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H.Specter 06-07-2013 04:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by El Bastardo (Post 8255227)
The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster


Then after our goodnights she texted me that I need to earn my place back tomorrow... :considered: :awwyeah:


notsureifsrs or just stupid.


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Spoon 06-07-2013 05:02 PM

Please tell me you're in a relationship where the girl's side pays for the wedding so you can pull off an epic breakup party.
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El Bastardo 06-07-2013 06:27 PM

The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster

She came over today, I acted normal, like a boyfriend I suppose. She put her stuff in my room and we went down to make breakfast, but I went back up to grab her phone and recorded her texts with my phone's camera. Found texts from her high-school ex which was surprising. Had no idea they still talked because I always had the impression she hated his guts. From what I saw he might know what happened, but one thing was for sure: she said I kept being suspicious and had good hunches but that she's too good of a liar.

After, I "interrogated" her for a couple hours. She didn't admit anything. Broke down a couple of times because I didn't trust or believe her. Saying stuff like "I swear on my family" blah blah. Oh yeah she deleted the texts from the ex because I opened it again later. We had sex (I couldn't help it - and it was maybe the best). I told her I'm going to find out this weekend about being right about my accusations and she said ok. But I already know.

So after she left I talked to the guy and he admitted it. He said he said no to her a bunch of times (which I think is true because apparently my gf told her friend he said he wouldn't cheat). She kept insisting, saying it's a favour, etc. He said he didn't why or what the fuck he was doing and now he's also screwed. I told him about her lies and acting and he didn't know and now he's sharing what she's saying with me. He said the more she texts him the more he feels like she's trying to ruin him. Will update later.

Jmac 06-07-2013 06:31 PM

:fulloffuck:

Recon604 06-07-2013 06:43 PM

WTF are you doing? OP is whippppppeeedd, afraid to let her know

LOL this is pretty entertaining/frustrating at the same time...

vafanculo 06-07-2013 06:46 PM

I'm not gonna lie. I wanna meet op's girl friend.
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smoothie. 06-07-2013 07:07 PM

Gangbang
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!Yaminashi 06-07-2013 07:13 PM

Yeah leave this girl asap. Dont even explain.
She obviously feels like you Dont deserve any explanations
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Infinitii 06-07-2013 07:41 PM

Wtf.

dinosaur 06-07-2013 07:53 PM

aaaaaaaaaaaand I'm done.

you're a fucking tool

Not really racist! 06-07-2013 08:55 PM

OP...

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GLOW 06-07-2013 09:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dinosaur (Post 8255419)
I'm going to say one word...this one word will sum up the whole situation. This word will also get me points. But, I'm cool with it cause its worth it.

Spoiler!

http://teemarto.com/images/betamax150.gif :troll:

van_city23 06-07-2013 09:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dinosaur (Post 8255768)
aaaaaaaaaaaand I'm done.

you're a fucking tool

Yup, couldn't say it any better than that. Still refer to her as your 'gf'. U a damn fool!

stillcantsleep 06-07-2013 09:24 PM

OP needs to open up his eyes. you think its going to be hard to let her go but just do it man start getting into hobbies that you were into before or activites/clubs that you enjoy doing it will keep you occupied and will help you socialize meet new people which will lead to new dates. if you dont go to the gym already then you thats where you can start which will definitely help your mind and body.

too_slow 06-07-2013 09:30 PM

OP: WTF do you even bother talking to the other dude? Tell her that she's a lying , cheating manipulative bitch and that I WAS so OVER you (and that you were considering dumping her ass a year before).. Tell her she's lies there like a deadfish in bed, and thats why the sex (if you can even call it that) was pathetic to her..

boom.. headshot..

SoNaRWaVe 06-07-2013 09:40 PM

dude, just gtfo asap. you think this is mind boggling? from here on out, no matter how hard you try to even forgive and forget, everything she does will just mind fuck you. you will become paranoid as fuck with every little thing.

the fact she is still lying through her teeth tells you she obviously doesn't value you, nor whatever of a relationship is left. you're getting played.

