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07-25-2010, 04:56 PM
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So my gf had just gone to europe for 6 months. It's been a month without sex now and my dick is giving me a hard time.
Just wondering, how did you guys cope with long distance relationship like this?
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07-25-2010, 04:56 PM
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07-25-2010, 05:09 PM
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^^ like he said..
whats the real problem, the fact you will miss her or that you wont get to have sex?
if you dont mind feeling guilty, have a temp GF.... if you do mind it, then just masturbate.. if you dont want that then..... i dont know...
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07-25-2010, 07:01 PM
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If you can't see yourself marrying her, I would just advise you to break it off so she can experience europe the way we all would want to. Single.
It would be a win / win. You'd get yours, she'd get hers.
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07-25-2010, 08:29 PM
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07-26-2010, 01:20 PM
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hmm, my sister just went to europe last month for 6 months.
Is your name derek?
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07-26-2010, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Jeremy617 hmm, my sister just went to europe last month for 6 months.
Is your name derek? |
If you can have no sex from the day you were born to the first time you did, surely you can once again have no sex for a teeny tiny bit longer.
What do you do when you get horny and your gf is not around? Try that method
Sex isn't everything, just keep yourself busy & active with friends, hobbies, family, work, etc,
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07-26-2010, 02:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Jeremy617 hmm, my sister just went to europe last month for 6 months.
Is your name derek? | LOL, would be a win if OP is derek |
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07-26-2010, 02:23 PM
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Derek, is that you?
lol.
6 months man? Seriously, that's nothing.
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07-26-2010, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Jeremy617 hmm, my sister just went to europe last month for 6 months.
Is your name derek? | lol..call your sister to watch out
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07-26-2010, 04:22 PM
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dude, if your complaining now.. how are you gona be when you find a girl you wanna settle down with and have a baby... haha coz there aint gona be no SEX for at least 6mo mini...
starting from around 7-8months preg to about 5-6months after birth...
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07-26-2010, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Jeremy617 hmm, my sister just went to europe last month for 6 months.
Is your name derek? | should've waited for some replies to bust him.
that would've been epic.. to the point where it could potentially be posted in other forums..
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07-26-2010, 04:59 PM
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Depending on how old he is, 6 months can feel like a very long time. Say if he's 20, and started having sex at 15. 6 months is 10% of his 'active' life. I wouldn't have been able to wait 6 months when I was that age.
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07-26-2010, 05:07 PM
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My ex lived in TO and for half a year I was all alone without him. It was tough, However, you gotta think long term and how much this person means to you. Emotionally and physically you're gonna have to be creative with your gf. We use. To have date nights, talk everyday, phone/webcam etc. It's only 6 months, it may seem long but it'll whiz by and before you know it she'll be back Posted via RS Mobile |
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07-26-2010, 05:10 PM
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^ if you're talking on the phone everyday and every night with your significant other while having a long distance relationship, isn't he/she too available? therefore, becoming rather boring? is that why he's now you're ex?
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07-26-2010, 08:13 PM
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+1 to Girl's post..i totally agree
its js 6 months..do what you always did when you didnt have a gf
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07-26-2010, 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted by coupeziRL ^ if you're talking on the phone everyday and every night with your significant other while having a long distance relationship, isn't he/she too available? therefore, becoming rather boring? is that why he's now you're ex? | Different strokes for different folks. Why we broke up wasn't because of that as we were still together for months once he moved home. For us we didn't mind talking everyday on webcam, it's not like we didn't have lives seperate from talking to each other each night before we go to bed. Posted via RS Mobile |
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07-27-2010, 04:17 AM
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07-27-2010, 06:18 PM
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07-27-2010, 07:52 PM
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have u guys been on long-d relationships?
of course sex contributes to the problem, but it is definately not the main concern. It is the feeling of not having someone beside you to share your activities, and all you do is talk talk talk on the phone, which can easily turn into i miss u, me 2, bye kinds of convo, same with webcams or sms
Unless the couples are married or engaged, I havent seen anyone around me succeeded in their long-d relationships, including myself. Even when both persons dont fuck around in their own towns, and visit eachother every 2 months or so, the chances of not breaking up is highly slim.
but if it is just one-time 6 months separation, and u guys break up, then u guys just suck, and perhaps you should stop thinking with your penis when there are more important things in life
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07-28-2010, 12:50 AM
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I travel between hk and vancouver alot these few years for personal reasons. had a few gfs during these period. I have a to say while i still don't believe in true long d relationship (more than half a year without seeing each other). If a person can't stay loyal to you for a few months that maybe you should really reconsider whether the love is really true.
For me personally i find that flirting help take off the tension (it is my belief that flirting does not equal cheating). I try not to talk to my SO every night and just concentrate on my own things.
If you can contain yourself for 6 month, sex on the first day you finally get to see her again will be so fucking awesome. trust me
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07-28-2010, 02:08 AM
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Originally Posted by Jeremy617 hmm, my sister just went to europe last month for 6 months.
Is your name derek? | sorry to break it to you bro but hes banging yo sista
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07-28-2010, 05:09 AM
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Originally Posted by Mugen EvOlutioN ^
nah man
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07-28-2010, 08:18 AM
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sorry man
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07-30-2010, 09:33 AM
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lol, derek is not replying to this thread no more
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