I have to agree with Noir. Drunk sex is great, so maybe if she's not much of a drinker, ask her if she wants to try it?

There's some really great ideas in here :D

how to make sex more interesting?

the most obvious answer (but no one wants to mention) is...

have less sex... obviously if you're sex starved, then sex will be very interesting.

if sex is boring... you're probably getting it too much.

when you do have sex, be intoxicated on something that makes you more animal like.

There are quite some great ideas on here!

You should really try blindfolding, while doing foreplay. It triggers all your other senses aside from sight (well, no shit.) But it really does make a difference when you only feel every single touch. Then once it's all hot and heavy,

pop some Fisherman's friend (not necessary), and give that pussy a few licks.


THEN POUND THAT SHAAAAAAA! :buttrock::joy:

Have a dinner with some alcohol. Get home, slow dance to some music while drunk and make it happen

You mean when the boyfriend puts make up on his girlfriend, then the girlfriend does the same to the boyfriend. The girlfriend gets mad cause the guy didn't put foundation and overdid it. The boyfriend gets all offensive cause he's like "I didn't even want to put on make up. it's your Idea!"

They start throwing make up at each other, it gets messy. Moments later, they laugh at the stupid argument/fight they had and end up having hot steamy sex.

Is that it? or am I doing it wrong......

Fisting and shit sports.

Role play. Pretend you are a rapist.

Buy a vibrator together.

Go home.


Stick it in her butt.


Vibrator up the chach.




120% success rate everytime.

well, its safe to say that handcuffs made it 10x better.

time to experiment with them for a bit, then see where else it takes us!!

highly recommend some cuffs lol

My girlfriend hates pot but the one time that I asked her to try it when we first started dating we had some of the best sex ever. Baked sex is good sex.

surprised no one mentioned this but record a session on video from your pov and from hers as well then watch the video together.

What did you do with handcuffs?
I didn't find it that exciting but maybe I'm doing something wrong :S
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Did u not find your self completely helpless? Handcuffs rock!!
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follow @menshealthmag on twitter for some good tips. every other tweet is about how to make it better / hot / last longer / etc. etc.

No you're not doing anything wrong.


I've done my fair share of crazy shit and I love crazy sex just as much as the next guy but cuffs, blindfolds, restraints aren't really a thing I like either.

A huge part of what makes sex enjoyable for me is the interactivity between two partners. Kind of like a dance. I feed off of the other's energy. Sometimes, bouncing off one crazy sex act off of one another is the catalyst of what escalates the usual "text book sex" to "holy shit, we're having porn sex" to me.


I get the element of submission/domination thing though and I can see why that's exciting for some people. But it's just totally not my thing. However my point is, it's totally normal if that may not be your thing too and it doesn't automatically mean you're no-less kinky or sexually adventurous like the rest of the adventurous people of the world.



The fact that you tried it means you're already a HUGE step up from you typical, demure girly girls. It's okay not to like everything you try.

Give her a massage, get some good oils. Lay her down naked and give her one. A proper one, but don't go all pro and use your elbows, just enough to literally massage her back, shoulders, neck and legs. Make your way down to her inner thighs and tease your way through- don't go shoving your fingers up there though. It's all about the tease. Flip her over and do the same thing. Tease the tits and pussy area. Then wash up and say you're tired. Don't fuck her. She'll want to though, she'll jump on you. So wear a helmet.

Yup, we've had massage candles for a long time, light a candle, fool around for a bit, then pour the wax on her and it turns into a massage oil that can just be washed off of clothes in the washing machine.
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Haha thanks for the kind words
But it's not that I didn't enjoy it
I just didn't know what to do with the hand cuffs :S
He handcuffed me and stuff from the front but I sorta felt like what's the point in this :S
What do u guys do :S? Handcuff from the back? To the bed post? What position?
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I had her on the bed, face down, hand cuffed to the bars on the head board. After that had her on the knees on the floor cuffed to the leg of the bed. I've a chin up bar in my door frame, so I also cuffed her onto there
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Do it with massage oils.
Do it with porn playing.
Do it in front of a mirror.
Don't do it for a week and unleash yourselves.
(or do all 4 at the same time)
Those 4 really lit a fire in our sex life.

A little farfetched, but... threesome?
Talk to her about it, it might be something she wouldn't mind trying.
I did, and I got to the point where I was in bed with both girls... but my girlfriend got too freaked out last minute and we ended up bailing. Holy fawk was that awkward.
Maybe you'll have better luck.

Also. Not sure about your fitness situation.. But when I got shredded after doing a couple rounds of p90x, she couldn't keep her hands off of me. She would want to do it in the car, in a mall washroom, in the park, in my office, etc etc.

Some things to think about. Happy nailing ;)

invite her best friend(s) to join? or sisters? ... how about her mother?

massage candles blindfold and restraints. NOT JUST ANY CANDLE