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Old 05-07-2009, 03:56 PM   #26
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i have a way u can stop ur buddy from watching porn, have his wife watch porn 2 times more than he does and ask the him to watch it with her, watch it until ur buddy can't take it anymore and he'll flip and then he'll never watch it anymore ever again, problem solved...LOL it mite just work

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Old 05-07-2009, 04:11 PM   #27
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Many women feel that it is an attack on their womanhood; they feel that the men are not interested in them anymore. What they fail to understand is that as soon as the guy is finished whacking off, the chick dissappears.

There was a blog called "True Porn Clerk Stories", and in one of the final posts, she talks about this. About how in the days of VHS how guys would return their tapes unrewound and sometimes uncleaned.

Porn is something you do to enjoy. You don't have to worry about pleasing someone else, you don't have to worry about saying or doing the right thing, about doing something that's going to make her explode in pleasure or in anger. Porn is all about relaxing with yourself and not worrying about anyone else.


And a lot of women are fucking selfish and can't get over the fact that she isn't perfect in every way shape and form for him.
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Old 05-07-2009, 07:05 PM   #28
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the issue with the wife is what makes her feel when she found out the husband is watching porns and why? She is uncool, which i assume is angry, and the feeling behind angry is fear, most peoplel use angry to protect themself when they are in fear.

Then she is gonna find out what is she afraid of? maybe she interprets that sex is not good that's why the husband is using porns as an exit; or maybe she interprets that the husband is losing interest in her, maybe even insecure about her body; maybe she is just simply afraid of uncertainty, she doesn't understand why the husband is watching porns.

the issue with the husband is what makes him want to watch the porns? losing interest in sex with the wife even she is super hot? curiousity because "no matter how hot the girl, you're always wondering about the 'other' ones"? satisfing exotic fantacy only found in porns? performance problem?

i honestly dun think watching porno is a big deal, the problem lies behind the lack of communication between those two in this incident.

May i recommned them watch it together?
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Old 05-07-2009, 08:13 PM   #29
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I totally agree with a lot of the stuff im reading here
I believe women who are against their guy watching porn is cause they feel insecure about themselves, whether it's self consciousness about her body, actions, or whatever. But then again, some women do believe that when their man watches porn they're "cheating" cause they're watching another other naked women getting it on despite the fact that it's on a screen.
I mean, c'mon, WOMEN WATCH PORN
Perhaps not EVERYONE but majority i believe.

That was one of the first things my bf and I got out of the way, the porn issue. we even have plans of walking into adult video store one of these days just for the heck of it and laugh. I think it's fairly important to get this issue sorted out and out of the way in a relationship as soon as possible. Draw the line and know the limits whether it's NO porn or mutual acceptance of porn =/

EDIT: From a girl's perspective, i believe it's nearly impossible for a man to not watch porn. Ever. Like someone mentioned, it's their own time they should be able to use it to do what they like (other than sleeping with other women and like ACTUAL "cheating" acts of course). It's like masterbating. Is that a crime?

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Old 05-08-2009, 07:30 AM   #30
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Old 05-08-2009, 03:37 PM   #31
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I agree with getting her interested in watching it. I enjoy watching porn with my guy.
Honestly if he can find some really soft porn and plan a nite to have a nice dinner with her (he makes it) then watch the porn together, she may see it for what it is.
I have never understood women who think there man is going or should stop looking at the other sex after marriage. Do they pop the guys eyes out at the altar? Women still look at men that aren't their husbands. It seems preposterous that things would change that much.
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I used to have a gf like that. Not about porn but she would always give ultimatums in the relationship.

This is a lesson to learn for people dating before they get married. If the girl is someone who does the "You said xxxx" or "If you do that then I am leaving" type of girl, it only gets worse in marriage. Get out of it or help your buddy realize what is going on.
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Old 05-10-2009, 07:25 PM   #33
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afaic... it's just because your buddy isn't getting enough/what he wants

they both need to work together to rule this out. that's a pretty immature discussion/fight for a married couple to be having.
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Old 06-04-2009, 03:51 PM   #34
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your buddy's wife is just plain selfish.
would she rather him screw real women or just jerk off to some porn? not like he's subjecting her to watch it with him! what a cow!
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Old 06-09-2009, 12:27 AM   #35
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+1 to everything in this thread.

oh and fail on her for not bringing this up before marriage.
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Old 06-19-2009, 11:00 AM   #36
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Oh yikes. You'd think they would've established this BEFORE marriage!

Either she opens her mind, he quits, or they divorce. There really aren't any other options.
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OK... how hard is it to cover your trails? got some advice for him... Google Chrome (cntrl+shift+N) => incognito mode ftw!

and for goodness sakes, keep it off the hard drive~!

plus, sometimes a guy just needs to JO~... that bitch is mean for making him do it on imagination...
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Old 07-18-2009, 01:29 AM   #38
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so easy to avoid, download newest firefox, turn on private browsing, then go to sites like pornhub.com . never need to have any porn video on hd. and when your done, turn of private browsing.
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Thats odd. You think he would have found out that there was a problem before they got married. She seems really insecure. Is she ugly?overweight? I here from a lot of married guys that their sex dramatically drops. i knew a guy who used to rock his gf all the time. everyone tried telling him that sex fades when your married. he called bs and sure enough, his friends were right. now he admits it and passes the word down.

Maybe hes just not that "intimate" with his wife and because of that he has to find alternatives. Its odd cause my girlfriends cool with it, i can do what i want when i want. its just in a guys nature. I don't know, i might just have the best girlfriend in the world but a majority of my friends gfs don't seem to care as much as your friends wife.

I think its the fact that hes keeping a secret is what drives her up the wall. honestly id be pissed too (unless i walked in on my gf watching girl on girl) OMG!. i'm guessing its a lack of sex life. and when she actually wants it, hes watching porn. i don't know. if not... that guys wife is a stone cold bitch. nuff said
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Pic's or didnt happen LOL
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I here from a lot of married guys that their sex dramatically drops. i knew a guy who used to rock his gf all the time. everyone tried telling him that sex fades when your married. he called bs and sure enough, his friends were right. now he admits it and passes the word down.
I can confirm that this is true, no question about it. Myself and every friend I have that is married can vouch. There might be the odd couple where it doesn't make a difference but for the vast majority it declines.
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I wonder why it is that sex declines after you're married. IS there a reason? Or is it just one of the partners no longer has interest since they caught what they want?
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