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Old 07-15-2009, 08:45 PM   #1
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[Confidential] Weird tactics girls use on guys

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Just wanted to share some experiences and get a discussion going on weird tactics you have seen girls use to either get attention from guys, or to get a guy to like her.

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1. 2 girls with no affiliation with each other, and the events happening 2 years apart from each other, both have told me their EX bf's first name is the same as mine, down to the spelling (i have one of those names where it all sounds the same, but have more than 3 ways to spell it). These girls still want to be with me till this day, although i pretend like i dont know it.

2. Fake sob stories in front of you - I've met another girl who recently ended her relationship. One night, while we were drivng, she told me she was going to "return a missed call from her ex bf". She talked on the phone about stuff like "you never cared about me" and all that junk, and ended the conversation crying hard. The only part i found funny was that i clearly saw she did NOT dial in the full 10 digits for a phone number, and during the whole "convo", there was absolutely no sound coming from the other end of the phone.

3. Fake breakups - I met this girl in person, but we usually talk on msn. I could tell she liked me after hanging out a few times (no friednzone bs here, i can tell the difference) One day i asked who was the guy with her in her profile pic that she just changed into, she said it was her bf. Soon after, she starts telling me about her problems in her current relationship, up to a point where one day she told me she finally broke up with her bf. The next few times i saw her, she was being all sad, most likely fishing for a response from me, but like usual, i acted like i didnt know what's up/dont care. Oh yeah, the weird part of this story? I later found out from facebook that her "bf" in her msn profile pic a while back was actually her brother.

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Just me speaking, not the OP.


These girls seem like stupid tarts and aren't worth your time. These drama hags love attention and are probably going to be more trouble than they're worth
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Old 07-15-2009, 09:07 PM   #3
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Oh I have one. Girls telling me about the guys that hit on them. "This guy" or "that guy" won't leave them alone.

I had one girl who actually doctored a whole email she forwarded to me about a guy telling her she's pretty and that he wanted her to do some private modelling.

I LOLLED.
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Old 07-15-2009, 09:18 PM   #4
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........I dont know any early-mid 20 year olds with lives who do this...
They are all fishing for your attention or trying to show they are interested.
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Old 07-15-2009, 09:57 PM   #5
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LOL...

so many weird girls out there... I always get calls from them in the middle of the night and
say they want someone to talk to. When I ask them "wtf you want me to do?", they say will
be at my place within few minutes. Apparently, they are right outside my place already.

alright, bitch, you are here, what do you want to talk about...then they tell fucking boring
stories like "I found my bf's ex picture", "he didn't answer my call", "my mom called me a
stupid bitch"...of course, when they get tired and see no response from me, they will either
sleep in my bed or want to cry on my shoulder.

of course some ended up being sexual, but mostly I felt asleep before she quitted bitching
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Old 07-15-2009, 10:03 PM   #6
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^ Is that more of a honger (or non CBC) sort of thing?
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Where are you finding these girls? Maybe I knew a few people like this in Junior High but they eventually grew out of that shit
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i'm not one of their female friends. i don't let them bitch to me
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girls who pull that kinda shit ultimately does not have the confidence and knowledge on how to pursue someone. they think by pulling some sad story or something about other guys will get the current guy to notice them. not all girls will do that if they have a brain.


but fyi, i wouldn't be surprised if girls have dated people with the same name as you or are close to it. my boyfriend's name is basically the same name (first and last) as someone i dated in highschool except the last name is off by one letter (chan==>chao) there are so many people in this city there's bound to be repeats. do you know how many amanda lee's or stephen lee's i know? at least 3 each. and besides, just because they are still with you despite having the same name as an ex, what big factor does it really play?? it's just a name
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Good thing mine is different and no one seems to have it.
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shitty deal for any guys that have to deal with that
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ahaha Asian_XL.... ive had that happen its quite retarded...
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Omg #2 is psycho!!!! Did you call her out on it?

and LOL at #3. Wow. That's kind of gross... pretending your brother is your boyfriend just to get the attention of someone else.
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There was a girl I knew back in high school that made up fake names with every guy she dated and lied about her age and ethnicity. Pretty stupid. But it was funny when the BFs found out.
There was this other girl webcaming her pretend to cut herself to this guy for attention too.
Then there's one that pretended to run away to test some guy if he would look for her.

Note: There's guys that do this crap too. =D
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^ are her initials CH? Caroline? LOL
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so why do girls keep on telling other people stories of how they're getting hit on..? i have no interest in hearing it at all because i simply don't understand the fascination.
I realized my bff does that a LOT. She is pretty, but I think lots of guys just hit on people.. for fun.. right?
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Haha, they want to share that they're getting attention to make themselves feel good. I think gyus in general just hit on girls a lot though so it's not really a big deal, right? =3
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LOL...

so many weird girls out there... I always get calls from them in the middle of the night and
say they want someone to talk to. When I ask them "wtf you want me to do?", they say will
be at my place within few minutes. Apparently, they are right outside my place already.

alright, bitch, you are here, what do you want to talk about...then they tell fucking boring
stories like "I found my bf's ex picture", "he didn't answer my call", "my mom called me a
stupid bitch"...of course, when they get tired and see no response from me, they will either
sleep in my bed or want to cry on my shoulder.

of course some ended up being sexual, but mostly I felt asleep before she quitted bitching
what a nice guy dude.
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i did that talking to crying female friends thing a few times but i'm extremely blunt so they stopped, some still ask me for some dr phil consolation

number 3 annoyed the hell out of me back in highschool, this girl i was trying to hook up with, her friends saying she had a thing for me but almost all our conversations would lead to her fake answerings on a nonexistent phone calls
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wow u guys meet some retarded bitches
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Hahahaha. Kind of a newb question if you just found out that there are some nutcases out there?

BTW, the nuttiness goes both genders.

Didn't HollyZ something something (SoulCrusher) have a guy vying for her attention by suprise shining her car tires. Like who the fuck taught that guy that a way to woman's heart is by shining her tires?
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lol...this reminds me of majority of the girls ive gone out with...
don't waste your time...they'll cause more stress, and waste your time more than anything else.
-ALOT of girls speak as if the whole world is hitting on them...probably either to make themselves feel important, or to gauge your interest/jealousy.
-and alot of girls fabricate stories/facebook profiles with fake bf pics for the same reason

the less attachment you let them make too you, the better off you'll be (or else you'll be getting non stop calls....other annoying time wasters etc....)
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oh...and these same girls seem to love to create conflicts from nowhere and have public arguments etc....esp in front of their friends...just to put a little drama in their lives.
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