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Old 02-24-2009, 03:47 AM   #26
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honestly.. fuck him, what kind of bf says that to their gf?? if he doesn't like it he can go find somebody else
he obviouslly is considering moving on, but most likely still likes her so wants her to try so he poses his feeling the best and easiest way he knows how and thats through little demeaning jokes hoping she gets the hint


lets be perfectly honest girls its fine for you to be fat but dont expect that belief to be fine for a guy, and yes that feeling goes the same for fat guys they feel that way too you might consider it not fair but thats how it is

just like a lot of things are unfair to guys but favour girls, deal with it

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Old 02-24-2009, 04:02 AM   #27
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^ well.. i wouldn't go and bug my bf if he was fat or whatnot or if i went out with him and he's still the same way, i wouldn't say, "go lose 20 pounds" when i know he is already trying to lose weight.

anyway, what i'm saying is.. this isn't something you should say to your s/o. if you have a huge problem with it, just leave
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Old 02-24-2009, 07:25 AM   #28
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sit down and talk about it and ask him why it bothers him so much.
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Old 02-24-2009, 08:40 AM   #29
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are u fat?

otherwise why he keeps on bitching u about ur weight
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He probably started dating you because he saw potential.
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Old 02-24-2009, 09:21 AM   #31
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The bf still loves her he just wants a better her so they can live even more happy and healthy forever, could be true he might want u to lose a few pounds so u can be nicer looking to him then bfore but really if u did lose it, it will benefit both him and yourself because you will feel better about yourself
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Old 02-24-2009, 10:28 AM   #32
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it would give us an idea if you post you and your boyfriend's weights

but from the sounds of it, you're just a lil chubby, and there is nothing wrong with that. if he wants you to lose weight, maybe he should lose some too
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Old 02-24-2009, 11:26 AM   #33
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id prefer a little less to love and a little more that i can go out in public with
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id prefer a little less to love and a little more that i can go out in public with
couldn't have said it better myself.
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id prefer a little less to love and a little more that i can go out in public with
lol but what u guys do in private you'll have a little more to grab
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lol but what u guys do in private you'll have a little more to grab
know what im sayin'
im not saying ive never done a heavier chick. hell there are pics on revscene to prove it. Im just saying for a gf, id rather have a girl who can keep up appearances. nothing wrong with maintaining personal standards and standards for those you keep around you. that said i alternate between chicks i find physically attractive and chicks i find mentally attractive. last time i tried a chick with both my head almost exploded.
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im not saying ive never done a heavier chick. hell there are pics on revscene to prove it. Im just saying for a gf, id rather have a girl who can keep up appearances. nothing wrong with maintaining personal standards and standards for those you keep around you. that said i alternate between chicks i find physically attractive and chicks i find mentally attractive. last time i tried a chick with both my head almost exploded.
lol ur head almost exploded ..

works on both levels giggity giggity

yeah for sure.. i know what u mean

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Old 02-24-2009, 04:39 PM   #40
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The thing is...I am the same weight as I was when I started dating him. As well, he is overweight himself. He goes to the gym several times a week but I don't say anything about HIS weight.
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then tell him to fuck off. hypocrites piss me off. tell him to lose weight too. if not start talking to other guys in anticipation of leaving.


Ask him why he is even going out with you in the first place if he keeps giving you crap about your weight. You don't sound like you're huge or anything. A girl with curves is a nice thing and he shouldn't be complaining considering he is overweight himself!
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Old 02-24-2009, 06:25 PM   #41
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anyway, what i'm saying is.. this isn't something you should say to your s/o.
Uhhhh no. These are things you shouldn't be saying to strangers or mild acquaintances. SO's however, are people who you should be able to be honest with. It's just a matter of tact. One can be hurtful about one's approach, or one can be supportive.
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ur bf is nothing but an 'aint shit nigga'.

kick him to the curb and while ur at it get some self respect and stop dating guys who make u feel bad about ur weight. u should be dating someone who betters u and enhances the quality of ur life.. not bring u down and makes u feel self conscious.

dont mean to sound rude but thats truth. if he loved u, he would appreciate ur body whether u shrunk down, ballooned up or stayed the same. if ur trying to lose weight, do it for urself until ur happy with ur own image..not him, he doesn't sound like he is worth 1/4 of that dedication & hard work!
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ur bf is nothing but an 'aint shit nigga'.

kick him to the curb and while ur at it get some self respect and stop dating guys who make u feel bad about ur weight. u should be dating someone who betters u and enhances the quality of ur life.. not bring u down and makes u feel self conscious.

dont mean to sound rude but thats truth. if he loved u, he would appreciate ur body whether u shrunk down, ballooned up or stayed the same. if ur trying to lose weight, do it for urself until ur happy with ur own image..not him, he doesn't sound like he is worth 1/4 of that dedication & hard work!
you are an 'aint shit nigga'
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Uhhhh no. These are things you shouldn't be saying to strangers or mild acquaintances. SO's however, are people who you should be able to be honest with. It's just a matter of tact. One can be hurtful about one's approach, or one can be supportive.
true

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if ur bf is saying out of genuine concern for your hhealth then appreciate that he's honest and so straightforward bout it

if he's being a jerk about it..then u dont deserve him
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if ur bf is saying out of genuine concern for your hhealth then appreciate that he's honest and so straightforward bout it

if he's being a jerk about it..then u dont deserve him
maybe he's just playfully joking around?

then again why not lose some weight and then bug him about his weight. put him on the spot and see how he feels
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^^ oops i mean the boyfriend doesnt deserve the OP (gf)

LOL


haha yeah but totally lose the weight and put him on the spot..for sure
revenge is pretty fukn sweet lol
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Old 02-25-2009, 04:54 PM   #47
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revenge is pretty fukn sweet lol
Doesn't work.

Revenge only works if the dumper is hotter than the dumpee. It's not too clear if the BF can get better girls, but there's indication the GF can't get better guys since she doesn't have the luxury of being picky.

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p.s. I've dated guys before who were obese as well as skinny guys.
So if she can't be picky based on looks and personality (since her current bf is being a prick to her due to her weight)... then I seriously don't know what this chick has goin' for her in order to constitute a viable revenge.
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Old 02-25-2009, 06:42 PM   #48
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He just isn't the sort of dude who likes chub and grown exhausted of it. Simple as that. You either change or leave. He can find someone better and likewise, you can find someone else who is better for you.
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why don't you suggest to him to go together for walks or physical activities that include you two burning some calories. Rock climbing, Grouse Grind, Running around the Stanley Park Seawall. Its so easy to criticize but nothing magically happens.
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they're both fat. why are they going to drive all the way to stanley park just so they can walk for 5 mins before both agree that they've gone a long way and are really tired. better to find more couch potatoish things you can do together. play to your strengths.
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