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Old 01-16-2009, 10:15 AM   #51
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done alot for a girl already, been chasing for 6 months, surprises, everthing you name it. She just sees me as a friend. Am I wasting my time ?
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Is it me or am I the only person that read this thread as "How does a girl get touched?" and I came in here for some outlandish sexual question when in fact it's another sappy one.
nope, tricked me too


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Old 01-16-2009, 09:11 PM   #52
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what's your plan of action ?

Right now, I'm trying to move it, but i find it kinda hard.

Haven't talked or communicate with her for the whole week now :/
I just plan on listening to what most of what my friends have told me..and that is to just move on. Its hard and takes time..since shes really important to me and she just tore me up pretty bad inside..but yeah I'm working at it.

I'm just concentrated in finishing up my school, so I can graduate in June, working on my car, and hanging out with friends, plus meeting some new girls too..so far its helping me getting through this.

hope you're doing ok with your situation.
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Old 01-17-2009, 11:41 AM   #53
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I just plan on listening to what most of what my friends have told me..and that is to just move on. Its hard and takes time..since shes really important to me and she just tore me up pretty bad inside..but yeah I'm working at it.

I'm just concentrated in finishing up my school, so I can graduate in June, working on my car, and hanging out with friends, plus meeting some new girls too..so far its helping me getting through this.

hope you're doing ok with your situation.
, same, moving on
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Old 01-19-2009, 08:15 AM   #54
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I just plan on listening to what most of what my friends have told me..and that is to just move on. Its hard and takes time..since shes really important to me and she just tore me up pretty bad inside..but yeah I'm working at it.

I'm just concentrated in finishing up my school, so I can graduate in June, working on my car, and hanging out with friends, plus meeting some new girls too..so far its helping me getting through this.

hope you're doing ok with your situation.
the girl is not important to you. the reason you are so tie up is because you put so much effort but didn't get anything in return. ppl always want what they can't have.

end it now so your memory of her is still short and sweet and fill with what would have been.

you know the old cliche saying, if you love something let it go it will come back to u if its meant to be urs.
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fuckkk same boat as me! Cept trust issues, cuz her "ex" cheated on her. Ive decided to stick with it a little longer.

I hear you bro in your situation I think its best to cut it off and distance yourself away, so she will understand what she took for granted.
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Old 01-22-2009, 02:16 PM   #57
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Last talk we had, this is what she said, she said she likes the friendship we have now, and then " to be honest I've never liked you or ever had any sort of feelings for you, but I did take all your good qualities and how well you treat me in consideration for a relationship." then she says, but I don't know, you've been nothing but nice to me, I really don't know, she gives me a clear answer then she gives me hope?, everytime we discuss about relationships, it ends like this, so it always feels like i'm being left hanging.
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when a girl says...

no = no
i don't know = no
maybe w/ a straight face = no
maybe w/ a wondering face = 50/50
probably = she's considering but her decision depends on how well u treat her therefore the guy has to try even harder not to screw things up
umm..yah = 70% yes, 30% no, same thing as probably
sure = she doesn't really care
yes w/ an enthusiastic face = hell yeah, i want you to penetrate me and blow ur load on my face - this is the time when u stop worrying about what she thinks and start thinking about what positions ur gonna do on her


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Anyways, I guess it is really time for me to move on. I don't wanna screw up another semester of school because of this girl, plus it's a new year.
smart move, u definately wont regret it
just keep ignoring her and don't look back, i bet u shes gonna be the one chasing u later on and when she does thats when u play hardball and make her feel the frustration that u bared in the last 6 months...i hate undecisive ppl
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, same, moving on
This is good that you're moving on. If she hasn't spoken to you in weeks, then she's obviously not cherishing the things you do for her.

ex. Bussing to SFU Surrey from Vancouver and just thinks you're just being nice. (I'm actually at SFU Surrey right now )

ex. Roses.. "what are they for?"

