[fliptuner]

Just want to let this out. Some of you can relate and others might find some info useful.

It was one of the hardest decisions I had to make. I thought I was prepared for it because I knew it was her time but nothing can prepare you for losing someone you've loved as this much. (Yes, someone - she was one of my best and the most loyal of friends)

ChamCham was a 13.5 year old Rotty. I raised her from when she was 2, from the SPCA. She was given up by her PO's because they had to move into a place that didn't allow pets. From what I gather, they treated her really well but their circumstances didn't allow them to keep her. She was full of life, partially trained, great spirit and pretty good manners. She always wanted to play, was great with my 3 year old and my younger nieces and nephews later on. Protective of her home but absolutely friendly when introduced to strangers and other dogs - a true gentle giant.

Of all the dogs I've owned, she's the one I bonded with the most. I used to work out in the bush, up North, for weeks at a time and I let her run free. She always followed us, would come hang out for lunch and dinner and sleep beside my bed at night. She'd warn us of bears or if other animals were coming close at night. There was no outside communication, no cell service or anything. During these times, she was my only friend.

Fast forward to the last couple of months. She developed cancer in one of her front joints and started having trouble walking. Her back legs started getting weak and it got to the point where she could barely walk outside to relieve herself on the front lawn. She would cry all the time cause she was in pain and lay in the same spot, only turning from one side to the other - it was heartbreaking. It got to the point where I had to decide what was best for her and consider euthanasia. In hindsight, the only thing holding me back was my selfish need to keep my friend.

After a lot of research and a dozen calls to local vets, I decided on the clinic that was right for us. We (my GF, son and I) went into an exam room, spent some time with her. Then the tech came in and inserted a catheter in one of her legs in preparation for the drug that would ultimately put her to sleep. The vet came in explained what would happen and gave her the drug when we were ready. I held her head and petted her while the vet injected her. Within 5 seconds I knew she was gone. The vet checked her heartbeat to comfirm it. I stayed, crying, holding her for another half an hour or so, 'til I was somewhat ready to compose myself and leave her. I'm glad the clinic had the foresight to have me prepay because I was in no condition to want to deal with anything when I left.

I can only imagine that's she's running around in a sunny field somewhere, healthy and happy, without a care in the world, just waiting for me to join her - waiting for her friend.



**Cost of euthanasia is approx $150 - $200 for average size dogs, depending on the clinic. This includes the vet service plus cremation. If you want the ashes back add another $150-$200. Some places I called, charged upwards of $600 but in the Tri Cities, where I live, it's a little less. I went with a place that I felt comfortable with, regardless of cost.

**Don't leave your dog alone when it's their time. They would die for you without hesitation because they love you. They would never leave your side. Show them the same respect. The least you can do after years of loyalty is be there at their final breath.

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[ImportXxX]

what a beautiful dog, sorry for your lost. Pretty sure she's in a better place now, RIP

[TekDragon]

You were truly her friend till the end. A beautiful dog. I'm sorry for you loss.

[racerman88]

it's tough when you lose a family member

[tiger_handheld]

looks like an awesome dog.

i bet he went to doggy heaven :) ...

cheers to chamcham

[SumAznGuy]

Sorry to hear about your loss.
That was the right thing you did and to be by her side. You are a good person, and she was lucky to have you just like you were lucky to have her.

[Porschedog]

Sorry to hear about your loss.
My family and I also had to put our dog to sleep last November.

It was also tough for me at start because of the many years I spent with my
dog.

Always remember the wonderful times you spent with her!

[InvisibleSoul]

I already dread the day that I'm going to be faced with the same situation. Our little darling chihuahua is only two years old, so hopefully it'll be a long while yet... but I know inevitably it will come at some point. I guess that's the price that has to be paid in exchange for so many years of love and companionship...

[Jsunu]

I am slowly facing the fact now since my dog is now 13 years old and starting to lip around from arthrititis. I don't know if I will ever get another dog again since it is like just having a family member who only has a lifespan of 15 years max.

[TheNewGirl]

Your dog was very lucky to have you. It sounds like she had a wonderful life and was a wonderful companion. I wish every dog could be so well cared for.

