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11-14-2010, 02:34 PM
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How do you find ways to comfort them? How do you come up with advice with a situation you don't fully understand ( workplace , family drama, friend drama, BLAH BLAH BLAH )
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11-14-2010, 02:38 PM
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#2 | | Banned (ABWS)
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Honestly, I just listen, knod my head, tell her everything will be okay and hug her, I don't think she looks for advice from me, she just wants a hug and to know it will all be alright.
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11-14-2010, 02:39 PM
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#3 | | Female Driven
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just be their for her..hold her when shes crying, give her your shoulder for her to lean on...theres really nothing much really that you can do..because you can never entirely understand her situation
life's shitting on me at the moment too, and i just learn to deal/cope with it...nothing really that anyone else can do
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11-14-2010, 02:59 PM
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#4 | | VLS Head Mod
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Originally Posted by FI-SP23  just be their for her..hold her when shes crying, give her your shoulder for her to lean on...theres really nothing much really that you can do..because you can never entirely understand her situation
life's shitting on me at the moment too, and i just learn to deal/cope with it...nothing really that anyone else can do | qft Posted via RS Mobile | |
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11-14-2010, 03:27 PM
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take them away from their usual setting and talk it out, then hug it out bitch
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11-14-2010, 04:24 PM
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#6 | | The Lone Wanderator
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Nine and a half times out of ten girls don't want advice, they just want you to listen. Posted via RS Mobile | |
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11-14-2010, 04:54 PM
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#7 | | VLS Head Mod
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Just knowing you're there for the person helps a lot, regardless if you say anything or not Posted via RS Mobile | |
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11-14-2010, 05:53 PM
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do something fun to take their mind off of the problem.
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11-14-2010, 05:56 PM
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#9 | | It's like going crazy when you're already nuts
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What if their problem is you? Posted via RS Mobile | |
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11-14-2010, 06:25 PM
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#10 | | RS has made me the bitter person i am today!
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^Then that's a whole nother issue.
I always just listen and if it's something I've been through I'll try and tell her everything's going to be alright.
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11-14-2010, 07:10 PM
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#11 | | MiX iT Up!
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^ then u tell her what YOU will do. be objective and logical.
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
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11-14-2010, 07:12 PM
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#12 | | :inoutugh:
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Clean it up for her?
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11-14-2010, 07:33 PM
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#13 | | RS controls my life!
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take her on a date and get her mind off things. end the day with sex.
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11-14-2010, 09:18 PM
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11-15-2010, 09:38 AM
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#15 | | I WANT MY 10 YEARS BACK FROM RS.net!
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go to Holt Renfew and buy her a bag to shut her up.
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11-15-2010, 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted by asian_XL go to Holt Renfew and buy her a bag to shut her up. | I need to buy a Prada bag soon, need to shut someone up.
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11-15-2010, 10:07 AM
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#17 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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best advice is not to do anything.. just listen....
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11-15-2010, 10:08 AM
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True. When I'm down about something, I find that I'll just go to my bf's and just say nothing cause it's nice to have someone there for you, even if he doesn't say anything. A reassuring hug is often enough.
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11-15-2010, 10:21 AM
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#19 | | Hyde's Understudy
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best advice is bring her shoe shopping. women love that shit. a pair of louboutin's and she will be on your pecker at night
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11-15-2010, 12:00 PM
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#20 | | I don't get it
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Originally Posted by Graeme S Nine and a half times out of ten girls don't want advice, they just want you to listen. Posted via RS Mobile | I'd say it's more like 99.9999999%  | |
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11-15-2010, 04:45 PM
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#21 | | Banned (ABWS)
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stick it in her bum
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11-15-2010, 08:07 PM
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#22 | | MiX iT Up!
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Originally Posted by xmisstrinh take her on a date and get her mind off things. end the day with sex. | Quote:
Originally Posted by BlacknJean stick it in her bum | take her on a date and get her mind off things. end the by sticking it in her bum
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
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11-15-2010, 08:50 PM
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#23 | | RS controls my life!
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^^^^^^ somebody fail tiger_handheld please.
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11-15-2010, 09:18 PM
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#24 | | Willing to sell a family member for a few minutes on RS
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Just be there when they need you, dont chime in on how to fix problems and just listen.
my ex was there for me when my parents split during my career change and losing my house. She was there for support all the way and didnt tell me what to do.
That was able to get me thru it all.
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11-16-2010, 05:20 AM
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#25 | | I WANT MY 10 YEARS BACK FROM RS.net!
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right, and how many times do THEY listen to you when your life shits?
99.99% they just leave you at home and then go clubbing or lady's night or shopping
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