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i say, 6 months, 1 year, and every year from then on.
not into the whole every month thing..
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I never found monthly anniversaries a big deal. You see the majority of high school students counting their months like it's a competition between their friends. I personally only celebrate years...it seems a bit foolish having to celebrate every 30 days.
I think your girl will later (hopefully soon) realize that monthly anniversaries are not something to look forward to..it's just another day IMO.
It's been like that with pretty much every chick I've been with. Usually after a year and a half or so, you both start forgetting how many months and whatnot. I mainly can't remember because I never even know what day it is.
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Ironically, now that Ithink of it, it's the 24th already and it's our monthsary. I can never for the life of me remember how many months it is.
I agree, depends on your age and how long have you been in the relationship. When I was younger, in my tweens, we did the monthiverary for like 6 months and that was it. It is now yearly.
I usually do 1st month, 6 months and years there on after
Age does sounds like it plays into it
its not a big deal but if she cares why don't you just go along with it
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valentine, bday, x'mas and annual anniversary is all she gets.. If she starts complaining then you tell her to give you a BJ when her monthly PMS is here because your dick will need a little celebration as well
GF and I are having a little argument over not going out on our 4 month. My mom made dinner and it was a monday night and I didn't really feel like anything. She asked me a couple days before whether I wanted to dinner on monday and I said it was up to her.
Honestly I think forcing yourself to go out on that 1 day a month kind of ruins it for me and maybe even makes it feel obligating. I feel like it's childish, especially when we see each other almost every day or every other day. Maybe it's a girl thing I'm not sure. :/
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If you're still in high school, it can probably be considered a big deal. Otherwise grow the fuck up.
Do girls take you out for anniversaries? Do they pay for the event? Do they get you more expensive gifts than you get for them? Do they plan for it and make arrangement themselves?
In a lot of cases for a lot of people, most answers would be no. So I don't really see the purpose of having to do all the above on a monthly basis other than for a girl to be princessed in a continuous re-occuring cycle.
Me thinks you have a high maintenance gf, because usually, if you guys see each other at least once a week should probably negate the need to have a celebration once every 4 weeks.
wow seriously. How old are you? and male or female??
In my opinion, saying happy 1ST one month is fine and MAYBE just cook dinner at home as a low key celebration if you choose, 6 months maybe celebrate or just cook a nice dinner at home and make sure to celebrate every year after that.
You're going to waste a lot of money if you're celebrating every month when all that really matters is yearly and maybe the first 6 month
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i only celebrate years. i may or may not mention months, but it usually goes along the lines of 'oh hey we survived *insert number here* months together! yay!' and that's it.
There really isn't much of a point to celebrating months. not even 6 months.
We celebrate every month but it's far from 'fancy/glam.' We just like to celebrate our relationship even if it's dinner at home, a sushi lunch, going out for the day etc. Some people might think it's unnecessary or a waste of money but it's not like we're dishing out presents monthly or showering each other with a hefty dinner bill. Just because some people like to do certain things in THEIR relationship doesn't mean how other people handle theirs is wrong, immature or completely stupid.
We're in our mid 20s-ish btw.
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I personally find celebrating months to be more an asian vancouverite thing and/or you're under the age of 25 IMHO.
I don't think I've ever once celebrated monthly anniversaries, there's acknowledgment in the beginning, but not anything extravagant. I personally just find that if you're celebrating each month it's almost like you're surprised to have reached it. My boyfriend and I don't look at months cuz the months go by so damn quickly and we already know we'll be with one another for a long time so it doesn't seem like a huge milestone to reach say 4 months, but that's strictly my opinion on that topic.
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I can never for the life of me remember how many months it is.
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