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azn_babe · 07-25-2006, 01:35 AM

make sure u got enuff tissue =P

MtechEd · 07-25-2006, 01:43 AM

lol.... funny woman

jeffraider · 07-25-2006, 09:02 AM

I'll reply point by point.

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Originally posted by 3zee
You know what? You are so right on the money, I made that statement because I'm bad at sex

You don't know me or my sexual experiences, so its ignorant of you to say that.

It's not ignorant to think that you suck. The line I pointed to when I said it makes it clear. If you think sex is the same in feeling and fun with different partners you're just doing something wrong.

It seems like you are offended by my opinion on this topic.

Actually yeah, I was a little offended, because your post is rude and stupid. Read it again, especially the part about the hippies with STDs. Come on.

Clearly you misunderstood what I was tryn to say. What I meant by that, was when you are young, you are in that phase where you fuck around and what not, you have all these sexual expereinces, untill you get married, some people are actually ok with being and having sex with that one person because they love eachother.

Sorry, but that's not even close to what your original post was. If that's what you were trying to say, you could have tried it like that the first time instead coming off like a retard.

When you've absolutely done everything you could sexually in your younger years, and then you get married, what more could u possibly experience with a stranger that you couldnt with your loved one, concidering your sex life is still very active during that age.

Hmmm I dunno, maybe two chicks at the same time? MAYBE THREE?!!? Use your imagination here.

You try to find reason behind the swinger lifestyle, and thats fine, its your opinion. Being "emotionally at odds with themselves," or insecure is not a good reason for someone to decide not to be a swinger.

Um, yeah, being insecure or emotionally at odds with themsevles is a great reason to decide not to try swinging. What are you even saying here?!!?

The direction you choose is generally what you beliefs are. Its either you believe in loyalty and a "traditional" relationship, or one that is the swinger lifestyle.

For sure, but you're talking shit about swingers rather than seeming like you really accept it as a lifestyle choice.

Just curious, are you married or plan to get married in the future? What is the point of couples getting married if they are going to sleep around anyways? Minus well scrap the whole marriage thing and just have fun then.

Well I'm not sure what minus well means but I will say, I'm not married, and don't have any plans to really. It seems like a silly institution that's used mostly to make people feel secure that their SO won't leave them. That and you get pwned if you have to divorce them.

To pose you a counter question, what's the point of marriage at all?

DeadMeat · 07-25-2006, 09:30 AM

Haven't you guys ever watched the movie Swingers?

Jeezus H!

All your questions are answered there!

Down2Ride · 07-25-2006, 10:48 AM

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Originally posted by MtechEd
WORD... WORD...WORD

altoughh not all would do it behind each others backs while a majority do

Man 50% of the time your gf tells u shes had 2 guys shes BULL shitting....

I tell u that from my exp LOL and behalf of all the men

I don't think u got my point though. Read Jeffraiders post, I agree with him when he says most swingers are going to select a partner who are alot like them, so they most likely arent going to cheat.....know what I mean?

my comment was just a general assumption which Jeff has now proved wrong :P

jeffraider · 07-25-2006, 11:56 AM

Yeah let's be clear we're talking about genuine swingers here, not sex maniacs who are bound to cheat on a significant other.

azn_babe · 07-25-2006, 02:41 PM

so genuine swinging is like a term for approved sex outside a relationship/marriage?

MtechEd · 07-25-2006, 02:57 PM

yep where both agree to swing... not just one. When one swings and the other doenst know its cheating.

When both go its swinging .... not a bad lifestyle if you are both secure and you practice safe sex...

gotta try it one day azn babe

azn_babe · 07-25-2006, 03:09 PM

now i m picturing this:

GF: Hun, where u going?
BF: I'm out for sum sex
GF: be sure to practice safe sex hun, enjoy, n luv u
BF: luv u too

n off he goes to have fun

jeffraider · 07-25-2006, 03:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by azn_babe
so genuine swinging is like a term for approved sex outside a relationship/marriage?

Quote:

Originally posted by azn_babe
now i m picturing this:

GF: Hun, where u going?
BF: I'm out for sum sex
GF: be sure to practice safe sex hun, enjoy, n luv u
BF: luv u too

n off he goes to have fun

No. Try reading this:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swinging

azn_babe · 07-25-2006, 04:10 PM

ok...now i kno...=P

god, swinging has a long history:

from wikipedia:
According to Terry Gould's The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers (ISBN 1552094820), swinging began among U.S. Air Force pilots and their wives during World War II. In this small community, the mortality rate among pilots was significantly high. Consequently a close bond between pilots arose, with the implication that the husbands would protect and care for all the wives as their own, both emotionally and sexually, if the husbands were away or lost.

Aetios · 07-26-2006, 02:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by jeffraider
I'll reply point by point.

Its obvious we have completely different points of views on lifestyles. I still stand by my point of view and I don't take back what I said before. I could care less if I offended you or not, this is my perspective, and thats how it came out. Actually, I'm glad I offended you because I got a good chuckle out of reading your weak replies. If you getting angry behind a computer screen and calling me names on the internet makes you feel better go right ahead, more entertainment for me.

6793026 · 07-26-2006, 11:52 AM

getting back on topic. Anyone been in any of these activities? As for the orgy scene in vancouver, girls get pressured in to attend and as much as we think it's an orgy, it's more like one or two girls being free and tons of guys on the side looking at you and just jerking off...

swingers club is a tad diff. i would like to see someone here step up. It's not easy to find two couples openly swap partners at lesat I don't expect it's the right target audience in RS.

butercuup · 08-01-2006, 09:23 AM

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Originally posted by MtechEd
or you could be seeing a girl and you both agree on going otu and exploring ...

I just think that's called having an open relatiionship..

Swinging is for married couples, it's also known as "wife swapping" it has everything to do with sex...

If you're dating.. then you guys are just dating other people or sleping with other people.

Trinity · 08-01-2006, 01:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by jeffraider
Yeah let's be clear we're talking about genuine swingers here, not sex maniacs who are bound to cheat on a significant other.

Ooh ouch.

Problem with most of the posts here that I can see is that people DON'T KNOW the difference. Most people percieve swingers to BE sex maniacs that "can't get enough." You clearly can see the difference, and I commend you for it... However, that does not mean that the traditional institution of marriage is useless.

MindBomber · 04-01-2012, 03:00 AM

Bump, just wondering if there is anyone interested in wife swapping active on RS now?

My current girlfriend and I are very experienced, so no need to worry about jealousy drama. We're open to soft or full swap with the right couple, single females are also more than welcome. If enough people are interested it might be possible to arrange an unofficial RS swingers night for those of us on the forum who are sexually liberated. Please PM me pics if you're interested, I'll respond with ours and we can go from there.

Happy Fucking Everyone!