The Modern Dating Thread

[supafamous]

Originally Posted by supafamous

I barely had any game when I was single so testing the waters now would make no sense even if I were interested. I also have zero interest in the effort that would be required - I don't actually know how congenital cheaters or people who have side pieces do it (I get the ones who do it on work travel)

How do you sneak out of the house? How do I hide your texting and phone calls?

Thinking more about this - even if my wife told me that it was cool for me to have a side piece I wouldn't be interested. It's not that I wouldn't want to hit it with some baddie/hot mom/college girl but I don't want any of the bullshit work that's involved.

Less time to talk shit with my boys in a group chat or with my boys on a car forum in exchange for some expensive high quality poon? No thanks! It takes time to keep up with the memes and time is the thing I don't have enough of.

[6793026]

Originally Posted by bcrdukes

I'm curious how many of you who are married or in a relationship have put yourselves out there to test the market?

yeah it's called ashley madison... lol

Originally Posted by unit

after reading threads like this i was kinda curious what it looks like on the dating apps these days, but not curious enough to risk getting busted in any way shape or form lol.

It's all the same... I realize in YVR, the demographic is soooooooooo small, you see the same people in the same app. You do NOT get the same hits versus someone say who's colored. I think the survey was Africans and brown are scoring the lowest.

you can just set a fake girl profile with a solid blurb and real pic, and within 1 day, you'll get over 150 messages and likes..

[RabidRat]

Originally Posted by supafamous

Thinking more about this - even if my wife told me that it was cool for me to have a side piece I wouldn't be interested. It's not that I wouldn't want to hit it with some baddie/hot mom/college girl but I don't want any of the bullshit work that's involved.

Less time to talk shit with my boys in a group chat or with my boys on a car forum in exchange for some expensive high quality poon? No thanks! It takes time to keep up with the memes and time is the thing I don't have enough of.

We made it!!!!!

[donk.]

Originally Posted by supafamous

Thinking more about this - even if my wife told me that it was cool for me to have a side piece I wouldn't be interested. It's not that I wouldn't want to hit it with some baddie/hot mom/college girl but I don't want any of the bullshit work that's involved.

Less time to talk shit with my boys in a group chat or with my boys on a car forum in exchange for some expensive high quality poon? No thanks! It takes time to keep up with the memes and time is the thing I don't have enough of.

Bonus points when you bang a 9, then your wife, then the next day both of you have an itch, because the 9 banged some manslut the day before you

[MarkyMark]

Originally Posted by supafamous

Thinking more about this - even if my wife told me that it was cool for me to have a side piece I wouldn't be interested.

FYI if she ever brought that up it's cause she's already getting her cheeks clapped by someone else lol

[bcrdukes]

Originally Posted by 6793026

yeah it's called ashley madison... lol

Are you on it? If yes, I'm curious how you find the experience.

I'm asking because we all know what the intent of Ashley Madison is. I suppose one could relate this to a "dating app" but in this situation, you're here with the intentions of having an extramarital affair. Same difference as if on Tinder? I guess so?

[punkwax]

I’d personally never get involved with someone married. Separated with divorce pending, sure, but someone cheating? Hell no. To quote Pulp Fiction when fucking with a man’s car, “no trial, no jury, straight to execution.”

As for women openly stating in their profiles that they’re looking for a “generous man” who “provides gifts” - fuck right off. If I like you and you’re a good person, I’ll shower you with generousity and gifts. The audacity of having that part of your dating requirements to simply start a conversation is

Bitches do be cray.

[Mikoyan]

Are there any apps /sites for this anymore? Isn't it all tiktok/insta DMs?

[bcrdukes]

Paging BIC_BAWS

[spoon.ek9]

Originally Posted by punkwax

I’d personally never get involved with someone married. Separated with divorce pending, sure, but someone cheating? Hell no. To quote Pulp Fiction when fucking with a man’s car, “no trial, no jury, straight to execution.”

As for women openly stating in their profiles that they’re looking for a “generous man” who “provides gifts” - fuck right off. If I like you and you’re a good person, I’ll shower you with generousity and gifts. The audacity of having that part of your dating requirements to simply start a conversation is

Bitches do be cray.

Again, we're in an age where women will outright say things like:

"men ain't shit"
"men do nothing"
"I don't need no man"
"my money is my money, your money is our money"

While at the same time demanding men pay for everything, shower them in gifts, give them everything their hearts desire all while providing little to nothing on their end. They want a man who's traditional while providing nothing traditional from a women's end of things. They also think men who can offer these things will completely submit to their will and allow them to control the finances.

I mentioned this before but one ugly chick actually had the audacity to put "I only date home owners" on her profile. Seriously? gtfo

[bcrdukes]

Now I'm curious if you guys would come across the same issues if you had your profile based out of, say, Calgary or Toronto. (My guess is yes.)

[RabidRat]

I also wonder if it's just been an exodus of normal people from dating apps.

My wife and I have a number of single female friends and they're just regular ass people who are gracious, thoughtful, and rational. They are nothing like what's being described, I don't get it lol.

[Gerbs]

Originally Posted by bcrdukes

Now I'm curious if you guys would come across the same issues if you had your profile based out of, say, Calgary or Toronto. (My guess is yes.)

Calgary and Toronto girls are pretty good imo. The key thing they all had in common was moving cities or downtown. Having to pay housing costs brings out the maturity in people and makes them seem more human.



ngl sometimes i feel like the expectations in Vancouver stems from being financially illiterate living at home and no idea what things cost in this world

Originally Posted by RabidRat

My wife and I have a number of single female friends and they're just regular ass people who are gracious, thoughtful, and rational. They are nothing like what's being described, I don't get it lol.

tbf from my experience it's mostly pretty girls that are what is being described

[bcrdukes]

RabidRat - I guess your single female friends are evidently not pretty, as per Gerbs.

[Gerbs]

Originally Posted by bcrdukes

RabidRat - I guess your single female friends are evidently not pretty, as per Gerbs.

really pretty girls get swept in < 3 months, change my view

[spoon.ek9]

Originally Posted by RabidRat

I also wonder if it's just been an exodus of normal people from dating apps.

My wife and I have a number of single female friends and they're just regular ass people who are gracious, thoughtful, and rational. They are nothing like what's being described, I don't get it lol.

Have you had candid discussions about what their criteria for men are? I'm not saying you're wrong but I'm also curious if you've actually delved into this topic with them. It may surprise you how your single friends actually think when it comes to dating nowadays. I always thought my female friends were logical and rational and in the end, they proved me wrong lol. These are smart, educated women that I would consider attractive also but man, some of the things they think when it comes to dating is... odd/one sided.