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12-19-2008, 11:32 AM
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| Hesitating, not taking the intiative and being the P-word!
I don't have a lot of time because I'm at the public library right now (xmas shopping) on one of their computers. Relationship wise, my gfd and I are doing great. We've been hanging out a lot and spending quality time together doing all types of activities. Now I'm starting to get the itch to step it up another level if you know what I mean. I bought the condoms and been reading up on different foreplay techniques and sex positions, so I'm not going in there blindfolded. The big problem is this mental barrier I'm trying to bulldoze so that I can be a man and stop p*$$* footing around like some insecure b****! Gfd and I have been affectionate but only to the point of kissing, hugging and snuggling. I'm just trying to get over this hurdle of having sex. I know for those who have sex on regular basis this may seem trivial to ya'll but I'm bugging out for real..
I'm absolutely petrified I'll screw this up. Any words of advice people?
I've heard from anecdotally that masterbating just before having sex will mean you will last longer after you get hard again. Is this T or F? The last thing I need is premature ejaculation.
TIA
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12-19-2008, 11:36 AM
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#2 | | Ricer Mod
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Just wanted first post in what is going to be an epic thread.
Berz out.
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12-19-2008, 11:37 AM
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#3 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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If she hasn't started anything, are you sure SHE is even ready? Might want to make sure of that first.
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Originally Posted by STATUS105  IF I FIND YOU
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12-19-2008, 11:37 AM
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#4 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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You need to worry less about making it mind blowing and more about making it special.
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12-19-2008, 11:38 AM
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*Waits for the stick it in the bum comment*
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12-19-2008, 11:49 AM
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........is this your first time? if yes, really think about it if you want to do this. sex changes things and imo, it doesn't even seem like the both of you have gotten to that stage where it seems like you're BOTH ready for it.
stop overthinking and just let things come naturally. the more pressure you put on yourself the more stress you're going to endure. don't complicate the act of sex when it's something so simple.
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12-19-2008, 02:15 PM
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First time, eh? You're going to last about 45 seconds.
*While in the midst of things*
Brad: Baby, we're going all night.
Girl: That's what i like to hear, honey.
Brad: OMG DON'T MOVE
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12-19-2008, 02:27 PM
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first of all, you can practice all you want, but your first game will always be crap. It's true. It'll be messy but memoriable. It'll feel really good but you'll feel lost and puzzled.
You want to make the kill? do this.
tell her you had a tough day at work. Ask her to massage you. then you keep on saying "WOW, you suck" "that's not how you do it".
Then you get all pissed off and put your shirt back on, and throw her down and you massage her and "i'll show you what you're suppose to do"
get her comfy, tell her to relax. 2 mins. into the game, undress her shirt / bra, or socks. then massage her legs, thighs and slow work ur fingers to the punani.
kiss her neck, kiss her and bam, slip a plastic on and bam, u're done.
guarantee success.
works like a charm for a girl that you have seen a few times.
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12-19-2008, 02:45 PM
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shit son u buggin out on the real huh LOL
dont rub one out... i rubbed one out earlier in the day (without knowing) i would get down later in the night, but godamn i couldnt bust, my penis went fucking numb
actually both first 2 times i couldnt bust... how weird is that
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12-19-2008, 02:49 PM
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#10 | | 無敵
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So.. this is what people post in the library...
Hmm.. I think that you're over thinking it, are you sure she's even ready ??
This is your first girlfriend after all, don't make it seem so planned, just let it come naturally.
Anyways, keep us updated. Haha.
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12-19-2008, 03:11 PM
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#11 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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Originally Posted by 6793026 first of all, you can practice all you want, but your first game will always be crap. It's true. It'll be messy but memoriable. It'll feel really good but you'll feel lost and puzzled.
You want to make the kill? do this.
tell her you had a tough day at work. Ask her to massage you. then you keep on saying "WOW, you suck" "that's not how you do it".
Then you get all pissed off and put your shirt back on, and throw her down and you massage her and "i'll show you what you're suppose to do"
get her comfy, tell her to relax. 2 mins. into the game, undress her shirt / bra, or socks. then massage her legs, thighs and slow work ur fingers to the punani.
kiss her neck, kiss her and bam, slip a plastic on and bam, u're done.
guarantee success.
works like a charm for a girl that you have seen a few times. | Does that actually work on girls?
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Originally Posted by STATUS105 IF I FIND YOU
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12-19-2008, 03:22 PM
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i have nothing good to say, so i'll just say nothing at all.
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12-19-2008, 03:33 PM
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12-19-2008, 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted by BoneThug i have nothing good to say, so i'll just say nothing at all. | i'll say something then
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12-19-2008, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Grandmaster TSE i'll say something then
whip it out!!!! | I'll top that.
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12-19-2008, 06:53 PM
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#16 | | look at these diamonds, they shining
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wow you're a big boy now, i still remember that thread of you trying to GET a girlfriend, now you're trying to get in her pants. Props to you, good sir
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12-19-2008, 08:35 PM
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Get her a diamond...
they pretty much have to lol....
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12-19-2008, 09:40 PM
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You gotta use your hands.
From my experience, women love your hands if you know how to use them.
hands are used to pre-heat the oven.
dont stress too much about the exact technique,
start slow and progress from there on
you'll be able to tell by her reactions if shes loving it or not,
usually this will help you get into it and reduce the tension or fear you may be facing,
when she goes crazy from the infamous 5, surprise her with the monster,
put on a hat and continue where you left off
/gives a thumbs up
Edit* when i say hands i mean use your fingers(start with one, see how that goes),
NOT a whole fist (unless of course she demands it.. but thats outside the ballpark for me)
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12-19-2008, 09:41 PM
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#19 | | DOES HE LOOK LIKE A BITCH?
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Originally Posted by The_AK You gotta use your hands. | sound advice,
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12-19-2008, 09:46 PM
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at least 1 person gave some good advice.
remember find the right..."place"
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12-19-2008, 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted by 6793026 first of all, you can practice all you want, but your first game will always be crap. It's true. It'll be messy but memoriable. It'll feel really good but you'll feel lost and puzzled.
You want to make the kill? do this.
tell her you had a tough day at work. Ask her to massage you. then you keep on saying "WOW, you suck" "that's not how you do it".
Then you get all pissed off and put your shirt back on, and throw her down and you massage her and "i'll show you what you're suppose to do"
get her comfy, tell her to relax. 2 mins. into the game, undress her shirt / bra, or socks. then massage her legs, thighs and slow work ur fingers to the punani.
kiss her neck, kiss her and bam, slip a plastic on and bam, u're done.
guarantee success.
works like a charm for a girl that you have seen a few times. |
i unno.....my first time lasted a LONG time...maybe its the fact that i didnt even know the girl....but either way....it was a long time!!!
if i KNOW im gettin it later...hell yeah ill rub one out earlier....make the girl work for that squirt!!!!!
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12-19-2008, 09:57 PM
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Who cares if you screw up when you can do it again 30 mins later.
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12-19-2008, 10:43 PM
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#23 | | MiX iT Up!
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wow.
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Make the effort and take the risk..
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12-19-2008, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted by stewie i unno.....my first time lasted a LONG time...maybe its the fact that i didnt even know the girl....but either way....it was a long time!!! |
Making your $80 go a long ways, eh?
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12-20-2008, 12:53 AM
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Okay homeslice, this is the real deal now. You mess up, she's gone for good.
Use your instincts. Don't overdoo your personality, but make it in ways that is fun for her, a good laugh leading to serious sex is always a good starter, because you want to make her feel comfortable.
One word, Brad.. SHAVE. no girl wants to venture down in a jungle of no return, you know.
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