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J-force 11-14-2010 02:34 PM

When life shits on your SO
 
How do you find ways to comfort them? How do you come up with advice with a situation you don't fully understand ( workplace , family drama, friend drama, BLAH BLAH BLAH )

aradi 11-14-2010 02:38 PM

Honestly, I just listen, knod my head, tell her everything will be okay and hug her, I don't think she looks for advice from me, she just wants a hug and to know it will all be alright.

FI-Z33 11-14-2010 02:39 PM

just be their for her..hold her when shes crying, give her your shoulder for her to lean on...theres really nothing much really that you can do..because you can never entirely understand her situation

life's shitting on me at the moment too, and i just learn to deal/cope with it...nothing really that anyone else can do

saucywoman 11-14-2010 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by FI-SP23 (Post 7186091)
just be their for her..hold her when shes crying, give her your shoulder for her to lean on...theres really nothing much really that you can do..because you can never entirely understand her situation

life's shitting on me at the moment too, and i just learn to deal/cope with it...nothing really that anyone else can do

qft
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liu13 11-14-2010 03:27 PM

take them away from their usual setting and talk it out, then hug it out bitch

Graeme S 11-14-2010 04:24 PM

Nine and a half times out of ten girls don't want advice, they just want you to listen.
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saucywoman 11-14-2010 04:54 PM

Just knowing you're there for the person helps a lot, regardless if you say anything or not
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yameen 11-14-2010 05:53 PM

do something fun to take their mind off of the problem.

jing 11-14-2010 05:56 PM

What if their problem is you?
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ForbiddenX 11-14-2010 06:25 PM

^Then that's a whole nother issue.

I always just listen and if it's something I've been through I'll try and tell her everything's going to be alright.

tiger_handheld 11-14-2010 07:10 PM

^ then u tell her what YOU will do. be objective and logical.

TOS'd 11-14-2010 07:12 PM

Clean it up for her?

xmisstrinh 11-14-2010 07:33 PM

take her on a date and get her mind off things. end the day with sex.

ScizzMoney 11-14-2010 09:18 PM


asian_XL 11-15-2010 09:38 AM

go to Holt Renfew and buy her a bag to shut her up.

TOS'd 11-15-2010 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by asian_XL (Post 7187101)
go to Holt Renfew and buy her a bag to shut her up.

I need to buy a Prada bag soon, need to shut someone up.

hamsup 11-15-2010 10:07 AM

best advice is not to do anything.. just listen....

November 11-15-2010 10:08 AM

True. When I'm down about something, I find that I'll just go to my bf's and just say nothing cause it's nice to have someone there for you, even if he doesn't say anything. A reassuring hug is often enough.

BlackZRoadster 11-15-2010 10:21 AM

best advice is bring her shoe shopping. women love that shit. a pair of louboutin's and she will be on your pecker at night

eclipseman 11-15-2010 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Graeme S (Post 7186289)
Nine and a half times out of ten girls don't want advice, they just want you to listen.
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I'd say it's more like 99.9999999% :D

BlacknJean 11-15-2010 04:45 PM

stick it in her bum

tiger_handheld 11-15-2010 08:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xmisstrinh (Post 7186548)
take her on a date and get her mind off things. end the day with sex.

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlacknJean (Post 7187598)
stick it in her bum

take her on a date and get her mind off things. end the by sticking it in her bum

/fixed.

xmisstrinh 11-15-2010 08:50 PM

^^^^^^ somebody fail tiger_handheld please.

E-40six 11-15-2010 09:18 PM

Just be there when they need you, dont chime in on how to fix problems and just listen.

my ex was there for me when my parents split during my career change and losing my house. She was there for support all the way and didnt tell me what to do.
That was able to get me thru it all.

asian_XL 11-16-2010 05:20 AM

right, and how many times do THEY listen to you when your life shits?

99.99% they just leave you at home and then go clubbing or lady's night or shopping


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