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When life shits on your SO How do you find ways to comfort them? How do you come up with advice with a situation you don't fully understand ( workplace , family drama, friend drama, BLAH BLAH BLAH ) |
Honestly, I just listen, knod my head, tell her everything will be okay and hug her, I don't think she looks for advice from me, she just wants a hug and to know it will all be alright. |
just be their for her..hold her when shes crying, give her your shoulder for her to lean on...theres really nothing much really that you can do..because you can never entirely understand her situation life's shitting on me at the moment too, and i just learn to deal/cope with it...nothing really that anyone else can do |
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take them away from their usual setting and talk it out, then hug it out bitch |
Nine and a half times out of ten girls don't want advice, they just want you to listen. Posted via RS Mobile |
Just knowing you're there for the person helps a lot, regardless if you say anything or not Posted via RS Mobile |
do something fun to take their mind off of the problem. |
What if their problem is you? Posted via RS Mobile |
^Then that's a whole nother issue. I always just listen and if it's something I've been through I'll try and tell her everything's going to be alright. |
^ then u tell her what YOU will do. be objective and logical. |
Clean it up for her? |
take her on a date and get her mind off things. end the day with sex. |
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go to Holt Renfew and buy her a bag to shut her up. |
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best advice is not to do anything.. just listen.... |
True. When I'm down about something, I find that I'll just go to my bf's and just say nothing cause it's nice to have someone there for you, even if he doesn't say anything. A reassuring hug is often enough. |
best advice is bring her shoe shopping. women love that shit. a pair of louboutin's and she will be on your pecker at night |
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stick it in her bum |
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^^^^^^ somebody fail tiger_handheld please. |
Just be there when they need you, dont chime in on how to fix problems and just listen. my ex was there for me when my parents split during my career change and losing my house. She was there for support all the way and didnt tell me what to do. That was able to get me thru it all. |
right, and how many times do THEY listen to you when your life shits? 99.99% they just leave you at home and then go clubbing or lady's night or shopping |
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