The Modern Dating Thread

[CivicBlues]

Those photos are 100% retouched/photoshopped

[Hehe]

Originally Posted by CivicBlues

Those photos are 100% retouched/photoshopped

No doubt. But the chick I saw was genuinely hot.

There’s a whole industry in Asia about this. Pretty much any chick you see on red or DY has a price according to my friend.

He’d have one in China, one that acts as his companion/local guide when he goes to skiing in Japan.

Since it’s also a thing here in NA, I was wondering whether someone has experience with it.

[GS8]

I bet cardboard cutouts have better personalities than them

[bcrdukes]

Her bracelet is worth than my two cars combined.

[Gerbs]

Originally Posted by Hehe

There’s a whole industry in Asia about this. Pretty much any chick you see on red or DY has a price according to my friend.

This is true but for a 8.5/10+ van standards, our $10M+ friends in China said it'll cost around $6-12K/month Canadian for those ones. I saw a handful in shanghai partying, they approached us and tried to join our group. It's interesting because if you're in your 20's, it's not as expensive because they'd be your open-gf


i guess my standards would drop significantly if i was 45+ and divorced

[ssjGoku69]

Originally Posted by CivicBlues

Those photos are 100% retouched/photoshopped

That is rampant in all chinese pics as evidenced with the wavy elevator lines.

[BIC_BAWS]

lol i have a panda express first date tmr.. crossing the border with a stranger.. wish me luck

im more questioning why SHE isnt like STRANGER DANGER LOL

[supafamous]

Originally Posted by Gerbs

This is true but for a 8.5/10+ van standards, our $10M+ friends in China said it'll cost around $6-12K/month Canadian for those ones. I saw a handful in shanghai partying, they approached us and tried to join our group. It's interesting because if you're in your 20's, it's not as expensive because they'd be your open-gf


i guess my standards would drop significantly if i was 45+ and divorced

If I had $10m I'd probably "help" a nice college girl with her tuition and rent. if I had $50m I'd even help some of my friends "help" a nice college girl of their choice with their tuition and rent. You know, just trying to help them get ahead in a tough world.

[CivicBlues]

What I don't get about all these middle-aged to senior guys with girls barely out of their teens - don't you know everyone is laughing at you? All your friends, your family (if not dead from cringing) and the girl and her friends as well. Does anyone seriously think they've made it or showed everyone how rich you are or how much "game" you got?

I mean these 18-21 year olds can't be great lays either, at least if you're paying for it pay a pro a few years older who knows what they're doing.

Methinks these guys had a stunted adolescence and are a few steps away from wanting an invite to Epstein Island.

[EvoFire]

Thinking about what Hehe said, I can totally see what he's talking about if you have that money and you are single.

You are likely not bagging a 25yo for love when you are 40 (don't say never, but I doubt most of us here look like Chris Hemsworth).

Some guys don't have the mindset to deal with the teething issues of a relationship that goes through into commonlaw and marriage, or they've done it before and had such a bad time and simply don't want to deal with it again.

[68style]

If they have the guys hehe is talking about mindset, why put some dumb bitch on retainer though? Yah okay it's "only" $2k a month (which I highly, highly doubt when all the 'gifts' and other shit gets thrown in) but like Civicblues said they're making fun of you and laughing at you in private and everywhere you go out with them everyone is nodding toward you with a "get a load of this guy" to their friends... and if it's so entirely meaningless why bother?

If that's your bag just hire escorts and at least it's a different hole/experience each time and you don't have to make a mockery of yourself at dinner times with some money grubbing sugarbaby weakly smiling at your boomer banter.

[MarkyMark]

Originally Posted by EvoFire

Thinking about what Hehe said, I can totally see what he's talking about if you have that money and you are single.

You are likely not bagging a 25yo for love when you are 40 (don't say never, but I doubt most of us here look like Chris Hemsworth).

Some guys don't have the mindset to deal with the teething issues of a relationship that goes through into commonlaw and marriage, or they've done it before and had such a bad time and simply don't want to deal with it again.

I don't think it's too far fetched for a decent looking dude in his 40's that has his life together be able to bag a 25 year old girl.

