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11-11-2010, 12:57 AM
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#1 | I *Fwap* *Fwap* *Fwap* to RS
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| Whats with girls getting upset about pictures of other girls
I recently got my blackberry and I've got some pictures on my cell from the nsfw thread but there not of any naked girls they've all got clothes on or some what lol...... By that I mean, example (there's a pic of a girl stretching in long socks inside a dance studio or something...)
Anyways why is it girls seems to always express how upset they are about every picture a guy will post or have on there cell phone. Either the girls ugly..fat.. Or something along these lines. I know with some girls are just insecure but come on, are you seriously crying about some girl in booty shorts talking about how this is degrading to women.
I'm I wrong for saying this or is this something you guys notice too? As for the girls, please feel free to explain what the deal is? Posted via RS Mobile |
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11-11-2010, 01:01 AM
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#2 | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
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The ones who freak are jealous. Jealous girls suck. Therefore you want to date the non-jealous type.
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11-11-2010, 01:28 AM
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i lent my ipod to a friend (who is girl) and didnt change the girl pic. the pic was there for like 2 weeks until she changed it XD so i guess some are fine some arent
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11-11-2010, 07:30 AM
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insecure.
low self esteem.
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11-11-2010, 07:41 AM
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I have never been with any girl that is not jealous. it is human nature when someone likes u enough, they will be jealous to a degree. same goes with guys. aren't you jealous of your gf having guy pics in their phone or computer. just try not to spaz at the other person for having it.
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11-11-2010, 09:07 AM
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They're pictures, who cares? Sounds like she needs to grow up. Posted via RS Mobile |
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11-11-2010, 09:22 AM
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11-11-2010, 09:47 AM
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If its a picture of some random from online who cares but if its an ex or someone known than I'd be asking what's up with that...... Would you care if the roles were reversed Posted via RS Mobile |
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11-11-2010, 10:05 AM
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tell them to grow up
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11-11-2010, 10:09 AM
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#10 | VLS Head Mod
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This is prob the type of girl who doesn't like their man watching porn thinking its dirty and bad I assume Posted via RS Mobile |
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11-11-2010, 10:21 AM
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Jealous shit and insecure that other girls look better
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11-11-2010, 12:48 PM
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Most of the girls that say stuff aren't girls I'm into or seeing, nothing like that. These are just girls I'm friends with, if it was the other way around I wouldn't care girls have pics of guys up all the time, I always see that mark walberg pic, taylor lautner, ronaldo I don't careless.
Now if I had a gf and it was pics of my ex then I could understand if she found them on my cell or reverse with her, but these are just pics I put over bbm or facebook kinda thing.
With the porn thing it was funny bc this one girl would always tell me. Not every guy watches porn I'm like ok true but most do she's like "no they don't your wrong" a full year goes by and now she finally started to agree with me lol
The one girl was a lot worse than the others was talkin about how guys call girls ho's sluts, she went off. Its just another double standard.... Posted via RS Mobile |
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11-11-2010, 01:38 PM
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i guess jealously is in everyone, i bet some guys hate it when girls have pictures of guys
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11-11-2010, 02:55 PM
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they're jealous you dont want pics of them in your phone
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11-11-2010, 03:49 PM
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#15 | I don't get it
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Originally Posted by yohoho i guess jealously is in everyone, i bet some guys hate it when girls have pictures of guys | I have pictures of guys in boxers or whatever on my ipod touch and have it as my screensaver bg. If I was dating right now I wouldn't be surprised if my bf gets uncomfortable and/or tells me to change it.
Some girls just like to be controlling, its normal
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11-12-2010, 11:00 AM
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#16 | The Lone Wanderator
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I've got a fuckton of pictures of girls on my berry--always have on my phones since the resolution has gotten decent enough. I regularly change my background (often from the twanger thread) and share it with the guys on the berry group.
Some girls don't like it Some girls are fine with "pictures", but get bothered by specifics; "Why do you have so many?" "Why don't you keep just one?" "Why don't any of them look like me/your girlfriend?". Others are cool with it or just meh.
