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01-15-2011, 05:59 PM
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01-15-2011, 10:01 PM
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#27 | | I don't get it
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Originally Posted by Noir  Goes to show what she thinks of the relationship if one needs to take safety-net precautions.
I'm not saying that it's not prudent; I'm just saying where I think she lies within the relationship.  | Is it the same sort of prudence one has if it was a guy wanting the girl to sign nuptials and she feels he doesnt trust her?  | |
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01-15-2011, 10:37 PM
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#28 | | RS controls my life!
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01-15-2011, 11:09 PM
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01-16-2011, 12:11 AM
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Why don't you take nudes of yourself and send it over to her for exchange. Would you do that? (A trade) Maybe start a Skype session mentioned earlier, then again that shit gets boring for the girl. You lose! Might as well fap to some porn.
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01-16-2011, 10:06 AM
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#31 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by skyxx Why don't you take nudes of yourself and send it over to her for exchange. Would you do that? (A trade) Maybe start a Skype session mentioned earlier, then again that shit gets boring for the girl. You lose! Might as well fap to some porn. | I've sent her nudes of myself before and pictures of me in like batman boxers that she got me. She deletes the nudes though just in case someone see's it on her computer? or I've sent her nudes on bbm but she deletes those right away just in case someone goes thru her phone.
when you rely on porn as the only means to get you off, it gets really old really quickly. I'm considering getting a flesh lite or another tenga egg (i've had one before and it's not that great and really messy). The problem with me is I can't fap to pictures. So I was hoping to video tape us one of these days, but that is definitely not going to happen.
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01-17-2011, 05:28 AM
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#32 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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Originally Posted by mx703 I'm in a long distance relationship with my gf.
It sucks balls. I do not suggest doing long distance with anyone if you can avoid it.
I keep buggin her about sending me some pictures of her either naked or in her underwear or what not.
She is against it.
It's hard on my physically so I wouldn't mind being able to look at the pictures as I please when I miss her or whatever. I don't want the pictures to fap to, I just want them to look at (whether you believe that or not).
Any suggestions or input on the matter? | These days giving out naughty pictures is a whole different game then it was 10 or 15 years ago. Even getting naked on a web cam is something that can haunt you later when/if the relationship goes sour ever (which statistically speaking it eventually will). I can't blame anyone any more for not wanting to do this, especially if she has any intention of becoming a teacher, politician or proffessional of any kind. This isn't your fault. Blame the internet. 
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01-17-2011, 01:26 PM
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#33 | | Revscene.net has a homepage?!
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Yeah I agree with those who say that it is reasonable for you to ask, but it is also reasonable for her to decline. Someone up there said it best by likening it to a prenup. You cannot predict what will happen in the future,taking precautions shouldn't condemn you of having second thoughts about the relationship.
She sounds like she is just more uptight than other girls, slowly work at it like someone else said. Does she fap on her own? Learning to masturbate ( and getting her to enjoy it ) will make her more susceptible to "ridiculous ideas" like sending nudes. If you can manage it, maybe you should try getting her to watch you fap? It's a step in the right direction.
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01-17-2011, 05:05 PM
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#34 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by moomooCow Yeah I agree with those who say that it is reasonable for you to ask, but it is also reasonable for her to decline. Someone up there said it best by likening it to a prenup. You cannot predict what will happen in the future,taking precautions shouldn't condemn you of having second thoughts about the relationship.
She sounds like she is just more uptight than other girls, slowly work at it like someone else said. Does she fap on her own? Learning to masturbate ( and getting her to enjoy it ) will make her more susceptible to "ridiculous ideas" like sending nudes. If you can manage it, maybe you should try getting her to watch you fap? It's a step in the right direction. | hmmm. I never thought of it that way. I asked her if she would sign a prenup and she said no. I don't really know if she was joking because it wasn't a serious convo. But, I didn't really think much of it until now. If she won't send me naked pictures of her or let me video tape us having sex then fine. She's gonna sign a prenup. That seems fair right? haha
and no, she doesn't fap. and I honestly believe her too. and i think it would be too awkward to fap in front of her while she watches me, but hey, if she's open to it i guess i wouldn't mind.
Thanks for all the suggestions guys/girls. I guess i'll just keep trucking and maybe one of these days... I'll post the pics here if I ever get them haha, jk.
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01-17-2011, 07:59 PM
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#35 | | Banned (ABWS)
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is your girl christian or nerdy?
kinda weird, it's 2011 you'd think fapping video chat would be universal for long distance couples
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01-17-2011, 08:46 PM
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Mx703... How's the tenga egg? I heard the fleshlight is the best toy Posted via RS Mobile | |
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01-17-2011, 09:26 PM
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#37 | | MiX iT Up!
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i'm really surprised no ones asked OP for the pics of the girl yet. Is RS taking a turn for the better?
