MindBomber | 07-03-2013 12:49 PM | Quote:
Originally Posted by LookitsMarkA
(Post 8273569)
mindbomer everything becomes repetition after a while. beach 20 times? damn really? wheres your creativity? i think your assuming she will still be happy.
do me a favor and if your planning to be with your "current" for a potential marriage, go talk to your friend who has been in a relationship for at least 5 years. dinosaur cute avatar btw lol | I like the beach, she likes the beach, and as long as we both do, we'll continue going to the beach. It's ideal for us, because we're able to enjoy conversation between ourselves and with our friends without considerable distraction.
I have no intention of ever marrying, and neither does she, but life-long relationships are not out of the question, and this one may go that direction.
My longest relationship is 5 years; I'm familiar with how LTR's progress, and the sense of comfortable complacency that, may, eventually, set in. In that relationship, the source of that sense was not a lack of new, exciting activities, rather, we became bored with one another.The relationship we had ran its course and ended, because we realized it was good but our connection was not a life-long romantic one. It simply was not sustainable. Had her and i begun planning adventurous dates, maybe we would have last 6, 7, 8 years, because we were able to introduce something new and interesting back into a stale and dull relationship. Inevitably, though, the relationship would eventually return to it's stale and dull foundation and come to an end.
P.S. - If you haven't been to Brae Island, I wouldn't recommend it. Especially at this time of year. |