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Old 12-30-2008, 05:29 PM   #26
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^ I am sorry, my real friends are not attractive or they bring out attractive girls out...lol

and once you start working, you will experience what's real boring life.

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Old 01-01-2009, 10:01 AM   #27
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I don't see why they would avoid you. I mean it's just hanging out with friends, it's not like you're going out on a date with them or something.
Why don't you ask a mixed group of girls and guys out then?
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Old 01-01-2009, 06:24 PM   #28
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I guess they are busy finding guys to get married, rather than wasting time with someone else. They are not young like 18-23
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Old 01-01-2009, 11:57 PM   #29
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wanted to chill out with this girl friend of mine, take her out for a movie / dinner / drink etc. then i thought it over carefully and decided to bail out due to the fact that the drama which was gonna build up was totally not worth it.
You can do that but just make sure she pays for her share. Then it is just two friends going for a night out. I do it all the time.
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do u guys find anything wrong if a guy fucks girls without love when gf is away for many months of working trip

but still loves his gf significantly?
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Old 01-02-2009, 01:44 PM   #31
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^ i hope that is a rhetorical question.
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Old 01-02-2009, 02:01 PM   #32
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do u guys find anything wrong if a guy fucks girls without love when gf is away for many months of working trip

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i hope that you didnt do this.
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Old 01-04-2009, 03:14 AM   #33
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why is it that guys tend to hang out with girls who have a bf?
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Old 01-04-2009, 04:51 AM   #34
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^ would you choose a restaurant that is empty or go to the one that has a long lineup like Stephos?
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Old 01-04-2009, 05:50 AM   #35
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why is it that guys tend to hang out with girls who have a bf?
Also goes the other way... People want what they can't/don't have.
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Old 01-04-2009, 06:35 PM   #36
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For being in a long distance relationship you have one person to blame for all your lonely boring sexless nights, YOURSELF.
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Old 01-04-2009, 06:45 PM   #37
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^ it's not LD, ferry takes no more than 75 minutes. It's just that we can't see each other during weekday
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Old 01-07-2009, 01:24 AM   #38
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do u guys find anything wrong if a guy fucks girls without love when gf is away for many months of working trip

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Depends on the nature of the relationship. If you guys have discussed rules as to what you are comfortable with as far as sex outside of the two of you, and you stick to those rules, it should be fine as long as you are open and honest.

However, if you are just sneaking around behind her back because you are lazy and have no self control, then you are a jerk. You might as well start stealing from her purse or farting on her lipstick, because you are using her and deceiving her.
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Old 01-07-2009, 11:00 AM   #39
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everytime i start "dating" a girl, thats the time when every other girl wants me

chicks like competetion...
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do u guys find anything wrong if a guy fucks girls without love when gf is away for many months of working trip

but still loves his gf significantly?
BS like this; its how you know love does not exist.
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Old 01-07-2009, 11:31 AM   #41
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^ I am sorry, my real friends are not attractive or they bring out attractive girls out...lol

and once you start working, you will experience what's real boring life.
i've been working for 10 yrs and yes, i do understand cause i was in that riot, but i've changed my life around and network my ass off. Work, eat sleep can be a boring routine but you just gotta get out of the box.

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do u guys find anything wrong if a guy fucks girls without love when gf is away for many months of working trip

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if u're cheating then u're ass. fucks girls without love = hookers.

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Depends on the nature of the relationship. If you guys have discussed rules as to what you are comfortable with as far as sex outside of the two of you, and you stick to those rules, it should be fine as long as you are open and honest.

