REVscene - Vancouver Automotive Forum


Welcome to the REVscene Automotive Forum forums.

Registration is Free!You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! The banners on the left side and below do not show for registered users!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact contact us.

Go Back   REVscene Automotive Forum > Vancouver LifeStyles (VLS) > Relationship & Gender Discussion

Relationship & Gender Discussion THIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE!
The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 11-05-2010, 01:00 AM   #26
Better safe than Surrey
 
OTG-ZR2's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Main St.
Posts: 1,503
Thanked 911 Times in 235 Posts
text her can i tap it?

OTG-ZR2 is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 11-05-2010, 03:29 PM   #27
Zombie Mod
 
Presto's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Langley
Posts: 9,263
Thanked 4,394 Times in 1,275 Posts
My successes has always been just to go for it. Push aside all the doubts and what if's, and just do it. Ask her. If they are even a bit interested, they'll bite. Hesitation puts you in the friendzone.
__________________
Romans 10:9
Presto is online now   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 11-05-2010, 08:18 PM   #28
Even when im right, revscene.net is still right!
 
PavelGTR's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: .
Posts: 1,309
Thanked 334 Times in 115 Posts
PavelGTR is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 11-05-2010, 09:11 PM   #29
Wanna have a threesome?
 
MindBomber's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Squamish
Posts: 4,886
Thanked 5,052 Times in 1,656 Posts
Asking a girl out isn't hard.

Trying to figure out if a girl has a bf before you ask her out is the part I hate, and often why I never ask.
MindBomber is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2010, 09:48 PM   #30
I don't get it
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: vancouver
Posts: 418
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by MindBomber View Post
Asking a girl out isn't hard.

Trying to figure out if a girl has a bf before you ask her out is the part I hate, and often why I never ask.
if they tell you they have a bf, just say "I didn't think a pretty girl like you would be single anyway, it was worth the shot"
__________________
08 Infiniti G35S sedan - Garage Queen
96 Honda Civic - daily driver
97 Acura 1.6EL - Total Loss
98 Honda Civic EX w/ B16 - Sold
96 Honda Civic Sedan - Sold
98 VW Jetta GLX VR6 - Sold
02 Subaru Impreza WRX - Sold
99 VW Jetta Wolfsburg Ed. - Sold
99 Mitsubishi Eclipse GST - Sold

RS buy&sell rating: http://www.revscene.net/forums/showt...23#post6189423
Jessie_GST is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2010, 09:53 PM   #31
Rs has made me the man i am today!
 
ae101's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: space
Posts: 3,239
Thanked 1,443 Times in 567 Posts
heres what not to do when u ask a her out
cuz u might get up getting a fat dude at your door lol
__________________
http://i55.tinypic.com/jujz2q.gif

Quote:
Originally Posted by hk20000 View Post
I went up to a cute chick and asked her if she'd let me take a photo of her for $30 she slapped me, she said to me that "I AIN'T A WHORE!"

But other than that I have seen every car on display in DTP just by cruising about in Richmond, thank you very much for collecting them together and get someone to sing a cover for "fuck you".

OH FUCK YOU OH OH OOOOH~
Quote:
Originally Posted by Neva View Post
wtf man? what the hell kind of women do you go for? spca is for animals not dates...
ae101 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2010, 11:39 PM   #32
F**K YOUR HEAD
 
ilvtofu's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: vancouver
Posts: 8,693
Thanked 7,968 Times in 1,234 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Livre View Post


a wise man once taught me, the easiest way to a woman's heart is with a knife through her chest cavity
__________________
Miata
Fiesta
Feedback

FOR SALE
Miata Shock Tower Brace
ilvtofu is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2010, 11:55 PM   #33
No Duplicate Accounts Allowed
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: vancouver
Posts: 24
Thanked 3 Times in 1 Post
Buy her the LV and the Gucci purses. Then ask her if she is DTF
Paper is offline   Reply With Quote
This post FAILED by:
Old 11-06-2010, 05:50 PM   #34
Revscene.net has a homepage?!
 
yameen's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: Vancity
Posts: 1,294
Thanked 129 Times in 48 Posts
what are ways of finding out whether someone has a bf in the work setting? it just sucks to ask a girl to hang out sometime, but being afraid that they might spread it around to other coworkers.
yameen is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-06-2010, 07:49 PM   #35
Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 818
Thanked 709 Times in 216 Posts
"how about dinner friday night? should i have my assistant speak with your boyfriend first?"
__________________
I speak the truth, and nothin' but. If I am wrong, well then there is no right.