[fliptuner]

Thanks for reading and I appreciate the sentiment.

This is going to take a while to cope with. So many daily reminders - her bowls, mat, toys. What do you do with them?

Our 2yo Yorkie, Buster and her had this hierarchy thing going on during feeding time. They ate in separate rooms but Buster wouldn't start eating until she could hear ChamCham digging through her food - even when we'd give her the OK, she would wait. Last night I go to feed her and she just sat there, in front of her bowl, waiting for ChamCham to start. It was pretty sad to see. Don't worry, I won't be over compensating with her - she's probably going to adjust a lot faster than me.

Jsunu, I'm in the same boat right now. I was contemplating what the purpose of having a dog is, when they're going to die long before us. I've always had a big dog. It's just that I was so close to her and I never had to make the decision to put the others down or was too young to fully grasp what it all meant.

I think we just need to accept that we get to be the best part of their life, however short, from beginning to end and in return, they get to be one of the best parts of ours. That they are happiest when we are happy, when we play with them, when we give them praise and even just our time. In return we get, well...... everything they have. A well trained dog will give you loyalty, companionship, gratitude, protection and a bunch of laughs. If you want to run, they'll run. If you want to sit and do nothing or are sad, they'll sit and wait til you're ready or convince you to get off your butt.

11 years of good times is worth the weeks it will take to move on. I also take solace in knowing she was happy at the end because I was there.

[SumAznGuy]

Now my co-workers are thinking I am nuts cause I am teary eyed from reading your second post, especially about Buster not eating and waiting for ChamCham to eat first.

[Lil Bastrd]

I feel for you. I just had to put my 'ole man' down 4 mnths ago. It was a hard decision but when he stopped eating for three days it was time. Our vet was great and allowed us to stay in the room with him for as long as needed. I now have his ashes in an urn. It is the toughest decision, but the best deicision. A piece of them is always with you as they leave paw prints in our hearts.

[fliptuner]

Now my co-workers are thinking I am nuts cause I am teary eyed from reading your second post, especially about Buster not eating and waiting for ChamCham to eat first.

Are they not aware of the rules that allow a man to shed a tear?


-Death of a loved one
-Death of a pet
-Birth of a child
-Kicked in the sack
-Anal rape

[Soundy]

**Don't leave your dog alone when it's their time. They would die for you without hesitation because they love you. They would never leave your side. Show them the same respect. The least you can do after years of loyalty is be there at their final breath.

As per #10:

A PET'S TEN COMMANDMENTS.........

1. My life is likely to last 10-15 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful.

2. Give me time to understand what you want of me.

3. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being.

4. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainment, but I have only you.

5. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me.

6. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it.

7. Before you hit me, before you strike me, remember that I could hurt you, and yet, I choose not to bite you.

8. Before you scold me for being lazy or uncooperative, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I'm not getting the right food, I have been in the sun too long, or my heart might be getting old or weak.

9. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too, will grow old.

10. On the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there, because I love you so.

[1-Slicer-1]

My baby is only 2.5 years old, but my biggest fear already is having to face the day when I have to let him go. And that's no exaggeration; I get tears rolling down my face at least a few times every week just thinking about it. It's really not healthy for me. I should just enjoy the time I have with him rather than worrying so much about losing him, especially since he's only 2.5 years old.

[hchang]

Now my co-workers are thinking I am nuts cause I am teary eyed from reading your second post, especially about Buster not eating and waiting for ChamCham to eat first.

Not nuts at all.

I got teary eyed just from the first post, then I saw the second post and had the hardest time reading the rest of the thread :(

It sucks how we all have to live with death throughout our lives. But it's probably best to just focus on the good times now instead of worrying about whats to come later. Pretty ironic considering it's the exact opposite when it comes to our careers/lives :lol

The journey is the reward, the death is just a price associated with the journey.

[spyker]

Putting a pet down is the worst and most painfull decision anyone can make,I know people who refuse to own a pet,becuase they are worried they might have to make this decision down the road,even though they are total animal lovers.

I had four pitbulls,I had to put one down 2 years ago,now I only have three,the three current dogs a have,they are not somewhat the same anymore due to them losing one of their pack mates,even the animals feel it.