Take care man, I'm kinda in the same position as you.
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when a girl says...

no = no
i don't know = no
maybe w/ a straight face = no
maybe w/ a wondering face = 50/50
probably = she's considering but her decision depends on how well u treat her therefore the guy has to try even harder not to screw things up
umm..yah = 70% yes, 30% no, same thing as probably
sure = she doesn't really care
yes w/ an enthusiastic face = hell yeah, i want you to penetrate me and blow ur load on my face - this is the time when u stop worrying about what she thinks and start thinking about what positions ur gonna do on her




smart move, u definately wont regret it
just keep ignoring her and don't look back, i bet u shes gonna be the one chasing u later on and when she does thats when u play hardball and make her feel the frustration that u bared in the last 6 months...i hate undecisive ppl
Pretty much sums up what I was going to say
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when a girl says...

no = no
i don't know = no
maybe w/ a straight face = no
maybe w/ a wondering face = 50/50
probably = she's considering but her decision depends on how well u treat her therefore the guy has to try even harder not to screw things up
umm..yah = 70% yes, 30% no, same thing as probably
sure = she doesn't really care
yes w/ an enthusiastic face = hell yeah, i want you to penetrate me and blow ur load on my face - this is the time when u stop worrying about what she thinks and start thinking about what positions ur gonna do on her
no = No I won't sleep with you, but if you make me attracted to you, I will.
I don't know = You're being a giant wussbag. Man up.
maybe w/ a straight face = no
maybe w/ a wondering face = Are you gay?
Probably = give me an excuse to fuck you and I will
sure = I dig you. play your cards right and you'll get laid.
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Old 01-27-2009, 05:10 PM   #61
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It depends on the girl,
as well as your regular behavior (that is, are you usually lovey-dovey, or is this one of the rare cases that you want to make her feel touched, etc.)

self-made slideshows with cliche romance music for anniversaries and the like work pretty well,
my buddy made one and showed it to me for C&C's, and even as a guy, I was deeply moved.
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Old 01-27-2009, 05:14 PM   #62
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if you have your own pad/ she has her own pad and you feel up for something really spontaneous,

go to Superstore and buy those round candles,
place them along the staircases (if there are any) and around the place,
and light them up.
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Once when I was sick on vacation and had blisters on my feet from hiking around for the past few days.
This guy brought me medicine and carried me around all day after he found out. =3
That and the next day he sent a birthday cake to my hotel room and called me while he was at school because I wasn't going to be there for my birthday.
I thought it was the cutest thing ever. =D
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what is =3 mean? shaft and balls? i think you are going for but the equal sign isn't anywhere near there. honestly confused
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what is =3 mean? shaft and balls? i think you are going for but the equal sign isn't anywhere near there. honestly confused
it's half a bone.
because she didn't know how to make "3" appear backwards.




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it's half a bone.
because she didn't know how to make "3" appear backwards.




there you go, my non-asian comrade
half a bone so a picture of a mouse? and though I see the bone I dont get the relevance to either the mouse or a bone. it doesnt fit. im more confused then before.
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when a girl says...

no = no
i don't know = no
maybe w/ a straight face = no
maybe w/ a wondering face = 50/50
probably = she's considering but her decision depends on how well u treat her therefore the guy has to try even harder not to screw things up
umm..yah = 70% yes, 30% no, same thing as probably
sure = she doesn't really care
yes w/ an enthusiastic face = hell yeah, i want you to penetrate me and blow ur load on my face
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half a bone so a picture of a mouse? and though I see the bone I dont get the relevance to either the mouse or a bone. it doesnt fit. im more confused then before.


I hope you're not serious about the mouse or bone.. -_-
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I hope you're not serious about the mouse or bone.. -_-
i have no clue as to the point of that emoticon. or who the mouse thingy is.
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or are you a guy so when the guy brough you medicine you got a boner? but then still why the mouse?
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or are you a guy so when the guy brough you medicine you got a boner? but then still why the mouse?
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You're in the friend zone.

Shouldn't take 6 months on constant chasing.

not like that.

Just give it up and move on before the fixation you've built up already gets worse.

IMO, if a girl wants to be with you, it doesn't take 6 months. Even if it did, she'd be shooting out signs all over the place
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