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The thin line between love and hate
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04-08-2011, 12:30 PM
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#6776 | | Female Driven
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Meh.
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04-08-2011, 12:50 PM
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#6777 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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its my birthday, were not making love tonight....were FUCKING.
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04-08-2011, 01:20 PM
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#6778 | | Da Vinci's real masterpiece: The Mona Diesel
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Forgiveness,
Its an word full of meaning but I slowly realize that I did not truly began to contemplate the gravity of the act of forgiving someone until recently.
It all began with a trip to Vegas with a girl. A girl I really liked and at the time I thought she liked me. We were getting pretty close at this point and it seemed like things were finally taking off for me after the years of mistakes and failures.
But then came the day of the trip, something was different. It was although there was suddenly a dark gulf between her and I that wasn't there just a scant few days ago. Subtle at first, I began to notice that she both physically and emotionally distanced herself from me as the trip went on. We carried on normally enough, but it was not the trip that should've brought us together, even though it was her idea in the first place.
And so the days carried on, with her seemly holding this guilt that simply shouldn't be there when you are on vacation.
It wasn't till the last day of the trip, when we were leaving for the airport, that she finally reveiled why she was feeling this way. 2 Days prior, her ex-bf (the same bf that has caused a lot of pain in the past) suddenly contacted her and they had gotten back together. That is why she had acted guilty up to this point.
If only she had told me at the start of the trip, if only she had just let me go instead of holding me on a string until her ex beckened her back. I was pissed! but I kept it civil and didn't really interacted with her at all till we got home.
And then the resentment grew. I began to tell myself how this was yet another example of how people screw ME over and how THEY are at fault for their wicked deeds and how i was once again used. It was as if a dark sheet was pull over my eyes and I saw the world in this cynical light once more and days went past with this tainted worldview.
But one day it happened, I began to see my actions in all this mess. How I permitted myself to be "friendzoned" and how my lack of confidence has prevented me from getting anywhere with this individual. If the same things keep happening to me with different people, is it really their fault or was it in actuality mine? As I delved deeper into introspection and learned more and more how my own actions has been my own undoing.
At some point I began to intropect on my own growing resentment towards her. Was it really worth holding on to this bile and hate in my heart? Does this help me become a better person in the long run?
It was then I came to realize that in fact this anger was slowly eating away at my soul and the years of friendship I had with her. I knew then I rather have acceptance and love rather than hate now more than ever.
Out of the blue she had text me explaining everything, saying sorry for what she had done and understood if I did not want to continue to be friends.
I simply replied: "I forgive you"
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04-08-2011, 04:07 PM
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#6779 | | My homepage has been set to RS
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dearest old man...i'm glad we can be friends after all this shit happened. I'm sorry for being a stupid idiot and cutting you out of my life for half a year.
now teach me how to punch people!
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04-08-2011, 05:13 PM
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#6780 | | The Lone Wanderator
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Originally Posted by BeeBeeAhn  now teach me how to punch people! | Can he teach me too plox and thz? Posted via RS Mobile | |
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04-08-2011, 05:40 PM
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get well soon mom.
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04-08-2011, 08:37 PM
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#6782 | | :inoutugh:
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Today was a dream come true.
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04-08-2011, 09:16 PM
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#6783 | | My homepage has been set to RS
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Originally Posted by Graeme S Can he teach me too plox and thz? Posted via RS Mobile | you'd have to pay a lot more cuz you're not small and cute like me. and he doesnt' love you. LOL
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04-08-2011, 09:47 PM
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#6784 | | Unofficial Tin Foil Hat Specialist.
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Took lots of shits today. Long ones, short ones, sloppy ones, fibretastic ones and phantom ones. Some would say I'm full of shit.
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04-09-2011, 12:10 AM
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#6785 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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Why you gotta put a shit load of make up on and then tell me you think your eyebrows look thick? LOL I think you look like a fucking zombie.
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04-09-2011, 02:26 AM
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#6786 | | Rs has made me the man i am today!
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meh =///...
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04-09-2011, 07:51 AM
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#6787 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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ya i wan go out, so what?
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04-09-2011, 08:37 AM
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#6788 | | うに
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Can't Loose Something you Never had.
I'll always have the good memories. and maybe; thats good enough for me
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04-09-2011, 12:44 PM
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#6789 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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I keep thinking to myself...if I didn't pull that shit off. I would still be happily texting you right now at this very moment
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04-09-2011, 10:29 PM
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#6790 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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I hate how my insecurities and active imagination can work together and put myself in a bad place.....  | |
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04-09-2011, 10:56 PM
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#6791 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Bye kitty  6 years went by fast and wasn't long enough  Posted via RS Mobile | |
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04-09-2011, 11:09 PM
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#6792 | | Mod.
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Has anyone here ever fallen in love with a friend? What did you do? Posted via RS Mobile | |
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04-10-2011, 12:28 AM
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#6793 | | RS controls my life!
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Originally Posted by !Nhan Has anyone here ever fallen in love with a friend? What did you do? Posted via RS Mobile | confessed. got rejected. moved on. it was sad and disheartening... but when you know the feeling isn't mutual.... you can't dwell on it cus life goes on and theres going to be somebody out there thats right for you =]
i've been with my bf for 11 months now, and we're the most unlikely couple in the world but we love each other. so just have some faith =]
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04-10-2011, 12:54 PM
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#6794 | | My homepage has been set to RS
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you actually talked to me, felt good. Altho you think I try to pick fights, I don't. I just want you to forgive me.
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04-10-2011, 02:06 PM
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#6795 | | WUB WUB WUB WUB WUB
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Something so little that shouldn't have put my mind elsewhere.. Nearly paid a hefty price for it Posted via RS Mobile | |
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04-10-2011, 09:10 PM
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#6796 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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I want to see you. Posted via RS Mobile | |
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04-10-2011, 09:54 PM
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#6797 | | MiX iT Up!
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can't wait for more days like Friday. boober =)
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
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04-10-2011, 10:01 PM
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#6798 | | Female Driven
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I've never been so stressed in my life...
Tonight, for the first time ever, I broke down in front of my mom.
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04-10-2011, 10:03 PM
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#6799 | | Rs has made me the man i am today!
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meh hates being ignored right in front of you...
why does it have to be this way? =/
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04-10-2011, 11:31 PM
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#6800 | | RS has made me the bitter person i am today!
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i miss you, you don't deserve that guy.
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Originally Posted by !Aznboi128 me: can I tap that
her: why are all guys asking the same f**king question?
me: i uno.... so can I tap that
her: stfu you got a gf
me: tap together?
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