[dachinesedude]

who says a man cant cry? i dont cry much but seeing my 17 year old dog's eyes slowing closing as he was getting his euthansia shot was the hardest thing i had to go through in my life, i cried like a little girl

i love dogs to death but this could be the sole reason why i wont want one again

[!SG]

RIP, and sorry for your loss.

i had to go thru it 3 years ago when hemingway passed away. he was a 14 year old belgium terveran (sheperd)

[insomniac]

RIP. this was one of the most touching threads ive seen on rs thru the two years ive been on this forum. hope you can get over it? reading this thread totally reminded me of this video. :(
Last Minutes with ODEN on Vimeo

[Lil Bastrd]

That video was so well done. not a dry eye. feels good to just cry for those who have passed on leaving their pawprints in the heart. This will be the first Christmas without my 'ole man', it's going to be tough. I was hoping my daughter would get to grow up to know him but I think that was wishful thinking. I atleast got a photo of them together the night before I took him in.

To all those furry, feathered, scaled friends that have passed this year; may you rest in peace.

[fliptuner]

I saw that video posted about 6 months ago and got choked up then. Watching it now, I felt like I was looking in the mirror. His philosophy on the situation, the emotion, even how it went down at the clinic - way too close to home, way too soon.

Pretty speechless other than that so I'll just add this:

He is my other eyes that can see above the clouds;
my other ears that hear above the winds.
He is the part of me that can reach out into the sea.
He has told me a thousand times over that I am his reason for being;
by the way he rests against my leg;
by the way he thumps his tail at my smallest smile;
by the way he shows his hurt when I leave without taking him.
(I think it makes him sick with worry when he is not along to care for me.)

When I am wrong, he is delighted to forgive.
When I am angry, he clowns to make me smile.
When I am happy, he is joy unbounded.
When I am a fool, he ignores it.
When I succeed, he brags.
Without him, I am only another man.
With him, I am all-powerful.
He is loyalty itself.
He has taught me the meaning of devotion.
With him, I know a secret comfort and a private peace.
He has brought me understanding where before I was ignorant.
His head on my knee can heal my human hurts.
His presence by my side is protection against my fears of dark and unknown things.
He has promised to wait for me... whenever... wherever - in case I need him.
And I expect I will - as I always have.
He is just my dog.

(Gene Hill)

[K-Dub]

Thank you for posting and sharing. I went through the same thing with my 13yo Rotty Rocky back in May. As you can guess, the coincidence and similarity is a little too close to home.

Sorry for your loss, you'll see her one day again.

[polvoronn]

My most sincere condolences. While not quite the same, my budgie died early this morning. Of all my siblings, I think I'm the most affected by it - I loved the little guy. My cat is sitting on my lap as I'm typing this. I get attached easily so I know I'll lose it when I lose him.

I can't visit this thread anymore. It's too much at this time. Thanks for letting me get that out.

[norph]

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss :( I am a fellow dog owner as well and I just can't imagine what I'd do when my dog has to go. But all I can say is stay strong and keep your head up. Time will make things better.

[quasi]

You did the right thing all around. It isn't easy, I've had my fair share of dogs. I have my Staffie who's 8 now and I got as a pup and I'm dreading the day. It's true, dogs are here for us and we're all they have. We have lots of other shit going on but for them we are everything. Being there is so important, there is no love more unconditional.

I hope you're feeling better and had a great Christmas with your family.

Cheers

[leilomo]

I just came across this thread and it's just too much for me to absorb at this moment. I'm so sorry for your loss, he seemed like a terrific dog. Take solace in the fact that you'll be able to reunite with him one day.

