like BethesdaSkyrim mentioned above, everyone on TV wears makeup regardless of gender.

mr_chin 12-25-2012 04:13 PM

Who gives a fuck what people think!

Why are people putting label on everything. Like wearing make up is gay? People who wear Ed hardy or affliction are gangsters.

Either accept yourself with your red marks or accept yourself for using foundations. If you let any judgement bother you, you'll let yourself down. Your gf is obviously not someone you should be with, she's judging you for covering up your insecurities. Either ignore their comment or stop hanging out with them.

Being defensive and calling them out is stooping down to their level and shows that you allow their judgement alter your acceptance of yourself.

Noir 12-26-2012 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by BethesdaSkyrim (Post 8115630)
its normal in Korea. guys wear makeup and nobody gives a crap. plus i only use it to cover marks not like I purposely doing it to be gay

If you watch TV all the men wear makeup newscaster, sportscasters, hosts, actors

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Originally Posted by akinari-kun (Post 8115730)
Putting issues related with the touchy topic of of men putting on makeup aside, if you do want to put on foundation, do it right or don't bother doing it at all. Like BethesdaSkyrim mentioned above, everyone on TV wears makeup regardless of gender.


You do know that in film, one of the major reason men are given make-up are so the heat from the lighting won't make them all glossy and shiny in camera.

That being said, how many of these male celebrities use makeup personally outside of filming/performing?

cruz-in 12-28-2012 07:52 AM

i use moderate priced face cleaners, moisturizers and hand cream.

optiblue 12-28-2012 10:24 AM

I don't wear it personally, but all male actors wear make up as do rock stars!

will068 12-28-2012 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by BethesdaSkyrim (Post 8115132)
I used very light foundation to cover some redmarks and dim out some pimples, and i was in outside when she just said 'your wearing makeup arent you'... i was stumped for words and said it was a fake tan, then she says 'i know its foundation i can tell...do you always wear it?' and i just tried changing the topic...And now she told one of my guy friends who proceeded to laugh the hell at me...

I know if i never wore foundation i would never have gotten a girlfriend in the firstplace, it makes me look clear 99% since most of what i have is prolonged redmarks...it makes me look so much better i cannot bear not wearing it now...

girls, if you found out a guy you liked or went out with wore foundation or concealer how would you react? is it wierd? :okay:

In the end of the day, just do you. If you get more pussy because you wear makeup, the more power to you.

And your friend laughing at you, me and crew make fun of each other every fucking chance we get. Don't take it too personally.

Phil@rise 12-28-2012 02:27 PM

If makeup gives you the balls to have a girlfriend then you need to check your balls....just sayin.
Its not the makeup that makes the man....

iam_dan 12-28-2012 02:44 PM

i think the problem is how you handled the confrontation, not the subject of the matter itself.
you were too dodgy about it, and now you're letting other people get to you.

id say..if you need the cover up sometimes, then that's fine. maybe for big nights, photoshoots or work parties etc.

PJ 12-28-2012 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by iam_dan (Post 8118112)
i think the problem is how you handled the confrontation, not the subject of the matter itself.
you were too dodgy about it, and now you're letting other people get to you.

Truth.

If you feel like you really do need it, then just wear it. It's obviously a self-esteem issue.
When she confronted you, you could have played it off so many ways, but you just froze. Which, fair enough, probably caught you off guard.
Have some rebuttals ready for next time.

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Originally Posted by optiblue (Post 8117973)
I don't wear it personally, but all male actors wear make up as do rock stars!

Very true. A few of my male friends who are minor/local celebrities wear it pretty regularly.
I remember at first I was like :suspicious: then I was like ehh :wgaf:

svelt 12-30-2012 11:52 PM

I buy a Life brand salicylic acid treatment for spot acne. It has a mild skintone tint and goes for around $6-7. Unless you have massive acne problems that's the way to go. My girlfriend knows I use it when I get a break out particularly on obvious locations such as the nose and the forehead and doesn't even think twice about it. Do you have rosacea or some other skin disorder that gives you discoloration, or is it just an acne issue?

jimmyrustler 01-01-2013 07:20 PM

http://i3.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/...ga-you-gay.png

MrGoodbar 01-01-2013 08:11 PM

Your girl might pull a Kristen Stewart stunt on your ass.

http://fwallpapers.com/files/images/...twilight-1.jpg

rsx 01-01-2013 08:28 PM

whatever you want to put on your face is your business, but don't pussy out when someone calls you out on it.

secondly, i bet your chicks wears tons more than you do and even wears heels and pushup bras. in terms of false advert, she's worse.

Advice: don't bother wearing make up it'll just give you a false sense of confidence. You think half of the Vancouver Specials will be as snobby or bitchy if they didn't have their short dresses, fake lashes, fake contacts, heavy eye makeup, push up bras and make up? I've woken up next to a few and believe me they act completely different without their shit on.

Psykopathik 01-02-2013 11:53 AM

go watch "American Psycho".

j604 01-03-2013 09:03 PM

:facepalm:

BethesdaSkyrim 01-04-2013 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by svelt (Post 8119777)
Do you have rosacea or some other skin disorder that gives you discoloration, or is it just an acne issue?

just red marks from pimples and sometimes i have heavy bag under my eyes i need to cover. Hard for people without pimples to know how it feel to have pimples and red marks ashameful in public. people say "pizza face" and alway stare at u :okay:

dinosaur 01-04-2013 07:13 PM

Don't forget to blend along the jaw line!

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Noir 01-04-2013 09:38 PM

^ :lol

Gridlock 01-05-2013 08:00 AM

Dude...go to a dermatologist and solve the problem, instead of caking on a "solution".

I get the acne thing...but bags under your eyes?


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