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Timpo 05-16-2015 05:08 PM

Strict father disciplining a 3 year old child
 

mr_chin 05-16-2015 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Timpo (Post 8637149)

That's strict?

I remember lying to my dad once. I got the living shit beat out of me.

Armind 05-16-2015 09:54 PM

I present to you exhibit #1:

http://img.hisupplier.com/var/userIm...34437378_s.jpg

ilovebacon 05-16-2015 10:28 PM

lol thats not strict at all, pretty informative to the child

EmperorIS 05-16-2015 10:45 PM

got my ass whooped by these

http://www.homejelly.com/wp-content/...ir-sticks1.png

my mom would stack them in a fag because they break easily

MG1 05-16-2015 11:00 PM

Black father teaching kid early what it's like to be black in america...........

Quote:

"dat's what da police do to you"

SoNaRWaVe 05-17-2015 12:09 AM

i would thank you if i can armind. the thanks button doesn't show up for your post.

but god damn, that brings back some memories.

twitchyzero 05-17-2015 12:53 AM

u wuz ly'n! u wuzz hyd'n!

bad grammar is ingrained at an early age I guess

see.lai 05-17-2015 04:17 AM

"Do you want the police to do that to you?"
"yes"


..

smoothie. 05-17-2015 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by see.lai (Post 8637295)
"Do you want the police to do that to you?"
"yes"


..

LOL

AzNightmare 05-17-2015 09:41 PM

TBH, this video was an example of great parenting. Tell him what he did wrong, made him understand, and then reinforced he still loved his son and that daddy is just trying to teach him something.

ae101 05-17-2015 10:06 PM

as chinese my dad never use the feather duster or anything, he slapped my face with his bare hands like the bitch i am (im not joking)

too many kids today getting treated like gods these days, cuz there "special"

asahai69 05-17-2015 10:31 PM

My parents are from India. Never got hit with a feather duster or anything. Their hands were more convenient and always ready to go. Lol




Culverin 05-18-2015 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by EmperorIS (Post 8637260)
got my ass whooped by these

http://www.homejelly.com/wp-content/...ir-sticks1.png

my mom would stack them in a fag because they break easily

Those break far too easily.

zilley 05-18-2015 03:12 AM

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Originally Posted by EmperorIS (Post 8637260)
got my ass whooped by these

http://www.homejelly.com/wp-content/...ir-sticks1.png

my mom would stack them in a fag because they break easily

white parents..

Mr.HappySilp 05-18-2015 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Armind (Post 8637244)

+1 I lost the number of times I was beaten by the mom lol. Actually I was dumb when I was young when my mom beat me I would fight back. I was told that when I was about 6 years old in HK I did something bad and my mom was about to use that to whip. I went to grab a garbage can to fight her lol. That doesn't go well at all.

I feel sometimes a little beating is needed to set kids right. All these bs talk about no beating is all BS.

Ronin 05-18-2015 12:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EmperorIS (Post 8637260)
got my ass whooped by these

http://www.homejelly.com/wp-content/...ir-sticks1.png

my mom would stack them in a fag because they break easily

Hahaha hahaha hahaha oh noes, balsa wood!

Tone Loc 05-18-2015 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr.HappySilp (Post 8637574)
I feel sometimes a little beating is needed to set kids right. All these bs talk about no beating is all BS.

I was beat a lot as a kid, IMO I wouldn't necessarily beat my own kids unless they were doing something REALLY stupid like bullying somebody... then I'd treat them the exact same way they bullied the other kid.

But you're right, I think many parents these days are way too lenient with their kids. Just the other day I was at Safeway in the cashier's line, this 2-3 year old toddler in front of me was throwing a tantrum... screaming, hitting his mom, throwing things... the mom just looked at me with that stupid pained smile and went "ohhh he's just a boy". The one and only time I ever threw a tantrum in public when I was a kid, though... let's just say my dad ensured it never happened again lol. Parents just need to get out of this whole stupid "my kid is special and everything they do is cute" mindset and start disciplining their kids so they don't turn into spoiled little shitbags when they grow older.

MG1 05-18-2015 05:23 PM

To be honest, hitting a kid is not cool. There are better ways, but when your parenting skills are limited and you have little to no time to get your message across, a good lickin' is the only option. What's really bad, are those mamby pamby, poor excuse for parents who refuse to discipline their kids - fucking up their kids for life. Teach them to think twice or think things through - consequences. Real consequences not any of this limit their computer time- fucking smash the thing. Okay. Maybe not that drastic, but you get the idea.

Yeah, I was a scary dad. Kids were like, "I'm sorry mom, I will never do that again. Please don't tell dad." I knew something was up when I got home and everybody is like all quiet, lol.

ae101 05-18-2015 08:20 PM

i remember as i kid after my dad slaps me, he made me slap myself

after i got older, my dad would just embarrass me in public by saying something & getting other ppl to put shame on me

Phil@rise 05-18-2015 08:36 PM

If your gonna smack your child be adult about it and responsible for it use your hands not an implement. Feel it. Know what youve done feel the discomfort and share in it. dont hide behind a duster or a spoon etc.
I dusted my daughters ass and would do it again if I felt it was needed with the youngest but I use my hand.

ae101 05-18-2015 09:01 PM

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i think one thing that separates immigrant families from the regular Canadian families you know. Does not matter where your parents are from, they weren't born in this country they will whoop your ass when you are growing up. It does not matter. Where are your parents from? Ukraine. You know what I am saying. They'll beat you with a cabbage roll. You know what I am saying. They'll smack a Perovie up side your head. They will beat you! Immigrant parents will beat their kids! Canadian parents they're a little to soft with their kids. And that's fine, whatever makes you happy. But you need star beating the kids. I will tell you why. Because growing up the kids now are growing up in the multicultural society. You gonna have white kids growing up with black kids and brown kids and Asian kids. They all going be hung around in the playground. You know what I mean? They all gonna be talk about the ass whoop they got last night. You what this little white kid to feel left out? Beat that child so he is not a social outcast. They're probably sitting around going "My dad beat my ass! ...My dad beat my ass too!" The white kid goes "I was sent to my room." "You've got a room?!?". You need to beat the kids, man. Indian parents will beat their kids. Chinese parents will. I would hate get beaten by parents who know kung-fu and stuff like that. I would hate to messed up in a Chinese house man. "Hey! Cap Dis Wong! Come here! It says you got an 'F' in school!" They wouldn't even need to beat you! Just go "Ou-e-e-e". No Sunny Check. Indian parents will beat their kids. Indian parents aren't afraid to kill their kids if they have to. My dad's story was "If I get rid of one I will make another one! And I will tell the new one what an idiot the last one was!"
Russell Peters - Start Beating Your Kids - Comedy-Quotes.com

Timpo 05-18-2015 11:00 PM

Hitting Your Kids is Legal in All 50 States:accepted:
Where It?s Legal to Hit a Child in America

MG1 05-18-2015 11:30 PM

Were you hit as a kid?

and did they yell, "onore dozuki harimatte yaru ro." as they proceeded to karate chop you

Ball.J.Inder 05-18-2015 11:35 PM

I don't think "beating" your kid is ok. But like hitting them in a way that won't cause serious physical harm is ok, as long as it is to teach them something and that they know it is because you care. When I was a kid I would get hit with slippers and what not, but the main reason I'm not a shithead(I think) is because my parents always showed they cared about me even when they were disappointed.\

Basically I think parents fail when: kids don't care about them, kids feel unloved, or kids are not afraid of repercussions.

Parenting is a success when kids are more afraid of disappointing their parents than going to jail, getting beat up, or any other punishment.


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