My doberman, who was 8.5 years old yesterday, passed away in front of my eyes last night. He had cardiomyopathy which progressed into congestive heart failure about 2 weeks ago. I knew i had to do something when he showed worsening signs of his condition so I took him in to the vet and they prescribed some additional medications for him to take. I knew they were just band-aid measures for the inevitable and that his time was up soon, but I didn't think it would be so fast. In hindsight, I should've given him euthanasia, instead of having him suffer through his pain in his last minutes, days. As a friend, it was the most that I couldve done. Instead, in the last minutes of his life I had to witness him on the ground wheezing for air and finally taking his final breath. I felt like an idiot as I watched helplessly. When he passed, I stayed and laid with him on the ground for a good hour before taking him to the hospital. I couldn't stop crying and still can't. I feel as if my heart is broken into a million pieces. I miss him so much it hurts. It was and is without a doubt the toughest moment that I have ever gone through in my life. Anyone that has lost a pet before will be able to relate to this. I've lost not only a terrific companion, but my best friend. All I have now are the great memories we've had which I will hold near and dear to my heart. All I can do now is take solace in the fact that he's in a better place right now and that I'll be there to reunite with him one day. Rest in peace, buddy...rest in peace.

[insomniac]

^sorry for your lost man.
damn these posts are so touching :,(

[fliptuner]

That absolutely sucks man, I'm very sorry for your loss.

I know in hindsight, you're thinking he suffered that much longer and you should have put him down sooner. Know this: you did everything in your power to help him. EVERYTHING! You can't second guess yourself and feel guilty. You did what you thought was best at the time because you loved him and he knew you loved him til the end - that's all that matters. He's in a better place now, healthy and happy, just hoping he can see you again (just as much as you miss him).

I'm sure you're pretty emotional right now and somewhat out of sorts. I'm still trying to sort through the loss of my dog. Each day has it's ups and downs but I'm allowing myself time to grieve and hopefully with time, the downs will lessen and I can focus more on the good memories and put my sadness behind me.

I wish you the best.

[leilomo]

Thanks guys for all the nice and kind words. As with anything, time shall pass to heal all wounds. However, its hard to let go and sometimes with the void that he's left behind I choose not to forget...

here are some photos of him:

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[fliptuner]

You shouldn't forget. Cherish the memories, let go of the sadness. It's just a matter of time.

[SumAznGuy]

flipturner, how is the yorky doing? Is he starting to eat now?

[Soundy]

Gorgeous Dobie, leilomo... looks like a giant pussycat :) Sorry to hear about his early loss.

[BlackZRoadster]

Dog lovers are great people!!

[leilomo]

Thanks guys. It means a lot. He was the biggest pussycat, and that was a big reason why everybody loved him too
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[baggdis300]

who says a man cant cry? i dont cry much but seeing my 17 year old dog's eyes slowing closing as he was getting his euthansia shot was the hardest thing i had to go through in my life, i cried like a little girl

i love dogs to death but this could be the sole reason why i wont want one again

im in the EXACT same boat.
hell im tearing up just thinking of my dog.

but now hes in a better place, he was suffering of cancer so its better that hes in heaven now

[MindBomber]

I'm in tears thinking about he wonderful dogs who have shared their lives with me, the amazing memories, companionship and loyalty they have given me.

Purdy, you were my first dog and I will never forget the wonderful times I shared with you, you were my most trusted companion and my best friend growing up. You lived just long enough to comfort me through my parents divorce, as if you knew I needed you...
Pongo, you were Purdy's first born and her only puppy to live, I remember you being so small you fit inside Mom's pocket and we feed you through a tube. If only you hadn't been so skilled at digging maybe we would still be together.
Jellybean, you comforted me after I lost Purdy, helped me through high school.. and then we went our separate ways. I hope your happy and healthy, I can't thank the vet enough for taking you to live on her farm, I'll never forget that act of kindness.
Driden, you were amazing, dumb, but amazing. Despite being a large doberman you ran in fear of the kittens when they first came home, but eventually you grew to love them and occasionally think you were a kitten too.

Losing a dog is one of the most difficult things anyone can experience, but the love they give you is irreplaceable and different from anything else I've ever experienced.

[fliptuner]

flipturner, how is the yorky doing? Is he starting to eat now?

Prior to ChamCham being put down they had set feeding times. For the first few days we had to leave her bowl out and let her eat whenever she felt like it, just so she would eat at all. Now we're back at set times but she's still a little hesitant to eat right away but after a bit of coaxing, she'll eat.

It's pretty sad to know she's going through a mourning/adjustment period but it's at the point where we all have to move on. I'm afraid she'll have issues if we continue to compensate with her because of the loss of the other. So as far as Buster's concerned, it's back to regular life.

