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Old 04-24-2009, 07:12 PM   #1
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Nice guys do finish last

So a couple weeks ago I met this chick. We hit things off well and she seemed like the type of girl I would actually consider dating.
We go out a couple times.. She told me she thought I was great. Things were going well BUT I was refusing to sleep with her. After the second time going out I tried to make plans again.. she said ok.. calls me back a couple hours before and bails. I didnt really care since I had just been invited to go out with some other friends anyways (usually in a situation like that I would actually cancel with the girl and go out with my friends.. maybe call the girl after.. lol)..
We keep talking.. I do some playful bugging but dont actually call her on anything stupid she does (typical nice guy behavior)..
I make plans with her last week again and again she bails on me a couple hours later.
This time I just sent her a message "call me when you actually wanna do something" and left it at that. I am gonna wait at least another two weeks before I call her. I am almost positive she will wanna do something then. I am also gonna fuck her the next time we hang out.

The funny thing is when I am a bit of a prick there are no games.. in fact the girls are trying so hard to have a relationship with me (I should point out that I'm not a total asshole douchebag.. I just make it very clear that I'm the man and I get what I want.. but I'm nice at the same time)..
I've had 2 girls straight up tell me they wanted me to move in with them (I was living with my parents at the time).. 2 girls have told me they would totally marry me.. They actually get somewhat clingy.. lol


And there you have it. Proof that nice guys DO finish last..

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white people's life always make asian jealous.
at least you dont' have treat them like princess
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this is true. i met this girl about 4 months ago. At first i was a prick/perv LoL.
eventually, i became a nice and mature. then i could sense she was starting to lose interest in me. She has now moved onto another guy. O well. A Lesson learn for me
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white people's life always make asian jealous.
at least you dont' have treat them like princess
Race has nothing to do with it. It's you and your personality.
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Things were going well BUT I was refusing to sleep with her.
Why? Somehow I find that hard to believe.
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Nice guys finish last, but they finish well. That's what I go by. I've tried the douchebaggy pricky way of doing things and guess what? It just isn't me. Ended up driving a long relationship off a cliff too...although it was doomed anyway haha

Here is talking to all the nice guys: If you are who you are and they don't dig it, move on. Seriously, if they don't appreciate who you really are, then it's time for them to GTFO.
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this is true. i met this girl about 4 months ago. At first i was a prick/perv LoL.
eventually, i became a nice and mature. then i could sense she was starting to lose interest in me. She has now moved onto another guy. O well. A Lesson learn for me
yeah well, this is for you and everyone else.
you can't be a prick for the REST of your relationship if you do happen to have it with that girl.. it's just that initial impression hitting it off. if you do manage to settle down, sure enough you'd have to be more mature or else it's going to go off the cliff as well...
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Why? Somehow I find that hard to believe.
One of my friends told me that she thought I made everything revolve around sex so I decided I would try actually getting to know this girl first.
Lets just say we were chilling watching a movie at my place.. We were sorta "cuddling" and my hand touched her stomach... her leg started opening.. haha

I gave my friend shit for putting dumb thoughts in my head. I told her from now on the first thing I do is hook up with the chick. Just instead of only ever calling her to fuck I'll actually do relationship type stuff... lol
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Race has nothing to do with it. It's you and your personality.
personality is based on experience.
different types of people will have cultures therefore different experiences.


penner: I've experienced the same thing before. It's like fishing, you gotta know when to be gentle and you gotta know when to pull the hook. If you insist on being gentle when you should be reeling it in, then eventually they'll slip away.
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Race has nothing to do with it. It's you and your personality.
soooo not true!!

in my experience, fwb with honger chicks ALWAYS ends with them being clingy and wanting me to do stuff with them that their bfs should be doing - like paying for suff.

but with the white girls, i go over, hump, sleep, a few would make breakfast the next morning and i go home n sleep and we'll see eachother next time. Never clingy, never whining, just perfect!

And I'm asian.
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oh yeah, and thats another thing....i've found that it's predominately the honger chicks that are cheating!!! ionno why...i thought they'd be the more traditional type....but guess i was wrong
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Iam not directing this at you but to guys in general because the misuse of the term "nice guy" irks me.

"Nice guys" don't finish last, losers finish last. The sad thing is that a lot of guys that can't get girls seem to think that it's because they're "nice guys" when in reality its that they're just not attractive enough.

The guys that are most successful with women are "nice", but they're also successful, and fun, and all that good stuff.
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in my opinion, on the first date, you HAVE to try and get some, regardless of whether you actually think you will, or whether you actually thinks she will give you some. sometimes, they'll school you into thinking you have it when you really dont.

regardless you HAVE to try. cause if you dont, she doesnt think you are nice, she just thinks you have no balls and are too afraid to make a move. in her head, she is hot and you want her since why else would you be there cuddling and watching a movie. to not to do it says you dont think she's hot, which she knows is not true. or are too scared to make a move which is what she had to go with. she moved on.

thats not a nice guy mistake. you can be a nice guy and still get some. moving fast doesnt make someone a dick. she just wanted something faster. lessons learned
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Iam not directing this at you but to guys in general because the misuse of the term "nice guy" irks me.

"Nice guys" don't finish last, losers finish last. The sad thing is that a lot of guys that can't get girls seem to think that it's because they're "nice guys" when in reality its that they're just not attractive enough.

The guys that are most successful with women are "nice", but they're also successful, and fun, and all that good stuff.
agreed. nice guys still finish. losers give up or disqualify themselves.
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This chick isn't white btw.

The only other thing I think might be going on is that her best friend has been trying to date my best friend for a while. Her friend could be influencing her to not go out with me unless she can go out with my buddy.

I agree with the whole nice guy thing being used wrong.
I actually do consider myself a nice guy but I'm not afraid to make a move. I'm not afraid of speaking my mind and having my own opinion. I'm not afraid to joke around and poke fun at a girl. I'm not clingy or the jealous type either. I like time with my boys and I expect the girl to want to go out with her girls too.
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your love life sounds pretty good to me

this is just one incident i see

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HHAHAHAHAHHAHA omg. i laughed so hard. hahahah.


well it can be easily said too that nice girls finish last. but when the time does come, it is SO sweet.
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HHAHAHAHAHHAHA omg. i laughed so hard. hahahah.


well it can be easily said too that nice girls finish last. but when the time does come, it is SO sweet.
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HHAHAHAHAHHAHA omg. i laughed so hard. hahahah.


well it can be easily said too that nice girls finish last. but when the time does come, it is SO sweet.
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Iam not directing this at you but to guys in general because the misuse of the term "nice guy" irks me.

"Nice guys" don't finish last, losers finish last. The sad thing is that a lot of guys that can't get girls seem to think that it's because they're "nice guys" when in reality its that they're just not attractive enough.

The guys that are most successful with women are "nice", but they're also successful, and fun, and all that good stuff.
agreeeee

guys who think they have to be an ass to get some are probably just picking up girls that aren't worth your time and who don't want a serious relationship. nice guys ftw
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