H.Specter 06-07-2013 09:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by El Bastardo (Post 8255710)
The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster

She came over today, I acted normal, like a boyfriend I suppose. She put her stuff in my room and we went down to make breakfast, but I went back up to grab her phone and recorded her texts with my phone's camera. Found texts from her high-school ex which was surprising. Had no idea they still talked because I always had the impression she hated his guts. From what I saw he might know what happened, but one thing was for sure: she said I kept being suspicious and had good hunches but that she's too good of a liar.

After, I "interrogated" her for a couple hours. She didn't admit anything. Broke down a couple of times because I didn't trust or believe her. Saying stuff like "I swear on my family" blah blah. Oh yeah she deleted the texts from the ex because I opened it again later. We had sex (I couldn't help it - and it was maybe the best). I told her I'm going to find out this weekend about being right about my accusations and she said ok. But I already know.

So after she left I talked to the guy and he admitted it. He said he said no to her a bunch of times (which I think is true because apparently my gf told her friend he said he wouldn't cheat). She kept insisting, saying it's a favour, etc. He said he didn't why or what the fuck he was doing and now he's also screwed. I told him about her lies and acting and he didn't know and now he's sharing what she's saying with me. He said the more she texts him the more he feels like she's trying to ruin him. Will update later.

cliffs:
knows gf cheated
other guy who banged gf admitted it
OP still with gf


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chouchou 06-07-2013 09:49 PM

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I wonder what El Bastardo thinks when he reads some of these anonymous posts

murd0c 06-07-2013 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by chouchou (Post 8255855)
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I wonder what El Bastardo thinks when he reads some of these anonymous posts

He's a mod he can't think anything :seriously::fulloffuck::tears:

El Bastardo 06-07-2013 11:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chouchou (Post 8255855)
I wonder what El Bastardo thinks when he reads some of these anonymous posts

I have strong feelings about this issue. As someone who has had some great relationships end due to infidelity I can relate to the conflict OP is having. We all know, on a rational level, that this isn't healthy for him to be going through. Unfortunately his heart is in control right now.

OP, please understand that (in spite of the shit comments in this thread) we're looking out for your best interest.

Would you really want to raise kids with a cheater? Looking every day at that child and wondering "Is that my child?". Sneaking a private DNA test while shes not looking because you're suspicious and having weeks of anxiety while waiting for the results?

Think about it.

El Bastardo 06-07-2013 11:28 PM

The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster

Guys, chill.. it's difficult to explain things here without being misinterpreted which has been happening throughout the thread. I won't bother explain anything previously misinterpreted.

I'm not staying with her. Sorry for using "gf," but you know what I mean. I'm also not just going to cut her off; it's not going to work. I'd just get constant texts, calls to my cell, calls to my house, etc. It might work for some but with her.

Yes I could just confront her, but I want to her to admit it herself. She knows I'm onto her, but whether or not she admits it, it ends on Monday.

E.D.C.5 06-07-2013 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dinosaur (Post 8255419)
I'm going to say one word...this one word will sum up the whole situation. This word will also get me points. But, I'm cool with it cause its worth it.

Spoiler!

i just learned a new slang word :fuckyea:

dinosaur 06-07-2013 11:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by El Bastardo (Post 8255938)
I'm not staying with her. Sorry for using "gf," but you know what I mean. I'm also not just going to cut her off; it's not going to work. I'd just get constant texts, calls to my cell, calls to my house, etc. It might work for some but with her.

YES!!!! Long drawn out break-ups are the best!!

Dont forget to report back here on a weekly basis on how much your summer sucks. Oh, and don't forget the obligatory "Should I Get Back Together With My Ex" thread.

Those are the best.

Marshall Placid 06-07-2013 11:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by El Bastardo (Post 8255938)
The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster

It ends on Monday.

Can't wait!

To hear/read about the results.

mk1freak 06-07-2013 11:40 PM

:fulloffuck:
on Monday? that's two nights of partying single with the boys banging sloots you have no emotional attachment to that you're gonna miss out on...
anyways your loss, more for the rest of us who actually moved on.
gg /wrists
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