[JL9000]

I can completely relate to how you felt/feel right now. Just remember, you absolutely did the right thing as ChamCham's best friend.

I realize this isn't a dog story but...

I never planned to have a pet myself due to the level of commitment required. In the summer of 2003, my neighbors left their cat, Simon, behind when they moved away. Simon came over to my yard a day later and stayed at my back door until I realized that my neighbors were done moving. I took him in and discovered how much life a pet can bring into my home.

I was under the impression that he was roughly 7 at the time but as I later found out I underestimated his age by at least a few years. Anyway, fast-forward 7 completely trouble-free years, he had an infection early last year, and spent 3 days in the emergency room. This made me realize how ill-prepared I was for my aging friend. I spent a couple of hours a day there with him to make him feel as comfortable as possible, but him and I both knew how much he hated it there. When he came back, I decided to let him do whatever he wanted whenever he wanted, probably to make up for the fact that I was unable to be by my grandfather's side before he passed away, coincidentally at around the same time as when Simon entered my life.

Everyday I see him walk a little slower, jump a little lower, and sleep a little longer. It made me sad seeing him unable to go where he used to go, but it didn't stop him from roaming/terrorizing his neighborhood and catching moths in the yard. Finally on the last week of October, he showed rapid signs of aging. His appetite decreased rapidly within days to the point where he wanted to eat his favorite foods but was unable to eat it. He walked around water sources and tried to drink the water, but that was a no go either. He lost a significant amount of weight, and right before I was bringing him to the vet, he had a seizure in my arms, I lost grip, and he fell down the stairs. The slow thump, thump, thump noises he made as he rolled down the stairs still haunts me today. While he was at the emergency room for tests, I took my family and friends home and went back to the hospital myself. Simon's kidneys were failing rapidly, and blood toxin levels were out the roof. The vet explained to me my options. I would've done anything to bring back his quality of life, but the vet said that was not possible.

I brought Simon home on that dark rainy night after the vet had given him some food and extra hydration to keep him comfortable until 2 days later when I had my appointment with my regular vet to review the other test results. As expected, the test results were grim, and I knew then and there that I had to do the right thing that day. I brought him home, and walked him around the neighborhood, to his old home, and then to every corner in my house as he has literally been to every corner of my house. It was as if he knew what was coming. A lot of friends left work early to come say good bye to Simon that day. It was a very emotional moment for everyone as he always greeted our guests at the front door whenever they came to visit. The time has come, and I put Simon in his carrier. This was actually the only time he willingly entered his carrier by himself. I wasn't sure if I could be there for him, but my girlfriend convinced me that would've made all the difference to the final stage of his life. I held his head while he was laid on his side for the procedure. He didn't struggle one bit and just stared at me the whole time, until the moment his heart stopped beating. I bursted into tears like never before, and wasn't able to control my own emotions for the next hour or so.

That was the afternoon of November 1st, 2010, and I have moved on since then. He is still always with me in my mind though and traces of his hair can still be found on everything I own. I was working on my mountain bike last night, and found a piece of Simon's hair on the front tire. Moments like this constantly remind me of the years of awesomeness I shared with my special friend.

By the way, I was reading a book once with regards to your situation with multiple pets in the household. The author mentioned that it can be a good idea to bring the pet that had been put down home to let his friends investigate and finally realize that he is gone so they can move on with their lives without having to wonder what had happened.

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[n0ob]

^I cried.

Sorry for your loss.

[baggdis300]

me as well

reminds me even more bout my dog.

and i always find his fur everywhere, 4inches long, and white can't miss it

RIP MILO

[JL9000]

Life is very different now, and I've been told that another feline friend can help ease the pain. I've looked into adopting another cat from the shelters but at the same time am worried that I might not be doing it with the proper mindset. The last thing I want is to be disappointed with the outcome and have an innocent animal lose the opportunity of having a better home as a result. How do you guys, in the long run, deal with losing your best friends?

Looking on the bright side though, I'm breathing better these days since I am actually allergic to cats...