Rule 1: You do not talk about Fight Club. Rule 2: You do not talk about Fight Club.
v.Rossi is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2010, 03:34 AM   #36
My dinner reheated before my turbo spooled
 
Kamui712's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: vancouver
Posts: 1,762
Thanked 674 Times in 150 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by MindBomber View Post
Asking a girl out isn't hard.

Trying to figure out if a girl has a bf before you ask her out is the part I hate, and often why I never ask.
in my experience... 90% of the time a girl will say she has a bf for two reasons

1) Ward off the weak ones that'll just give up at the drop of a hat (no confidence)
2) She doesn't know you... or you came off as creepy.

or

you run into that 10% who does have a bf... in that case as long as you weren't 1 or 2, you can recover and still be cool with each other.

Quote:
Originally Posted by TG View Post
what are ways of finding out whether someone has a bf in the work setting? it just sucks to ask a girl to hang out sometime, but being afraid that they might spread it around to other coworkers.
Dating coworkers doesn't work in general... if it goes sour things at work can go really bad... rumours and cliques start to happen and you'll both be unhappy.

Last edited by Kamui712; 11-08-2010 at 04:00 AM.
Kamui712 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2010, 07:14 AM   #37
Banned By Establishment
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Infiniti
Posts: 2,470
Thanked 2,121 Times in 669 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Paper View Post
Buy her the LV and the Gucci purses. Then ask her if she is DTF
no wonder your status shows newbie
xilley is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2010, 11:04 AM   #38
MoD
 
k2_alpha's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: a rainy city
Posts: 3,482
Thanked 1,803 Times in 225 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Paper View Post
Buy her the LV and the Gucci purses. Then ask her if she is DTF

you fail miserably in your attempt to be funny.

However, if you do find a slut that does put out for a LV purse, you should watch out.
She got more bacteria than loose change.
__________________
Lets street race, first one to jail wins
k2_alpha is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 11-09-2010, 07:54 PM   #39
Rs has made me the woman i am today!
 
TRD Rs200's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 4,063
Thanked 633 Times in 141 Posts
stop being a pussy and just straight up hold her hand
TRD Rs200 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2010, 09:06 PM   #40
I STILL don't get it
 
PuYang's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Burnaby
Posts: 488
Thanked 132 Times in 70 Posts
__________________
2012 Volkswagen Golf GTI / 2012-Present
1999 Honda Prelude / 2010-2012
PuYang is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-11-2010, 12:30 PM   #41
Banned (ABWS)
 
MrGoodbar's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: vancouver
Posts: 1,268
Thanked 425 Times in 146 Posts
I pissed off a girl by teasing her and she thought I said something way worse. I got pissed off at her for not believing me that I said something else, and I spilled the truth about everything and why I liked her. Had to eat something that I hate to eat to prove to her everything I said was real. Took off from there.

Sometimes the corniest shit works and you don't even have to tell her you like her. If you have to force yourself to tell her you like her, she'll sense your lack of confidence and pass you up.

Girls don't like it when a guy beats around the bush before the relationship. Beat around her bush after you get together with her.
MrGoodbar is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-11-2010, 06:24 PM   #42
Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 818
Thanked 709 Times in 216 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by MrGoodbar View Post
I pissed off a girl by teasing her and she thought I said something way worse. I got pissed off at her for not believing me that I said something else, and I spilled the truth about everything and why I liked her. Had to eat something that I hate to eat to prove to her everything I said was real. Took off from there.

Sometimes the corniest shit works and you don't even have to tell her you like her. If you have to force yourself to tell her you like her, she'll sense your lack of confidence and pass you up.

