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Old 12-13-2008, 09:38 PM   #26
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calling 10+ times a day (sometimes within 4 hours)
always wants to know where you are or what youre doing
gets jealous when you are out with friends of the opposite sex

mind you, this is when you're not even together and not even bf/gf
I think calling 10 times a day is fine as long as you're boyfriend and girlfriend. I would want my gf to call me a lot, to be honest. I like a girl that cares about me and is willing to call me whenever she can.

Wanting to know where you are and what you're doing is fine too. I'd actually be worried if my gf didn't care about my whereabouts.

And getting jealous when you're with the opposite sex? Sorry I wouldn't let my gf hang out with the opposite sex unless I'm there by her side. I don't want her to hang out with guys when I'm not there and nor should she want to. Having her own female friends is O.K. as long as they're not pressuring her into flirting and doing other things with other guys.

Of course If you're NOT bf/gf, then thats wrong but if you are BF/GF I think stuff like this is normal.

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Old 12-13-2008, 09:41 PM   #27
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i will rather have a clingy type of guy than an "asshole type of guy". thank you.
see, thats what I'm talking about. I love girls like her.
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Old 12-13-2008, 11:26 PM   #28
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I think calling 10 times a day is fine as long as you're boyfriend and girlfriend. I would want my gf to call me a lot, to be honest. I like a girl that cares about me and is willing to call me whenever she can.

Wanting to know where you are and what you're doing is fine too. I'd actually be worried if my gf didn't care about my whereabouts.

And getting jealous when you're with the opposite sex? Sorry I wouldn't let my gf hang out with the opposite sex unless I'm there by her side. I don't want her to hang out with guys when I'm not there and nor should she want to. Having her own female friends is O.K. as long as they're not pressuring her into flirting and doing other things with other guys.

Of course If you're NOT bf/gf, then thats wrong but if you are BF/GF I think stuff like this is normal.
now THAT'S clingy
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Old 12-13-2008, 11:41 PM   #29
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I think calling 10 times a day is fine as long as you're boyfriend and girlfriend. I would want my gf to call me a lot, to be honest. I like a girl that cares about me and is willing to call me whenever she can.

Wanting to know where you are and what you're doing is fine too. I'd actually be worried if my gf didn't care about my whereabouts.

And getting jealous when you're with the opposite sex? Sorry I wouldn't let my gf hang out with the opposite sex unless I'm there by her side. I don't want her to hang out with guys when I'm not there and nor should she want to. Having her own female friends is O.K. as long as they're not pressuring her into flirting and doing other things with other guys.

Of course If you're NOT bf/gf, then thats wrong but if you are BF/GF I think stuff like this is normal.
10 times a day is a bit excessive. After a week you are going to go nuts.
I say three times a day to check up is enough. A phone call with the intention to chatter for a long time doesn't count.
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i think its fine~ its normal to get all jealous, because we are all human beings.

see, ppl might think its clingy because they are not fully like or love that person
whats the point of having a gf or bf?


for sure a clique answer will be these days is " to have someone to have sex" with


its good for a guy to be clingy to show appreciation and proof that he cares about the girl i guess im an old fashion type of female..
calling 3 times a day is like nothing, it not like the couple are seeing each other everyday ~


as a female, i would rather go out with a clingy guy because it decreases the female insecurities.

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I think calling 10 times a day is fine as long as you're boyfriend and girlfriend. I would want my gf to call me a lot, to be honest. I like a girl that cares about me and is willing to call me whenever she can.

Wanting to know where you are and what you're doing is fine too. I'd actually be worried if my gf didn't care about my whereabouts.

And getting jealous when you're with the opposite sex? Sorry I wouldn't let my gf hang out with the opposite sex unless I'm there by her side. I don't want her to hang out with guys when I'm not there and nor should she want to. Having her own female friends is O.K. as long as they're not pressuring her into flirting and doing other things with other guys.

Of course If you're NOT bf/gf, then thats wrong but if you are BF/GF I think stuff like this is normal.

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I think gf/bf hanging out with the opposite sex is fine. There needs to be a certain level of trust. Fu@k calling 10 times a day. That would be annoying as hell. You might as well put a GPS on each other then lol. You need to get a hobby if you're on the phone that much with your gf.
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Old 12-14-2008, 10:25 PM   #33
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i think its fine~ its normal to get all jealous, because we are all human beings.
yea the way i think about this jealousy thing is that
if ur bf/gf seems rly chill about u hanging out, lets say alone,
with the opposite sex, u might think "yaaaa my bf/gf is so chill its awesome"
But u know whaaaaattt, mayyyyybe its cuz he/she does
the same + more and dont want you to call him/her out on it.
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Old 12-15-2008, 10:51 AM   #34
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honestly, are any of you guys in a relationship that has any kind of love in it? or is it just for fucking?

Either one is fine but don't say that in a relationship where both people are really in love, it is "clingy" to be calling 10 times.

It's not. If you're just fucking, then sure. But if you're in love, then its the norm.
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Old 12-15-2008, 10:54 AM   #35
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10 times a day is a bit excessive. After a week you are going to go nuts.
I say three times a day to check up is enough. A phone call with the intention to chatter for a long time doesn't count.
see, I don't call to check up... I call because I love her and want to hear from her.. make sense?