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01-18-2011, 12:47 AM
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#38 | | RS controls my life!
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She probably has a second clit or a tail or a bald spot down there..
On a serious note, it's a matter of comfortableness for girls. Some GFs have absolutely no problem giving you a teaser (not a full frontal kitty shot ofcrs but if she does, then....). Some are against it because they simply aren't comfortable being naked let alone having a naked picture taken. I say you ease her into it, and with some luck, you'll get your "provocative" pictures. Otherwise, respect her decision. You would probably be a little iffy if someone had a nudie picture of you (not that anyone will choose to see it let alone get pleasure from seeing it) because it would just be..uncomfortable.
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01-18-2011, 10:23 AM
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#39 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by liu13 is your girl christian or nerdy?
kinda weird, it's 2011 you'd think fapping video chat would be universal for long distance couples | she's not christian and she's not nerdy. She's very school smart actually. She's just a regular cbc asian chick. Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackZRoadster Mx703... How's the tenga egg? I heard the fleshlight is the best toy Posted via RS Mobile | umm, the first time was interesting. It was actually pretty good. It was the closet feeling i've ever gotten to the real thing. Though, i've never tried the fleshlight. After a couple times I stopped using it. Not because it started to suck, but I was too lazy to clean up. It's pretty messy. It's pretty much an egg filled with lube... you can do the math ahah. go on dealextreme, you can pick on up for like $5 shipped. (and if you do get it, DO NOT use the lube that comes with it. I read in some reviews that the lube was nasty and smelled like cheese, so i just tossed it and used the lube I already had) Quote:
Originally Posted by tiger_handheld i'm really surprised no ones asked OP for the pics of the girl yet. Is RS taking a turn for the better? | lol, that's the problem bro, I have no pics...
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01-18-2011, 11:17 AM
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#40 | | Banned (ABWS)?
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Originally Posted by tiger_handheld i'm really surprised no ones asked OP for the pics of the girl yet. Is RS taking a turn for the better? | ^ 
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I dunno, I kind of like it when a girl is willing to refuse to send naked pictures.
Then again, I wouldn't ever get into a long distant relationship either.
Because of problems, such as the one OP has.
(which is not really about the pictures, but being lonely despite having a gf.)
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01-18-2011, 11:22 AM
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#41 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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You're in a L/D relationship and she doesn't fap? Send the girl a vibrator.
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01-18-2011, 01:08 PM
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#42 | | I bringith the lowerballerith
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Hey just curious, and I'm pretty sure this wasn't mentioned before, how far are you two? Like different countries? different provinces? Oh and also did you guys just recently started having this long-distance relationship?
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01-18-2011, 03:13 PM
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#43 | | My name is PJ and I like dogs.
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Really just depends on her. Like someone said previously. It's not unreasonable for you to ask, it's not unreasonable for her to say no. Just skype it up!
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01-18-2011, 04:39 PM
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#44 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by TheNewGirl You're in a L/D relationship and she doesn't fap? Send the girl a vibrator. | i got her one. she doesn't use it though. so, what a waste of money that was. i come back every 3 months at least. so i guess that's good enough? or she's cheating on me. Quote:
Originally Posted by guddagudd Hey just curious, and I'm pretty sure this wasn't mentioned before, how far are you two? Like different countries? different provinces? Oh and also did you guys just recently started having this long-distance relationship? | started last year and i'm all the way in the east and shes all the way in the west
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01-19-2011, 07:35 AM
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#45 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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Originally Posted by mx703 i got her one. she doesn't use it though. so, what a waste of money that was. i come back every 3 months at least. so i guess that's good enough? or she's cheating on me. |
I suggest she's not going to change her mind about the pictures if she can't even do that much.
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01-19-2011, 08:12 AM
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#46 | | I WANT MY 10 YEARS BACK FROM RS.net!
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Originally Posted by rsx mad? mutually assured destruction--send pics of yourself if she's worried | This was my first thought - send her some of you first. Don't insist that she return in kind, just send yours, NSA. If it inspires her to return the favor, great... if not, no great loss.
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01-19-2011, 09:30 AM
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#47 | | WOAH! i think Vtec just kicked in!
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send her a nice alarm clock with a spy camera in it.. everyone wins
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01-20-2011, 11:12 AM
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#48 | | look at these diamonds, they shining
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lol once when i was on vacation we were talking on the phone and ... fone secks
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01-20-2011, 05:08 PM
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#49 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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ask her to send the pictures without her face, at least that way if someone ever finds them you can't say 100% it's hers.
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01-20-2011, 06:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Leopold Stotch ask her to send the pictures without her face, at least that way if someone ever finds them you can't say 100% it's hers. | I was going to suggest this for the great above reason  Posted via RS Mobile | |
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