Girls don't like it when a guy beats around the bush before the relationship. Beat around her bush after you get together with her.
I don't know man, i absolutely hate bubble tea and my girlfriend tries to get me to drink that shit. i say "no" all the time, i rather have a beer, water whatever. i'm not going to drop something i hate just because i have to prove it to her, i hate it why would she want me to drink something I HATE? to prove something... that i'm a pushover? what is she a masochist? not to be arrogant, i have tried it and i didn't like it.

i know when to be flexible in situations, and that's not one of them. i'm sure she'll move on whether i drink it or not.

but opening up to her because she misheard something and got mad? did you call her fat or say she should cut down on the food? because really how bad could it be that you had to open up to her about everything "real". looks like you work well under pressure.

you don't have to tell a girl you like her. if she's going out with you on dates, and your opening doors she's going to realize. action speaks louder than words. woman aren't stupid with this shit, a self-reliant woman can live on your actions alone, but a woman with low self-esteem cannot. at the end of the night seal the deal with a kiss. if she doesn't kiss you, flush the name and number. however if you're making out with her by the next couple dates, then why bother asking her to be your girlfriend? if you're getting something good don't change it. why talk about a relationship? just keep your mouth shut about the heavy stuff and keep taking her out and making her laugh. let the woman do the chasing.

that shows more than enough confidence and self-control. the only reason men rush is because she got in your head before you got to hers.

there's a reason girls swoon after the "strong silent type" leaves them guessing.
__________________
I speak the truth, and nothin' but. If I am wrong, well then there is no right.

Rule 1: You do not talk about Fight Club. Rule 2: You do not talk about Fight Club.

Last edited by v.Rossi; 11-11-2010 at 09:46 PM. Reason: typo
v.Rossi is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 11-11-2010, 07:06 PM   #43
I wish I was where I was when I wished I was here
 
hchang's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: West Coast
Posts: 4,772
Thanked 2,952 Times in 682 Posts
1. Change voicemail to say "How would you like to be my girlfriend?"

2. Text girl to call you

3. Don't answer and let it go to voicemail.
hchang is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-11-2010, 08:41 PM   #44
I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: richmond
Posts: 2,834
Thanked 1,485 Times in 568 Posts
After the how old are you thread it no longer surprises me what some of the responses are here.
Asking a girl out is easy and doesn't need to be a nerve wracking experience. It's a simple non offensive proposition and always more effective when kept that way.
Ask her out for tea, coffee or something simple and quick if her response is I have a BF respond with confidence "its only a quick coffee" if she was lying you'll end up with a quick coffee date. If ya don't drink coffee or tea then soda or a bottle of water will do.
A coffee date is an easy conversational to see if you're wasting your time if you hit it off coffee turns into more engaging activities more quality time together and maybe some good ole screwin.
__________________
Rise Auto Salon

11938 95a Ave Delta
I can be reached VIA text @ 778-232-1465

Oil change special $70 5 liters synthetic oil including OEM filter Fender rolling from $45 per fender
Car Audio:
Focal, Morel, Genesis, Clarion, Scosche, Escort, Compustar, GReddy, Blitz, Tomei, Motul, Endless, Defi, Cusco, Nismo + More


We specialize in:
Custom Car Audio
Race/4x4 Fabrication
Forced Induction
Engine Swaps
General Maintenance
Phil@rise is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 11-11-2010, 09:06 PM   #45
I wish I was where I was when I wished I was here
 
hchang's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: West Coast
Posts: 4,772
Thanked 2,952 Times in 682 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Phil@rise View Post
After the how old are you thread it no longer surprises me what some of the responses are here.
Shows me that Revscene is full of Jailbait pursuers IMO
hchang is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2010, 11:20 AM   #46
I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: richmond
Posts: 2,834
Thanked 1,485 Times in 568 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by hchang View Post
Shows me that Revscene is full of Jailbait pursuers IMO
no doubt
__________________
Rise Auto Salon

11938 95a Ave Delta
I can be reached VIA text @ 778-232-1465

Oil change special $70 5 liters synthetic oil including OEM filter Fender rolling from $45 per fender
Car Audio:
Focal, Morel, Genesis, Clarion, Scosche, Escort, Compustar, GReddy, Blitz, Tomei, Motul, Endless, Defi, Cusco, Nismo + More


We specialize in:
Custom Car Audio
Race/4x4 Fabrication
Forced Induction
Engine Swaps
General Maintenance
Phil@rise is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 01:46 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
SEO by vBSEO ©2011, Crawlability, Inc.
Revscene.net cannot be held accountable for the actions of its members nor does the opinions of the members represent that of Revscene.net