I mean, if she was a booty call, I guess I would understand.. but if you're in love and you call 3 times to check up... I don't know, I'd say you're not crazy enough about her.
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Clingy only exsists when both parties are not on the same page. If you're super independant than a gf calling to chitchat or checkup on you more than 5 times a day is going to be clingy. If you're just as dependant and needy as your gf than calling 5 or even 10 times a day to chat or checkup than it won't be clingy.

I want my bf to know my whereabouts as I want to know his. It's as easy as good communication, what's hard or annoying about that?
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I think calling 10 times a day is fine as long as you're boyfriend and girlfriend. I would want my gf to call me a lot, to be honest. I like a girl that cares about me and is willing to call me whenever she can.

Wanting to know where you are and what you're doing is fine too. I'd actually be worried if my gf didn't care about my whereabouts.

And getting jealous when you're with the opposite sex? Sorry I wouldn't let my gf hang out with the opposite sex unless I'm there by her side. I don't want her to hang out with guys when I'm not there and nor should she want to. Having her own female friends is O.K. as long as they're not pressuring her into flirting and doing other things with other guys.

Of course If you're NOT bf/gf, then thats wrong but if you are BF/GF I think stuff like this is normal.
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For those who disagree. Would you rather your gf find another guy to fulfill all her "friendly" necessities? IMO, if I'm in a relationship with a girl, I expect the given the role as her boyfriend & her bestfriend.
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I think calling 10 times a day is fine as long as you're boyfriend and girlfriend. I would want my gf to call me a lot, to be honest. I like a girl that cares about me and is willing to call me whenever she can.

You call 10 times a day, but how long is each phone call??
Do you have that much time per day??
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my def, not being allowed to go out with girl "friends" or with guy friends that have girlfriends with them, getting a call that lasts well over 2 hours everyday, not allowed to do self needed things such as gaming/tv, must always give her 100% attention, and not talking/making friends with other girls.
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if I'm in a relationship with a girl, I expect the given the role as her boyfriend & her bestfriend.
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I think calling 10 times a day is fine as long as you're boyfriend and girlfriend. I would want my gf to call me a lot, to be honest. I like a girl that cares about me and is willing to call me whenever she can.

Wanting to know where you are and what you're doing is fine too. I'd actually be worried if my gf didn't care about my whereabouts.

And getting jealous when you're with the opposite sex? Sorry I wouldn't let my gf hang out with the opposite sex unless I'm there by her side. I don't want her to hang out with guys when I'm not there and nor should she want to. Having her own female friends is O.K. as long as they're not pressuring her into flirting and doing other things with other guys.

Of course If you're NOT bf/gf, then thats wrong but if you are BF/GF I think stuff like this is normal.
well said bro
i feel the same way
i'm not as protective, but i'll be wary if they had a lot of guy friends
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my def, not being allowed to go out with girl "friends" or with guy friends that have girlfriends with them, getting a call that lasts well over 2 hours everyday, not allowed to do self needed things such as gaming/tv, must always give her 100% attention, and not talking/making friends with other girls.
omg.. that's like being in JAIL, how can you breathe?

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all of "The7even" posts I agree on them all
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what are you doing?
where are you?
who are you with?
Why are you with them?
Boys night out?
Can i come?
Have you taken a shower yet?
Go take a shower!
Why havnt you taken a shower?
We have to be at dinner by 7!!
Why are you still sitting there playing video games?
Go to sleep, you have work tomorow!!
Dont hang up on me, i'll come over there and knock your lights out!!
I know your there!! pick up the fucken phone!!
Why didnt you return my call??
WTF u stay out so late getting drunk with your dumbass friends again?
I dont like that shirt on you!!
Were you with girls?
WTF is there a messege from your EX??
YOUR DEAD!!!
YOUR FUCKEN DEAD!!
I'm sorry hunny i didnt mean it.. you know how i get at this time of the month..
I said decaf you douche!!!


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Clingy is defined when one person is too independent and they think is clingy when its just the other person trying to show they care.

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Ex-gf and I talked on the phone every night before bed. Our usual phone conversations last a good 1.5-3 hours each night depending on how much we talked during the day and how tired we were. This went on for 4.5 years and we probably only missed about a month of not talking at night because one of us was away on vacation or just too tired to talk. As long as both people are ok with it then there should be no problem.
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And getting jealous when you're with the opposite sex? Sorry I wouldn't let my gf hang out with the opposite sex unless I'm there by her side. I don't want her to hang out with guys when I'm not there and nor should she want to. Having her own female friends is O.K. as long as they're not pressuring her into flirting and doing other things with other guys.
I understand where you're coming from but that's the wrong way of looking at it. You're basically forcing her to lose social contact just because you're in the picture now. She's only your gf and you're basically keeping her as a prisoner away from her other friends. I'd hate to imagine what you'd do to her if you guys got married.
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well said bro
i feel the same way
i'm not as protective, but i'll be wary if they had a lot of guy friends
Most girls I've met have a lot of guy friends so there isn't really a point of being wary. If you think about it, a girl that has lots of guy friends must be at that level where they both considered as "friends" or else they would have already dated with each other.

However, I know this girl who gave a BJ to her best guy friend one time for his birthday. Now that is fucked up.
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calling too much. wanting to know what you're doing ALL the time.

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