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Old 01-17-2009, 04:39 PM   #76
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what is a good girl to you? it's differnt to everyone.

Really, you have to find the one in the right places. to some pimp, a good girl is one that let's the guy mess around with her whenever.
sigh, i think we can all agree that no one on this intranet is a pimp who is having problems getting his girls to dool out pussy to sad men with money.

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Old 01-18-2009, 12:31 AM   #77
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Girl # 4 dated 7 months
Girl, we met on friendster. Actually, you stalked me on friendster because I was ur target meat(asian, motorcycle, scuba dives etc) and you sent me a message. You were great to talk on MSN, responsive, funny and joked around. You asked if you can ride my motorcycle and that's how we got started. I picked you up on my bike at the ferry since you lived in victoria and we had a blast on the weekend. You stayed at my apartment and i let you sleep on the bed and i was on the couch. i was a gentleman.

next week, you came over, and we fucked around. then it happened. You got a call in the car from your friend. It went like this. Ring ring, "hi jill" "what are you up to"... "oh nothing i'm with my boyfrined". I"m like WTFFFFFFFFFFF, we just fucked once and now i'm your boyfriend. fuck, i swear, i should have called the relationship police cause that's like entrapment or something. i was single, might as well... you were one heck of a maid cause you knew how to keep thigns clearn.
3 months later, you caught me cheating. then i went off track and cheated some more. You forgave me and we tried to be a couple. (PS. if a girl forgives you, RUN cause she'll always have a tab on you *insert Chris Rock bit). 6 mth into our 7 mth relatinoship, i knew you were cheating, but sorry, two wrongs doesn't make a right. I say good bye and literally deleted you from my life. I did not reply one single email, text, freindster message.

I hear that you are having a great time with your now fiance. FYI. HE'S CHEATING ON YOU FOR 2 YEARS. GOOD luck with your marriage.
whats her first name, i'm in vic lol
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Old 01-19-2009, 09:28 AM   #78
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on some real shit though, where I am in my life at this point, do feel like a cubic zirconium myself. this is probably why my retention doesn't last that long.

i'm just trying to tighten up my ship ATM

sometimes I feel like I'm putting on a front and huffing and puffing and doing backflips to catch a bitch like a I am bird of paradise or some shit. its one thing to get a girl, but to keep her mentally locked till the end of time its almost impossible.

here's why

we are in our early twenties. nobody in the right mind will be monogamous when there's plenty of variety out there. try to eat rice and beef for the rest of your life. no matter how many times you cook it differently, stir fry, broiled, slow roasted. its still the same shit. you will get sick of it. ain't no question about it.

anyways. its one thing to fantasize about a woman with perfect ideals, its another thing to actually keep her. She's probably curious about the next guy as I am curious about the next bitch.
Long story short, and in ALL reality, both "good" guys/girls do not actually exist. It's just a matter of endurance. How long your attraction, and hers to you, will last. After that, you're at the mercy of the next girl/guy.

I'm probably the worst person to say that, being confined to ONE girl for 5 years, but I personally think it's the truth. The reason I'm still in our relationship is because, despite of how it's going away, I still have feelings for her. That said, all the time, I WONDER what it'd be like with other girls. I've had my share of temptation but not once did I cheat. Sure, I've just about cooked the "beef" all sorts of ways, lol, but I'm the sort of guy that can only eat one thing at a time .
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Old 01-19-2009, 09:53 AM   #79
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I thought good girls don't have sex until marriage?
That doesn't define a "good girl", that's a religous girl.
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Old 01-19-2009, 09:55 AM   #80
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Long story short, and in ALL reality, both "good" guys/girls do not actually exist. It's just a matter of endurance. How long your attraction, and hers to you, will last.
In other words... yes, you can find the "good girl/guy", but how long will he/she put up with YOUR shit??
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Old 01-19-2009, 09:56 AM   #81
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Even religious girls can be skanks :P He's thinking about those dull/shy/mundane-type girls who have trouble saying vagina and penis out loud.

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In other words... yes, you can find the "good girl/guy", but how long will he/she put up with YOUR shit??
I thought I mentioned that lol

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Old 02-01-2009, 08:46 AM   #82
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Girl # 5 Date # 0. Flirting 101

I met you at a party and I didn't pay any attention to you. You were just at that party and I was just doing my own thing. It turns out the company that I work for is associated with yours and that was about all that we talked about. We mingled and never thought much of it.

then the internet kicked in. We both started to chat on email and it's interesting how a person as ditzy as you can be such a big flirt. I know you have eyes that can melt butter but your kung fu is not strong enough girl. You are a flirt, and I can read right thru you. I am a bit older and was shocking to you cause I am the confident and funny guy you're not used to meeting. Honey, your flirty flirt personality gets you noticed but with me, you need to bring your game to really get my attention.

So you did and I am going to slowly shed your layers like peeling an onion. You are so used to used flirting (and of course ur boobs does help) to get attention, but I'm going to reall crush your shell and really get you to be who you really are. Be yourself, you will never have to be 'on' with me, just be yourself and enjoy the ride.

