I'm talking about the parents that are always busy and not teaching the kids, instead they are relying on full time nannies or other alternatives such as full day day cares or throwing them to the grand parents.

I know, and there is nothing wrong with not doing daycare if you're able all I'm saying is socialization and interaction with other kids at least at some point isn't a bad thing. There are extremes on both ends of the spectrum for sure.

Maybe this is more applicable to younger parents who jump in the game too early.
At 35 with a 1 week old, I feel like I've taken many the opportunities I've needed to become successful, as has my wife for her career (Having a partner who's willing to wait is helpful, I know there are many women can't control their clocks).
I've already done a buttload of travelling in my life, now I just want to focus on home.

I never had a huge urge to have kids. Seeing the family and friends have their babies never really did anything for me, I didn't really care to hold them or anything.

It wasn't until one night I was at my cousin's place working on his car his 3 year old boy was in the shop, super inquisitive, wanting to help daddy, holding the wrenches wanting to be right in the engine bay, that it tugged at my strings and I knew I wanted a little buddy I could teach everything to for myself.

The day you see your little human be born, It changes you. I don't regret it for one second.

I almost cried the moment my son came out. I was in the delivery room holding my wife's hand. I think every man should be in there experiencing it, really changes you.

I'm in the same boat as you, traveled, opportunities, etc etc. but it was time to have a kid. Now the hard part is awaiting us to raise our kid properly, and I feel it's as challenging as ever. Society now is so much different then when we were kids growing up. Not only do we need to worry about making enough money to put food on the table like our parents did with us, but also balancing environmental and cultural differences to teach our kids so they don't grow up weird as fuck.

oh I got the joy first handed when my sister and sister in law for for a week vacation when parents and I get to take care of my niece. The joy when she smiles at you, gives you a hug. Even just simple things watching you crawl towards you really puts a smile on you. Then there is the devil part dealing with crying at night, feeding her, making sure she takes her naps on time and crying non stop coz she miss her mom. Not to mention you have to watch her and be there when she is awake. Is not an easy task.

This pretty much answers everything about raising children. All those annoying things like crying, diaper changes, feeding etc was only annoying when it's someone else's baby. For the most part, I enjoyed most of the work when it came to my own kids. But I would never do it for someone else's. :)