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#351 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by Gerbs  here's an interesting new topic
how do you know a girl is putting in effort vs showing up | Usually you can tell by their messages. Are they short? Repetitive? Lacking substance? Mostly talking about herself?
All red flags. Don't waste $4 on that town bike.
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#352 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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And to add to that, does she initiate conversations? Ask you questions that to genuinely get to know you? If she knows what your fav food is, does she randomly show up at your doorstep with it?
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Yesterday, 07:08 PM
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#353 | | RS Veteran
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Does she know you're on RS? 
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#354 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Originally Posted by GS8 Usually you can tell by their messages. Are they short? Repetitive? Lacking substance? Mostly talking about herself?
All red flags. Don't waste $4 on that town bike. | what if it's well thought messages but 1x a day!
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#355 | | Performance Moderator
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Maybe it takes her all day to write out one cohesive thought
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#356 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by Gerbs what if it's well thought messages but 1x a day! | If she's good with her words, like making genuinely witty comebacks and retorts on-the-fly, those are green flags.
But it shouldn't take a day. If she's interested, she'll actually invest time in the conversation.
And if they ever reply with just 'indeed', go and dropkick them.
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#357 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Originally Posted by Gerbs what if it's well thought messages but 1x a day! | If they're into you, they will make it easy for you.
They will come to you and find ways to spend time with you. They'll message you multiple times a day.
It's not hard, guys.
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#358 | | RS Veteran
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Originally Posted by Tapioca It's not hard, guys. | I think this is where you are wrong. We had to create a thread to discuss just this topic alone! 
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#359 | | SFICC-03*
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when i was like mid 20s i was attracted to a girl that basically showed no interest in me, so i figured that i would try to be that persistent dude, something i never really did before.
i only messaged her 1-2x a day, but for like 2 weeks. she always responded kinda neutral or positive so i kept going. eventually we did date a bit and became friends after it didnt work out.
so ya i guess some weirdos do message only once a day, but it's not a healthy start of a two way relationship. if two people actually like each other its just obvious beyond what can be explained here..
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#360 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Originally Posted by 68style Maybe it takes her all day to write out one cohesive thought | it's not cohesive nor that serious haha lmao Quote:
Originally Posted by unit when i was like mid 20s i was attracted to a girl that basically showed no interest in me, so i figured that i would try to be that persistent dude, something i never really did before.
i only messaged her 1-2x a day, but for like 2 weeks. she always responded kinda neutral or positive so i kept going. eventually we did date a bit and became friends after it didnt work out.
so ya i guess some weirdos do message only once a day, but it's not a healthy start of a two way relationship. if two people actually like each other its just obvious beyond what can be explained here.. | All my best relationships/situationships stemmed from high interest!
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Revscene turning into Incelscene
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#362 | | Performance Moderator
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I mean… that seems obvious lol (Gerbs comment not the incel one… altho……… )
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#363 | | linguistic ninja
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Have you tried negging?
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| Negging ("to neg", meaning "negative feedback") is an act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment or otherwise flirtatious remark to another person to undermine their confidence and attempt to engender in them a need for the manipulator's approval.[1] The term was coined and prescribed by pickup artists.[1]
Gerbs, are you a qualified pickup artist?
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Today, 10:23 AM
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#365 | | RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001
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so this was unqiue. I did exactly what you all did.. are you engaged and are they responding to text.. 1 text a day is gay given people spend 10 hrs on IG and phones.
Before I met my wife, we woudl go on dates, but very lack of responses. Spurt of a moment then stops and repeat. I stayed in the game and after 4-5 dates, called her out. If you're not interested, i'm ok. I'm NOT here to make friends, i got tons of buddies and can careless I was 41 and she's 38 - i was just being honest and respectful of your eggs since you say you want to get married and have a kid.
I joked giving the dates we go on - 1 date every 3 weeks - I guess I'll see you in 3 weeks. Didn't believe me and then she went back to text and mapped out on her calendar and then ramped up on our dates and we become more steady.
Best of luck to you. 99% a girl doesn't give effort, peace outtttttttt. If you define the relationship, and they still do that.. then game over.
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