[Soundy]

^Cesar always says, you get the dog you NEED, not the dog you want... I think the same applies to any kids of pets. I'd say, visit the shelter now and then, and at some point, the right cat will choose you.

[- kT]

this thread is amazing

i have 2 dogs over in hk, they basically grew up with me until i moved away from hk to here. they're both alive and well but it tore my heart to have to leave them, especially since the two of them (brother + sister) have been with me since i was old enough to play with them without getting swallowed whole. my aunt even brought them to the airport and they were just bounding around, tails wagging, but when i went to give them a final hug, they seemed to understand and stopped bounding around and just sat there watching as i went through the gates

last time i saw them was 2 years ago, the moment i went into the apartment they were all over my legs, jumping all over and stuff. needless to say, they were my first friends, and though i know the day will come when they'll be gone, next time i go back i'll be sure to give them some extra thanks for all the great times they've been through with me, and all the terrible times too

thanks op, great thread, condolences to you, and know that your dog is in a better place, looking down and wagging his tail, happy that he was such a large part of your life

[Phil@rise]

As per #10:

A PET'S TEN COMMANDMENTS.........

1. My life is likely to last 10-15 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful.

2. Give me time to understand what you want of me.

3. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being.

4. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainment, but I have only you.

5. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me.

6. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it.

7. Before you hit me, before you strike me, remember that I could hurt you, and yet, I choose not to bite you.

8. Before you scold me for being lazy or uncooperative, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I'm not getting the right food, I have been in the sun too long, or my heart might be getting old or weak.

9. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too, will grow old.

10. On the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there, because I love you so.
Words to live by.
My GF made a plaque with these commandments hanging on the wall of our house for all to see and live by (at least when they are in our home).
I for one am not a supporter of euthanasia but do not judge those who are my heart goes out for you and your loss.

[n0ob]

not the right place for this video -- freakshow

[PJ]

Sorry to hear, sounds like he had a loving, good run. And I'm sure he knew how much you love him.

This is why I can never get dogs.. I get attached too easily. I came really close to getting a dog several times, but I just couldn't for this reason..
I have 3 turtles.. and even though they're wild and have no sense of emotion, I still love them. And I never want to lose them.

I couldn't imagine losing a canine companion.

[ToneCapone]

Fuck man I just saw ChamCham last time when I came over. Really sad to hear that she seemed like a sweetheart. Given the amount of positivity she brought into your life im sure shes in a good place waitin for you.
You'll see your friend again, but not yet.
Live in the sky

[MrGoodbar]

This is exactly why I can't have a fucking dog. I can't take it. Just reading Soundy's post messed me up hard and I'm all emotional now at work. Keep ya' head up and focus your eyes on the sky. There's a place where thugs get in free and you gotta be a G. And at thugs mansion, even the dawgs rollin' free.

[Okami]

thanks everyone for sharing. im sure there were bad times but when you think back.. you will only remember all the good times so in the end it was all worth it.. im sure you loved them and im sure they loved you back.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DGQVX8iGbgk

[fliptuner]

True that^^^^

To think of the joy a good dog brings, even after losing one, makes me want another. You are each other's best friends.

Even though ChamCham's been gone for a while now, I still get a bit choked up talking about her. Sometimes I think I hear her scratch at the door and I still have 25lbs of her food in the garage. It's still depressing.

Thanks agian for all your support and sharing your stories.

[BlackZRoadster]

If your other dog doesn't eat Cham Chams food, donate it to your local shelter. They will make good use of the food and at the same time knowing you've helped another dog:)
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[Soundy]

To think of the joy a good dog brings, even after losing one, makes me want another. You are each other's best friends.

Just a thought... if you miss having a dog but you don't feel ready to get another one permanently... consider fostering one for a rescue agency or the SPCA.

I have a friend who recently had to put her old Yorkie down, and is currently fostering different dogs for a local rescue society. Most of them so far have been fairly troubled; one has only three legs and was badly mistreated, so she was very distrustful of people AND other dogs... that one has now gone to her permanent home, still with trust problems, but doing much better. Another one she has now is jumpy and aggressive and has bad skin problems, but he's getting the best of care and attention in his temporary home now.