However, if you are just sneaking around behind her back because you are lazy and have no self control, then you are a jerk. You might as well start stealing from her purse or farting on her lipstick, because you are using her and deceiving her.
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BS like this; its how you know love does not exist.
As strange as it seems, there are couple with ground rules set in place. Some gf will NOT ever let bf go to brandi's cause that's cheating. Touching a stripper = cheating. some couples said they are not in a monagamous relationships, and as long as both people aer happy with whatever T&C, it's find by them.
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Old 01-07-2009, 11:46 AM   #42
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As strange as it seems, there are couple with ground rules set in place. Some gf will NOT ever let bf go to brandi's cause that's cheating. Touching a stripper = cheating. some couples said they are not in a monagamous relationships, and as long as both people aer happy with whatever T&C, it's find by them.
T&C? i dunno about that, but for me at least, if I was going to give love a chance, id like to think that there would not need to be any rules. I know of the rules, i've had my share of girls write them down in stone for me, but I never expect them to follow them. If i go to a strip club, and they tell me not to touch a stripper, and I touch her ( I hate strip clubs so this is all rhetorical) and she never finds out then who cares? Same as if I tell her not to dance with other guys at a club. She'll probably do it, not grind or anything, but girls like to dance. Comes back home, we either never talk about it or she lies, and everyone is blissful in their ignorance. Thats the reality I live in. and if thats what love is supposed to be then fuck that shit.

Point being: there shouldnt need to be any rules, since there isn't anyone actually enforcing them, and no real way to see if someone is breaking them. unless they are spying on each other or something. in which case the relationship got really weird and its time to end it anyway.
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Old 01-07-2009, 12:08 PM   #43
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T&C? i dunno about that, but for me at least, if I was going to give love a chance, id like to think that there would not need to be any rules. I know of the rules, i've had my share of girls write them down in stone for me, but I never expect them to follow them. If i go to a strip club, and they tell me not to touch a stripper, and I touch her ( I hate strip clubs so this is all rhetorical) and she never finds out then who cares? Same as if I tell her not to dance with other guys at a club. She'll probably do it, not grind or anything, but girls like to dance. Comes back home, we either never talk about it or she lies, and everyone is blissful in their ignorance. Thats the reality I live in. and if thats what love is supposed to be then fuck that shit.

Point being: there shouldnt need to be any rules, since there isn't anyone actually enforcing them, and no real way to see if someone is breaking them. unless they are spying on each other or something. in which case the relationship got really weird and its time to end it anyway.
But that same sentiment can be applied to the question below.

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do u guys find anything wrong if a guy fucks girls without love when gf is away for many months of working trip

but still loves his gf significantly?
The only difference being, is that VSVS is cheating by the common standard, and in your case, you are cheating via the definition laid out by your SO (touching strippers, theoretically).

In response to VSVS. Yes I would cheat. But you have to make it appropriate to the cirucmstance. I would cheat if its not a serious relationship but a casual one instead. I have to not care so much about the loss. If I am in serious relationship, well the girl better be worth it. LIke say, Angelina Jolie worth it. As per Brad Pitt

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But that same sentiment can be applied to the question below.



The only difference being, is that VSVS is cheating by the common standard, and in your case, you are cheating via the definition laid out by your SO (touching strippers, theoretically).

In response to VSVS. Yes I would cheat. But you have to make it appropriate to the cirucmstance. I would cheat if its not a serious relationship but a casual one instead. I have to not care so much about the loss. If I am in serious relationship, well the girl better be worth it. LIke say, Angelina Jolie worth it. As per Brad Pitt
its supposed to relate to what vsvs said. it was a response to 6793026 based on what I said to vsvs.
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Old 01-13-2009, 06:45 PM   #45
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Yea of course they do.. you always have that one hoe bag friend you keep around for situations like this.. lol
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Old 01-17-2009, 11:39 PM   #46
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maybe they think you're ugly jokes.

Probably because they know you're taken, they're not really getting all of you, if you know what i mean.
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Old 01-18-2009, 02:57 AM   #47
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I guess it's easier to hang out with girls when you're in a relationship when your gf knows the friends you're hanging out with and vise versa.

Kinda hard in your case to happen with new people if your gf is out of town.
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