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gdoh 11-16-2010 06:15 AM

just listen to her and let her vent but make sure u listen incase she asks "are you even listening? ok then what did i say?" lol

take her out for a good time to get her mind off things

vafanculo 11-16-2010 08:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by asian_XL (Post 7188428)
right, and how many times do THEY listen to you when your life shits?

99.99% they just leave you at home and then go clubbing or lady's night or shopping

Then why are you with them?

Always treat your SO with respect
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Girl 11-16-2010 12:47 PM

Go ask my boyfriend. If he can deal with me at my worst, he can handle anything.

His favourite when I get too much to handle is let a huge stinky one out and it knocks me right out from the fumes. Great way to lose a few hours when you're stressed :D

saucywoman 11-16-2010 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Girl (Post 7188807)
Go ask my boyfriend. If he can deal with me at my worst, he can handle anything.

His favourite when I get too much to handle is let a huge stinky one out and it knocks me right out from the fumes. Great way to lose a few hours when you're stressed :D

LMFAO!!!!!! QFT

such a loving relationship between you too

TRD Rs200 11-16-2010 03:40 PM

just listen, spend lots and lots of time with her, always talk to her, let her know that she's safe

raygunpk 11-16-2010 04:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Girl (Post 7188807)
Go ask my boyfriend. If he can deal with me at my worst, he can handle anything.

His favourite when I get too much to handle is let a huge stinky one out and it knocks me right out from the fumes. Great way to lose a few hours when you're stressed :D

he's so dreamy

danlee78 11-21-2010 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by E-40six (Post 7188060)
Just be there when they need you, dont chime in on how to fix problems and just listen.

my ex was there for me when my parents split during my career change and losing my house. She was there for support all the way and didnt tell me what to do.
That was able to get me thru it all.

i second this, my ex was with me whenever i had problems at home.. even bad days at work, and even when i took it out on her sometimes she would always try to cheer me up...but i didn't take initiative, hence the "ex" :(

palepilsenpin0y 11-21-2010 04:16 PM

Make her a sandwich :)

will068 11-21-2010 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Graeme S (Post 7186289)
Nine and a half times out of ten girls don't want advice, they just want you to listen.
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/thread.

A female friend of mine gave me this advice a while back. Us men want to troubleshoot the problem. The girls just want us to listen ( at least make appear you're sincere at listening ) and just say:

"Baby, everything will be alright, I'll be here for you"

and if you add

" You know I'm here for you no matter what life throws at us, it's just me and you against the world "

Nine and a half times out of ten, you get a nice blowjob. It's nice to get head from a girl feeling down. Some how, there's extra effort in it. :D

BWAHHH 11-30-2010 09:44 PM

Best thing to do as others have mentioned is listen, if she asks for advice then proceed to give some (the troubleshooting part), otherwise just listening usually does the job for me. I've tried giving advice before she finished ranting, and it only resulted in "are you even listening?" and "you don't even understand". Just listen

CanadaGoose 12-05-2010 01:11 AM

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Originally Posted by will068 (Post 7196826)
/thread.

A female friend of mine gave me this advice a while back. Us men want to troubleshoot the problem. The girls just want us to listen ( at least make appear you're sincere at listening ) and just say:

"Baby, everything will be alright, I'll be here for you"

and if you add

" You know I'm here for you no matter what life throws at us, it's just me and you against the world "

Nine and a half times out of ten, you get a nice blowjob. It's nice to get head from a girl feeling down. Some how, there's extra effort in it. :D

QFT, haiii fiiiive


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