Maybe one of these days, we will meet in person and go on a real date.

to be continuted.
GIRL # 5 part 2. (there actually was a part 2) Tonsil hockey 2-0

We drifted apart since we didn't facebook each other any longer. I did enjoy the multiple messages on facebook while it lasted. We met again in a party. We ate, we went dancing and I'm very impressed. Your booty shaking skills were on par with mine. Entire night, you were extremely shy and didn't want to look at me. I knew why, and you did tell me afterward. You couldn't look me in the eyes cause you wanted to kiss me. I told you two can play at this teasing game. I'm a hip hop guy, u're a rock n roll girl but you held your own on stage. I complied and you were being dominated by me.

I drove you home and we had an interesting conversation. I asked what does a guy have to get a date around here. You said I should just asked and you asked me to write down ur number. (rule # 1, always text a girl / or call it asap). I texted you before you even left the car "breakfast tmw 9 sharp"
we hugged and somehow our lips touched. It was... interesting.

+ 7 hrs later, picked u up and you were there before me waiting. + 100 cool points for being on time. Even though you had the same set of clothes on, you were pretty the way you were.

We walked around Vancouver enjoying pastry, then latte, then breakfast. Time just flew by sharing stories. You are right, what we do one on one vs. in a party environment was truly different. You're preceived as a flirt, i looked like i wasn't interested, but when we enjoyed our 1 on 1 since we shed our armor and we became our real self.

I dropped you off and we played some tonsil hockey.

Will there be a date 3. Yes, i know it's going to happen. I am not expecting anything too crazy yet. You popped out unexpectedly, i'm just going to take it step by step and just enjoy your company.

*end note.
I've been single for almost a yr now. With all the girls i've dated, this was the second girl i actually find physically attracted to and the way we connected with our conversations just felt right.
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Old 02-01-2009, 08:03 PM   #83
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If you gotta wait 3+ dates to have sex, she probally isn't all that into sex. I guess thats great for guys who like "virgin" girls. Simply put tho life is short and if your going on 3+ dates move on.
Are you looking for a girl or a fuck buddy? Since when is sex the center of a relationship. Meh, I love sex, but there is no way I would have sex with a guy I was interested in < 3 dates
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Old 02-01-2009, 08:28 PM   #84
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Even religious girls can be skanks :P
so true, one of the skankiest girls I know is really religious, she won't have sex with anyone but she'll make out with almost any guy at parties haha.
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so true, one of the skankiest girls I know is really religious, she won't have sex with anyone but she'll make out with almost any guy at parties haha.
sounds like most of the religious girls i know and the other religious girls i know go the full mile
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Old 02-24-2009, 03:56 PM   #86
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Girl # 2 10 months later

she's 19, still legal but fook it, too much drama for me. I deleted all contact and even though she messaged me from time to time, i did not acknowledge her.

fast forward 10 mths, we met face to face at ikea, i just brushed it off cause I was shopping with my best friend who was a girl. I get a text from a random number. "hi" i ignored it.
10 min. later, just when i was about to walk out, i hear this chick yelling out my name like 5 times. i just kept walking.

Finally she caught up and she's like
Girl: "hi, long time no see"
me "good to see you, how are you doing?" *hug
girl "i'm doing good, nothing much, im' going to clubbing on the weekend wanna come"
Me "have you improved?"
girl."....."
me "well maybe i'll call u next week and see"
girl "... er that'll be too late.. i'll call you tonight and we can go out for coffee, what's ur number"
me "123-4567"
girl, "i just texted u"
me "reception is bad here (it wasn't)"
my best friend "yeah, reception sucks here"ahahaha

needless to say, she called, and i'm like..
how's are you with your college boys, and she said meh, i'm just single now. I'm like, well i guess u're done dating assholes eh?

I told her the only time i can schedule you in is tmw night, take it or leave it. She started to walk down memory lane. Im like.. whatever, i take no bullshit from girls no more. once a girl bring in any baggage, i'l drop them like a bad habbit. she said she changed etc.... i'll see what happens tonight.

i love ikea now

Monday comes along, she just txt and just said she had to cancel.

GOOD BYE and DELETEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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Old 02-24-2009, 04:28 PM   #87
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too many relationship starts because of misjudgement and ends with understanding.
That's so true.

It's painful to have a relationship ends because of misunderstanding, but it's a different kind of pain when the relationship ends, both persons understand each other or understand the relationship better but it's too late to turn back.
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Good girls where are you? Im totally single now, but really just looking for good girls to be friends with.
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Old 02-24-2009, 05:40 PM   #89
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Good girls where are you? Im totally single now, but really just looking for good girls to be friends with.
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partially damaged good girls. no one normal is one there. and i say that with the knowledge that im on there
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Old 02-25-2009, 01:16 PM   #91
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POF is fine. nothing is wrong with people on there, however, my theory holds.

caucasian guys dates caucasian girl
caucasian guys has asian fever and dates all asian girls.
Asian girls enjoy dating caucasian guys
shit... leave some girls for the asian guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 02-25-2009, 01:27 PM   #92
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where do i fit into your theory?
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