Chances are if you're going down the sugar daddy route when you're 40 you are a below average dork and women don't really notice you unless you pay them to.

[mikemhg]

Gross, sugar babying is nuts.

What a weird phenomenon, the problem with the practice is that it's giving 7s and less the idea that the same world applies to them, when it really doesn't.

Like Mark said, if you're in your 40s with a good career, your shit together and can carry on a conversation, of course you can bag a woman. WTF are people thinking?

If I see one more chick with "soft feminine life" in her profile

[68style]

We're headed toward UBI aren't we? People becoming okay with just expecting to exist on other people's dime cuz they couldn't figure anything out.

Problem with that is if everyone has a certain amount of cash prices just go up and we have massive inflation. Doesn't work.

[Razor Ramon HG]

Originally Posted by CivicBlues

What I don't get about all these middle-aged to senior guys with girls barely out of their teens - don't you know everyone is laughing at you? All your friends, your family (if not dead from cringing) and the girl and her friends as well. Does anyone seriously think they've made it or showed everyone how rich you are or how much "game" you got?

They probably don't give a shit otherwise they wouldn't do it to begin with, lol

[unit]

ya at least if you're seeing escorts you are doing it in private.
if you're 50 and have a 25yo sugarbaby girl who is out of your league you are basically flaunting your escort on the street and to your friends/family.

[EvoFire]

Originally Posted by MarkyMark

I don't think it's too far fetched for a decent looking dude in his 40's that has his life together be able to bag a 25 year old girl.

Chances are if you're going down the sugar daddy route when you're 40 you are a below average dork and women don't really notice you unless you pay them to.

I want to say I am above average at 39, on the notion that I am not carrying a huge beer belly and I can confidently say I am an ok dad bod. But so many guys carry the real dad bods and will do nothing about it *coughdarkcough*

But I am a dork. I don't know why my wife puts up with my shit sometimes. We joke around saying how I am a geek through and through with some annoying ADHD tendencies. I won't scare away a girl on first brush, I look decent, I don't smell, I drive a nice car and hold a well paying job, but I'm not sure I have the intellect and wit to keep them around lol

Originally Posted by mikemhg

Gross, sugar babying is nuts.

What a weird phenomenon, the problem with the practice is that it's giving 7s and less the idea that the same world applies to them, when it really doesn't.

Like Mark said, if you're in your 40s with a good career, your shit together and can carry on a conversation, of course you can bag a woman. WTF are people thinking?

If I see one more chick with "soft feminine life" in her profile

Not everyone is like you

[supafamous]

https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbi...aomi-campbell/

Flavio Briatore cares not what you think about him dating 20 year old girls (and other young ones). He definitely not with them for the conversation.

[68style]

Even he couldn't pull any hips and ass on a 20 year old yeesh

[supafamous]

Originally Posted by 68style

Even he couldn't pull any hips and ass on a 20 year old yeesh

His other girlfriends pull their weight though - Heidi Klum and Naomi Campbell among many other hotties: https://www.whosdatedwho.com/dating/flavio-briatore

[bcrdukes]

I'm curious how many of you who are married or in a relationship have put yourselves out there to test the market?

[supafamous]

Originally Posted by bcrdukes

I'm curious how many of you who are married or in a relationship have put yourselves out there to test the market?

I barely had any game when I was single so testing the waters now would make no sense even if I were interested. I also have zero interest in the effort that would be required - I don't actually know how congenital cheaters or people who have side pieces do it (I get the ones who do it on work travel)

How do you sneak out of the house? How do I hide your texting and phone calls?

[EvoFire]

Originally Posted by supafamous

I barely had any game when I was single so testing the waters now would make no sense even if I were interested. I also have zero interest in the effort that would be required - I don't actually know how congenital cheaters or people who have side pieces do it (I get the ones who do it on work travel)

How do you sneak out of the house? How do I hide your texting and phone calls?

Everything he said, and then some. The effort seems daunting and it's not like I don't want my wife.

[bcrdukes]

Ask 68style. He probably has your wife in his contacts.

[unit]

after reading threads like this i was kinda curious what it looks like on the dating apps these days, but not curious enough to risk getting busted in any way shape or form lol.