Then again, this is the "dog lady" of the neighborhood; everyone with a dog knows her, and she regularly doggie-sits for most of the neighbors (including us). She's got an amazing way with, and love for, most animals.

Most outfits, when you're fostering for them, will cover all the dog's expenses, including food, medical bills, even treats and accessories.

And sometimes, you end up so attached to the little buggers, you just keep them... like we did with Daisy :) She's the sister of our Dusty, who had been adopted and returned because she had behavioral problems - as it turned out, she was the alpha dog of the litter, and when she went to her new home, they babied her, and she became the alpha there, to the point of biting one of the children when she tried to pet one of the other animals.

They were about to send her to another facility in Calgary for training, when we offered to see what we could do with her... three days of taking her to the dog park and NOT babying her, and they said she didn't even seem like the same dog, her attitude had turned around so quickly. Six months and one medical emergency later, we decided she'd become part of the pack, and that we'd keep her.

[rawr]

This is exactly why I can't have a fucking dog. I can't take it. Just reading Soundy's post messed me up hard and I'm all emotional now at work. Keep ya' head up and focus your eyes on the sky. There's a place where thugs get in free and you gotta be a G. And at thugs mansion, even the dawgs rollin' free.

This is also the reason why I can't have a dog/cat even though I LOVE them to bits. I know I can't stand the pain of watching them leave one day, so I'd rather not get so attached to them. Reading flip's and JL9000's posts made me tear up... Cheer up guys, I'm sure they're up in doggie/kitty land boxing with each other.

[deuel_1]

my parents had to have my dog pebbles put to sleep last week, she had cancer aswell. Her sister died about 2 years ago and she just never seemed the same until "Lola" my parents new dog was brought into the house. I dont live in the same city as my parents so the last time I saw my dog was June, so glad I got took her for long walks every day I was there.

[An Drew]

RIP!

[Senna4ever]

This is also the reason why I can't have a dog/cat even though I LOVE them to bits. I know I can't stand the pain of watching them leave one day, so I'd rather not get so attached to them. Reading flip's and JL9000's posts made me tear up... Cheer up guys, I'm sure they're up in doggie/kitty land boxing with each other.
A dog or cat dying is not as bad as them going missing and you not knowing what on earth happened to it. My dog just disappeared one night...we have no idea what happened to him. I personally envy the pet owners who have had closure.

[n0ob]

A dog or cat dying is not as bad as them going missing and you not knowing what on earth happened to it. My dog just disappeared one night...we have no idea what happened to him. I personally envy the pet owners who have had closure.

Agreed. Someone in my neighbourhood recently (about 2 weeks ago) had their dog stolen right from their backyard...

The fucked up parts of the story:

1) We live in what is generally referred to as a very safe neighbourhood.

2) He was a big dog, probably a 100+ pound bullmastiff. Thieves must've already had an idea of what they were dealing with as I doubt they would've attempted this had they not already known how friendly the big guy is.

3) The dog was over 3 years old...What on earth does someone want to steal a 3 year old dog for?

People are fucking crazy. Steal anything in the world, steal a TV, a vehicle, a shitload of money, etc., but come on...Don't steal someone's dog...you might as well be stealing children...

If you guys ever see a grown up Bullmastiff that responds to the name "Lucy", let me know as I'm sure the owner would appreciate any information.

[n0ob]

Just updating my post above...

The dog which was stolen a few weeks ago has been returned by the thief.
It was found tied to a lightpost in front of the owners house on Monday at 6 AM.
What a relief this must be for the owner.

I can only imagine that the thief stole the dog because he thought she was not spayed, found out she was in fact spayed, and then decided to return her.

[InvisibleSoul]

Wow, that's crazy.

[rien]

I dread the day I have to say goodbye to my dog. I cried my eyes out reading this thread and watching the vid 737! posted.

A dog or cat dying is not as bad as them going missing and you not knowing what on earth happened to it. My dog just disappeared one night...we have no idea what happened to him. I personally envy the pet owners who have had closure.

I can't say I would agree...I've had 4 of my dogs stolen from me(long story). The possibility of them still being alive is easier to cope with, I think, than knowing that they have passed away.