Luckily, my girlfriend is into checking other chicks out--she regularly checks out my wallpaper and is like "man, I wish I had her tits" or "ooh, nice face!" or "Ew, really? Oh, the outfit? Yeah, I guess."
For me, when I look for someone I present myself as I am. If you don't like it, you don't have to date me. Easy enough.
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11-12-2010, 11:07 AM
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Wait, so you're only friends with these girls and they still get kind of pissy with pictures in your phone? Why do they care in the first place?
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11-12-2010, 11:15 AM
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#18 | Ask me about how I answered the question "How fat is TOO fat?"
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As much as I love the contours of a fit female body, having an ass or something similar as your wallpaper or background somewhere is screaming desperate or needy in the eyes of others. And maybe a bit creepy to some girls. Posted via RS Mobile
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11-12-2010, 11:44 AM
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1. Women these days are pretty much raised being told pornography (or anything like it) is dehumanizing and degrading and blah blah blah blah. I find that extreme reactions to skin pics are NOT usually a case of poor self esteem or jealousy but the product of how girls have been socialized to react to this stuff. The feminists get all pissy and threaten to take away our girl cards if we don't throw a hissy fit about it.
2. Girls are not visually stimulated the way guys are and therefore will never entirely understand what the fascination is even for those of us who have nothing against it all.
3. Don't let girls play with your phone if it's full of T&A
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11-12-2010, 11:47 AM
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#20 | Ask me about how I answered the question "How fat is TOO fat?"
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Hahah +1 to number 3 Posted via RS Mobile |
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11-13-2010, 03:27 AM
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I was in the middle of typing something until my stupid phone closed it. Anyways ill make it shorter, all these pics are only on my profile nobody has ever gone through my phone except 1 girl and she's just a close gf and could careless and eve if she did I wouldn't care if she doesn't like it or like me anymore bc of it ok.....
An yes these are just friends not gf's
Having pics of the opposite sex makes you desperate hahah are you serious? I'm pretty sure a majority of guys/girls have a pic of the opposite sex on there computer or cell.
all I'm trying to really get across is ppl should just chill the hell out its just a pic, if the girls half naked I could sorta understand same with a half naked dude. But if its just a pic of like hugh jackman in x men or like halle berry who cares, you think your bf or gf is going to leave you for them...... Let's be serious. Posted via RS Mobile |
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11-15-2010, 09:21 AM
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I'm a girl and I wouldn't have an issue. Especially if it aint even my bf!
Even if it was your gf, they'd have to be pretty damn insecure to get mad over a model or porn star. On the other hand, I have come across pics of my boyfriends ex and ouch, did that ever hurt. Posted via RS Mobile |
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11-15-2010, 09:37 AM
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my gf looks through my porn collection all the time and I told her those women all have dick. She shuts up.
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11-15-2010, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Graeme S I've got a fuckton of pictures of girls on my berry--always have on my phones since the resolution has gotten decent enough. I regularly change my background (often from the twanger thread) and share it with the guys on the berry group.
Some girls don't like it Some girls are fine with "pictures", but get bothered by specifics; "Why do you have so many?" "Why don't you keep just one?" "Why don't any of them look like me/your girlfriend?". Others are cool with it or just meh.
Luckily, my girlfriend is into checking other chicks out--she regularly checks out my wallpaper and is like "man, I wish I had her tits" or "ooh, nice face!" or "Ew, really? Oh, the outfit? Yeah, I guess."
For me, when I look for someone I present myself as I am. If you don't like it, you don't have to date me. Easy enough. | excuse me...girls as well on the berry group! hahaa love the constant updates gms..but some are really butter faced tho =/
btw, where's our update today?
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11-15-2010, 06:17 PM
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#25 | The Lone Wanderator
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Originally Posted by FI-SP23 excuse me...girls as well on the berry group! hahaa love the constant updates gms..but some are really butter faced tho =/
btw, where's our update today? | Whenever I see a butterface I say to myself "this is the reason God invented paper bags and the Doggy style". Update in 10 mins when I'm done tutoring.
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