I always find this a bit creepy :heckno:

Wtf man, back off from my sister.

Which part - being protective over one's sister? Or getting mad?

Felt relevant. Started at :46 for the sister part.

First hand experience here, I've been dating my good friends sister for 4.5 years now and we're better friends now than when I started dating her. It can work just fine provided you're not an asshole and treat her with respect (which you should do with anyone, but I digress). It's basically the same as dating anyone else but you obviously don't tell your buddy about your sex life with his sister.

For starters since he seems quite protective of her be sure you want to date her, not just hook up with her, and be sure she's at least friendly with you (and maybe a little flirty) before you do anything else. Second, you don't have to ask his permission to ask her out, you're adults after all, but you should give him a heads up before you ask her out. Let him know you're not just trying to hook up with her and such. If you end up dating how you treat her will have an impact on your relationship, it sounds like you're a decent guy with your shit together so you should be fine.

I can't wait to see how this turns out

People who get SUPER offended when someone is attracted to their sister... Being protective is one thing, but being offended is kind of creepy

I think it's way too early to assume there's a connection between you two, especially when you said you were drunk and it's the first (only time?) you guys met. It seems to be a very common mistake with men these days.

dont do it, sounds like a recipe for disaster

+1. You need the sacred RS consensus on whether or not she's hot enough for you to risk your brotherhood. I'd say at least an 8.5 for serious consideration.

While I agree "bros before hoes" (bro's sister in this situation), I adhere to bros do not cock-block bros as well.

Just try not to break her heart :)

doesn't hurt to ask permission. Just make it clear that its not just a smash n dash. If its really going to bug him then you have a decision to make. Just think long term not with your DYUCK. Disregard all the people saying ' just forget about ' because i understand thats not always an option.

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An update on the situation..

B had a BBQ the other night, and of course, there she was again.

She and I started talking, caught up a bit, and to my surprise, she asked me to get a cup of coffee sometime. I said, "I'd love to, but.. do you think this is a good idea?" She replied, "We'll see." We traded numbers.

B was working the grill and didn't notice any of this, but later on I told him about what's going on, and if he's at all uncomfortable with any of this, just say the word and I'll back right off.

He replied, "I can't say I didn't see that coming. I'd rather you not, but I mean, I trust you guys enough to make your own decisions."

She and I have been texting back and forth and set a date. So far things with B seem to be going alright, but there's sort of been an elephant in the room everytime we talk now, which is what I was afraid of. I'm sure he doesn't want it to be any more or less awkward than I do, but I guess at this point, what's done is done, and we'll see how things go. No turning back from here..

I still don't get why he'd "rather you not" date his sister? I mean you're good enough to be his friend... Unless he knows some nasty shit you have done to other girls?

^ what happens in Vegas with a cute little Mexican midget stays in Vegas.

OP, i think that is a thumbs up.