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Old 04-15-2009, 02:32 PM   #1
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At the hardest point of you life.

Who do you ask for help? When one problem affects the other causing a chain reaction leading to different problems putting you into a dead end.

Do you turn to your parents? what if you want to keep you pride? what if you dont have parents to relied on?


Your friends? but you dont want to burden them.

Some people might understand what im trying to say but those who dont, you really have to experience with it to understand.

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Old 04-15-2009, 02:35 PM   #2
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I have a friend who is like an older brother to me. Well actually I have 2. One is just the brother I see a couple times a week while the other is one I see maybe once a week.

If its a financial situation I would goto my parents though. One thing I have learned is that borrowing money from friends is not a good idea.
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Old 04-15-2009, 02:36 PM   #3
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depends what kinda help u in need for.
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Old 04-15-2009, 02:42 PM   #4
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sometimes you have to push your pride aside and suck it up before it's too late so you don't get put into a worse off position.
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Old 04-15-2009, 02:43 PM   #5
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true. but when life throw shit at you left and right, it just discourages you to a point where your just stuck. Do you search within yourself to not give up. Everything has a a breaking point take DTES as an example.
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Old 04-15-2009, 02:49 PM   #6
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That's when you take a step back and learn from your mistakes. You know the saying what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. It's tru as long as you deal with it so it doesn't prolong the situtation and make things worse thats all that matters.

The most important thing is learn from your mistakes, thats life things get thrown at you and it's how you deal with it that really matters.
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Old 04-15-2009, 02:56 PM   #7
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I'd take a step back and see wut's really going on. Whether I need to make some changes to myself. I'd exhaust all my options before I ask for any help. But I'd make sure I dun get into such a position in the first place. To me, I think that as long as u have enough money to feed urself, the problem isn't really much of a problem.
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Old 04-15-2009, 03:37 PM   #8
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i go to trusted people around me for advice, not actual help. i don't like to involve/burden my friends with my own problems. in the end they need to be resolved by your own action one way or another.

that's how i look at it anyway
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Old 04-15-2009, 03:41 PM   #9
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Old 04-15-2009, 03:54 PM   #10
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You turn to RS. And I'm actually being serious. It already happened, IF this isn't a hypothetical question.
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Old 04-15-2009, 03:57 PM   #11
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I don't think this thread belongs here.
Sooner or later it's gonna be completely irrelevant to the OP.

like Murd0c said, sometimes you just have to fuck your pride and acknowledge your situation.
once you can acknowledge your fears, then you can proceed to breaking that shit into pieces and get back on track with your life.

this sounds completely stupid, but turn to the ones that love you the most.


edit: or for temporary and effective means, you can get a pound of weed and spend a week at home.
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Old 04-15-2009, 04:29 PM   #12
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You turn to RS. And I'm actually being serious. It already happened, IF this isn't a hypothetical question.
meh... more so like a question, i ve been thru mine. Just was wondering how different people may deal with it. There will be the ones that can solve there problems and ones that just give up. A human being can only take so much... theres gotta be a breaking point.

I was thinking, there are a lot of people out there that are fucked from all sides leading to well......not so good endings.

in the end , i think you have to search within yourself to pull you shit together and look back what you did wrong.get help when your at your lowest point
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Old 04-15-2009, 05:17 PM   #13
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Old 04-15-2009, 05:49 PM   #14
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haha seriously though, it depends on the situation.
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Old 04-15-2009, 05:51 PM   #15
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Old 04-15-2009, 06:13 PM   #17
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Might be tough but sometimes you gotta push away your pride.

But if your parents do love you and your true friends do care about you, then they shouldn't mind. I know I'd help my friends if they needed it. On the other hand I'd try everything possible before resorting to asking for help.

It is nice to be able to say I made it through this situation myself, but then again there is nothing wrong with getting help. If I did get help I would acknowledge it and thank them.

Kinda like those kids with ballin ass cars who claim to have got it themselves, it would be nice if they acknowledged they had some help from parents or whoever.
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Old 04-15-2009, 07:07 PM   #18
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seriously just suicide

its the only way for you right now
i should give you a medal of learn how to fucken read. try to boost up your post count so you dont look like a fucken idiot
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seriously just suicide

its the only way for you right now
wow... hopefully the mods hand out some serious points or even ban this idiot for posting this..
what would happen if the OP was actually going through some serious shit right now and was possibly even thinking about suicide.
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Going through something like this at the moment, I'm currently trying to change what is wrong with myself first, and by doing that I've figured out who are my real friends. Shit happens and it sucks but I believe that in the end I will be a better person.
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Old 04-15-2009, 09:47 PM   #22
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I just think about all the people barely hanging on living in conditions that are far more worse and extreme, that are dealing with difficulties unimaginable that I can't even begin to imagine... the ones that are struggling to survive to the next day and still some how manage to pull through
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Old 04-15-2009, 09:59 PM   #23
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Old 04-15-2009, 10:20 PM   #24
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normally i try not to ask for help, but when im out of options, ill either go to my best friend, or my best female friend...girls usually give better advice to me for some reason...

havnt had to ask for help in almost a year now...
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Wow. There's a fine line between being an RS member or being a complete tool who decided to say something without thinking. You my friend, have crossed that line.
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