[n0ob]

I can't say I would agree...I've had 4 of my dogs stolen from me(long story). The possibility of them still being alive is easier to cope with, I think, than knowing that they have passed away.

And what about the possibility of them being abused?...tortured?.........?

[iam_dan]

im not a canine owner, but wow...reading that, was totally heartbreaking

[spoon.ek9]

i know i'm super late to replying to this thread, but man, i definitely feel for all you guys who have lost these members of your family. i myself have two dogs (2 years, 1.5yrs) and i always remind myself that their lives aren't that long and that i must cherish their company every single day! it kills me that i will have to say goodbye to them but it is, of course, inevitable. i especially love my 2yr old as i've watched him grow up since he was a 5 week old puppy and he holds the largest part of my heart, of any living being.

geez.. i'm tearing up just typing this out..

anyways, i'd just like to thank all you responsible, loving owners out there. it angers me to no end when i hear of people who abuse and neglect their pets. if your heart isn't into it, don't make the pet suffer through your ignorance! i have a co-worker who has been asking me about doggy daycares and her main concern is to dump the dog for 5-8 hours so she can go out. i may or not be right here, but this kind of ticked me off. it just doesn't seem the same as the rest of us who give our hearts to our dogs and they return the favour without a spoken word.

my two dogs are actually the first dogs i've ever lived with. i've always loved dogs but living with one was a life changing experience. there's so many ups and downs but i know for sure, i cannot imagine my life without them. sometimes the best part of my day is going home, knowing they're always happy to see me return. that has to be one of the best feelings in the world.

[dignatas]

i felt the same when my dog died from ulcer. Stupid pet hospital near killarney prescribed an overdose of medicine. Sued their ass.... RIP man =)

[duyxngoc]

Im sorry for you lose. Animal or human living with them for a long time get used to them. When they are gone life is so weird. Hope things go well..
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[Lil Bastrd]

One of our friends called me a couple of days ago. His dog had a large lump appear on his rib area. After having the vet take a look it was diagnosed as bone cancer. It hit too close to home as I had just had to put my old boy down at the end of last year. It is never easy but I will always make room for a pup in my life.

[Dragon-88]

So i just found out today that the very first dog that my family has ever gotten (Terry) has passed away today. He was a very loved dog with lots of energy, unfortunatly he always had body and back problems. After 12 years of taking care of my cousins side of the family, he will now rest in peace..

I have posted my favorite picture of him and especially during this time of the playoffs.

Please enjoy this picture as much as I enjoyed the company of Terry. RIP

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v367/Dragon-88/untitled2.jpg

[fliptuner]

I'm sorry for your loss.

Maybe the boys can win one for him. =)

[Crooks]

Just thought how pissed i would be if my dog passed away, Sorry for your loss!

[FishTaco]

i had some tears reading, sorry for your loss. =(

[Senna4ever]

Here's my dog, Bambi that went missing after having him for 7 years. I still wonder what happened to him every night of April 10...the last day we saw him. :(

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v249/Senna4ever/Forum%20crap/84f3c780.jpg

[fliptuner]

That's terrible news, man. I hope he has a tattoo or chip that can ID him if he gets brought in to an spca or pound. Hopefully, it's just a matter of time. Not knowing is the worst.

[vafanculo]

Here's my dog, Bambi that went missing after having him for 7 years. I still wonder what happened to him every night of April 10...the last day we saw him. :(

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v249/Senna4ever/Forum%20crap/84f3c780.jpg

thats horrible. how did he go missing?

I had a scare last month when my dog ran out the door and i had to chase him a good 6 blocks. i saw him run across a busy intersection and my heart stopped..thank god so did the cars, or both me and him woulda been lying down in hospital beds next to each other.

[Senna4ever]

We let him out to go pee, and he never came home.

[guesskid]

sorry to hear about your loss :( i always loved dogs, especially if i lived with them for years, i wouldn't be able to let them go ,

[MWM]

RIP chamcham you wont be forgotten... im sorry for your lost it sounds like you went through alot of great times with her

[Porschedog]

Saw this on Reddit. Reminded me of my dog...

http://i.imgur.com/1ulxb.jpg