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Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
My successes has always been just to go for it. Push aside all the doubts and what if's, and just do it. Ask her. If they are even a bit interested, they'll bite. Hesitation puts you in the friendzone.
I went up to a cute chick and asked her if she'd let me take a photo of her for $30 she slapped me, she said to me that "I AIN'T A WHORE!"
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Originally Posted by Neva
wtf man? what the hell kind of women do you go for? spca is for animals not dates...
what are ways of finding out whether someone has a bf in the work setting? it just sucks to ask a girl to hang out sometime, but being afraid that they might spread it around to other coworkers.
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Originally Posted by MindBomber
Asking a girl out isn't hard.
Trying to figure out if a girl has a bf before you ask her out is the part I hate, and often why I never ask.
in my experience... 90% of the time a girl will say she has a bf for two reasons
1) Ward off the weak ones that'll just give up at the drop of a hat (no confidence)
2) She doesn't know you... or you came off as creepy.
or
you run into that 10% who does have a bf... in that case as long as you weren't 1 or 2, you can recover and still be cool with each other.
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Originally Posted by TG
what are ways of finding out whether someone has a bf in the work setting? it just sucks to ask a girl to hang out sometime, but being afraid that they might spread it around to other coworkers.
Dating coworkers doesn't work in general... if it goes sour things at work can go really bad... rumours and cliques start to happen and you'll both be unhappy.
I pissed off a girl by teasing her and she thought I said something way worse. I got pissed off at her for not believing me that I said something else, and I spilled the truth about everything and why I liked her. Had to eat something that I hate to eat to prove to her everything I said was real. Took off from there.
Sometimes the corniest shit works and you don't even have to tell her you like her. If you have to force yourself to tell her you like her, she'll sense your lack of confidence and pass you up.
Girls don't like it when a guy beats around the bush before the relationship. Beat around her bush after you get together with her.
I pissed off a girl by teasing her and she thought I said something way worse. I got pissed off at her for not believing me that I said something else, and I spilled the truth about everything and why I liked her. Had to eat something that I hate to eat to prove to her everything I said was real. Took off from there.
Sometimes the corniest shit works and you don't even have to tell her you like her. If you have to force yourself to tell her you like her, she'll sense your lack of confidence and pass you up.
Girls don't like it when a guy beats around the bush before the relationship. Beat around her bush after you get together with her.
I don't know man, i absolutely hate bubble tea and my girlfriend tries to get me to drink that shit. i say "no" all the time, i rather have a beer, water whatever. i'm not going to drop something i hate just because i have to prove it to her, i hate it why would she want me to drink something I HATE? to prove something... that i'm a pushover? what is she a masochist? not to be arrogant, i have tried it and i didn't like it.
i know when to be flexible in situations, and that's not one of them. i'm sure she'll move on whether i drink it or not.
but opening up to her because she misheard something and got mad? did you call her fat or say she should cut down on the food? because really how bad could it be that you had to open up to her about everything "real". looks like you work well under pressure.
you don't have to tell a girl you like her. if she's going out with you on dates, and your opening doors she's going to realize. action speaks louder than words. woman aren't stupid with this shit, a self-reliant woman can live on your actions alone, but a woman with low self-esteem cannot. at the end of the night seal the deal with a kiss. if she doesn't kiss you, flush the name and number. however if you're making out with her by the next couple dates, then why bother asking her to be your girlfriend? if you're getting something good don't change it. why talk about a relationship? just keep your mouth shut about the heavy stuff and keep taking her out and making her laugh. let the woman do the chasing.
that shows more than enough confidence and self-control. the only reason men rush is because she got in your head before you got to hers.
there's a reason girls swoon after the "strong silent type" leaves them guessing.
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After the how old are you thread it no longer surprises me what some of the responses are here.
Asking a girl out is easy and doesn't need to be a nerve wracking experience. It's a simple non offensive proposition and always more effective when kept that way.
Ask her out for tea, coffee or something simple and quick if her response is I have a BF respond with confidence "its only a quick coffee" if she was lying you'll end up with a quick coffee date. If ya don't drink coffee or tea then soda or a bottle of water will do.
A coffee date is an easy conversational to see if you're wasting your time if you hit it off coffee turns into more engaging activities more quality time together and maybe some good ole screwin.
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