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Old 07-19-2010, 06:32 PM   #1
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[Confidential] Lasting longer in bed (Serious discussion)

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I've been with my current girlfriend for 2 years, she was my first and I was her first for sex. Prior to the past 6months I've been using a condom with no problem lasting long, but for the past 6months my girlfriend went on the pill so we were having sex without a condom.

Here's the problem: I can't last long at all now. At first I thought was because I'm not used to having no condom... But it has been 6 months and I feel bad she can't enjoy sex at all. We don't have sex often (probably 1 - 3 times a week). I've tried jacking off prior to sex and still no luck.

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Slow it down and learn to stop and do other things before hitting your peak.
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Old 07-19-2010, 06:55 PM   #3
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what is "long" to you anyways?
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Think about baseball. Turning the lights off might help too, as you cut off the visual stimulation.
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Old 07-19-2010, 07:08 PM   #5
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You can actually get a cream that nums the sensation so it helps you last longer, as well try with fore play maybe put it in for a bit then go down on her etc as well its mind frame try thinking about something else maybe rather then how good it feels.
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Old 07-19-2010, 07:22 PM   #6
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it all depends on how you guys are doing it.

try different postions.

different positions will stimulate different areas.

for example, missionary will stimulate the man more where as "doggy style" will stimulate the female more.

explore and experiment on different positions that stimulate your SO more. This will allow her to enjoy more sensations. There still will be some stimulation for you. but since you climax fast, a little stimulation is more than enough.
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Old 07-19-2010, 07:37 PM   #7
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when ur about to bust, stop staring at her ass or tits, switch her doggy style, and close ur eyes and think un-sexy thoughts. Stare at the curtains and think about canucks hockey, think about public urinals, or think of eating a quarter pounder with cheese, she wont know since ur behind her.

Its all about controling ur mind. Let me know if this works for you, I gurantee it!
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Old 07-19-2010, 07:53 PM   #8
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do you work oout? if so, try to do a few core/lower core exercises and cardio. It helped me a lot.
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and when you get good enough, you can feel like busting for 1-2 hours and keep thrusting in and grabbin her ass and tits.

for starters. thik about your mom, cutting your finger through a slicer, name all your favourite foods, count how many hair is on her back, name all the things u want to mod on your car, make a plan of tomorrow's schedule, etc. u get the idea.
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wear a condom again? how difficult is that?
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^well that's when you're wrong, maybe the girl likes it without a condom? sex without condoms feels better for girls as well
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Here's the problem: I can't last long at all now. At first I thought was because I'm not used to having no condom... But it has been 6 months and I feel bad she can't enjoy sex at all. We don't have sex often (probably 1 - 3 times a week). I've tried jacking off prior to sex and still no luck.

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Ignore the replies about thinking of un-sexy thoughts. You do want to keep it up.

Maybe you need to have sex more often - like every other day, or several times a day. Also, just try thrusting her in little spurts and back off when you feel like you're going to have the big O.
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as asian as it sounds, what works best is do math lol.

try and calculate like 14 x 19 in your head etc
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try less foreplay,

and what position(s) do you usually find most stimulating?
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when ur about to bust, stop staring at her ass or tits, switch her doggy style, and close ur eyes and think un-sexy thoughts. Stare at the curtains and think about canucks hockey, think about public urinals, or think of eating a quarter pounder with cheese, she wont know since ur behind her.

Its all about controling ur mind. Let me know if this works for you, I gurantee it!
man sex is suppose to be relaxing, casual ish..

banging while forcing urself to think the most random shit sounds pretty painful...

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Go all the way in and only move slightly back and forth! You dont feel much but she does and then when shes done you finish off. Only works if she likes it deep. LOL
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I found that the better shape I was in, the longer I last. Not sure if it's just pure coincidence or not, but the two seem to go hand in hand with me. Most people I know seem to get out of shape when they're in a relationship, so maybe you are too? Good luck. Let us know what works, I think everyone would like an extra few minutes here and there.
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Old 07-20-2010, 01:18 AM   #19
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get her off first with foreplay.
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dont think about nasty things.. what if you lost your wood? haha...

you gotta mix in some intercourse with foreplay... and dont do the same routine.. same style... try and experiment...
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This is not a joke but you could always try extenze capsules.
I always see it advertised on infomercials. Or viagra same idea.
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We don't have sex often (probably 1 - 3 times a week).
This is your problem right here; and I bet you this is because you guys are just young and don't have a place of your own.

However trust me that when you finally have that frequency in having sex, your length-time will no longer be an issue. In fact, with frequency, sometimes just getting it up is an issue
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try taking testosterone pills, jack off more, do it when you first wake up when your body is still numb and half asleep, do it when you drunk, when you high...thats all i can think of
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