REVscene - Vancouver Automotive Forum


Welcome to the REVscene Automotive Forum forums.

Registration is Free!You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! The banners on the left side and below do not show for registered users!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact contact us.

Go Back   REVscene Automotive Forum > Vancouver LifeStyles (VLS) > Relationship & Gender Discussion

Relationship & Gender Discussion THIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE!
The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 03-24-2011, 06:58 AM   #1
resident Oil Guru
 
LiquidTurbo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 7,716
Thanked 10,457 Times in 1,794 Posts
How many of you are actually "Forever Alone"?



We all joke about it on RS, etc, but how many of you are ACTUALLY Forever Alone? How many of you actually WANT to be forever alone? (I do know a few people). How many of you are going to be forever alone, and it's not your choice?

Up until a few years ago I actually thought I was going to be , but suddenly I changed my mind. Thoughts?

LiquidTurbo is offline   Reply With Quote
This post FAILED by:
Old 03-24-2011, 07:33 AM   #2
RS has made me the bitter person i am today!
 
Supafly's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: VanCity/HCMC/HK
Posts: 4,760
Thanked 694 Times in 235 Posts
....been single for a year now....i actually enjoy it. Do what the fuck I want; when I want. Girls come and go, just go fishing for younger ones (because they're dumb as shit) when you're bored. haha
__________________
"Just because any car nut can tell you every possible performance specification of a Ferrari doesn't mean he can drive. Most of these people live in places where they've never even seen a Ferrari, much less ever owned one themselves."
Supafly is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-24-2011, 08:08 AM   #3
WOAH! i think Vtec just kicked in!
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: vancouver
Posts: 1,639
Thanked 147 Times in 64 Posts
been single almost 30 years
so? how could i change?
danned is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-24-2011, 08:22 AM   #4
Revscene.net has a homepage?!
 
Glove's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: vancouver
Posts: 1,243
Thanked 1,619 Times in 378 Posts
^ go to the gym
Glove is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-24-2011, 08:24 AM   #5
Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 818
Thanked 709 Times in 216 Posts
being single is only fun when you have fuck buddies, other then that you're always going home to your right hand or spending money in lounges/clubs solely to make out/grind with chicks.

which still leaves you with blue balls and a smaller wallet. sure, you have less to worry about and you're saving money in the long run. but, you're living life on the lonely route and life's too short for that shit.

then again, sleeping with a lot of chicks (regardless of their looks) eventually gets lonely too and the sex becomes mediocre taking almost hours to bust. it really just becomes a cardio workout. but hey, at least they look better than your right hand!

don't tell me you're happy with the single life if you aren't getting any action and going through a dry spell, because really that's just bullshit son.

but imagine waking up to "i miss you" or "i just want you in me right now" text while she's in class . when you're downtown piss drunk, when no fucking cab driver is available that you still have someone to call at 3am. someone who asks "how was your day" and is actually interested, though I ask too but that's just to kill deadair i'ma male lol. that if you are sick, someone's there to look out for you. waking up beside some bombshell you can call your girlfriend. count me out on the forever alone club :-)

(sorry if you tear up)

you want to stop being alone? go to the gym, up your testosterone. look big, feel big, feel good. when you feel good, you give off good vibes and everyone wants to know what's up.

no one can make you change, only you can. if you choose to be lazy then you get what lazy fucks get, fuck all. i've offered junkies jobs at lumber bills making minimum wage, but they choose to collect cans. that's their choice, i just lose respect. it is what it is.

there's two ways to get chicks: know what to say or be rich, i'm not fond of paying for sex but then again i'm not in some millionaire shoes.

theme: life isn't about going with the flow, that gets you no where. if it was i'd flow through channels sitting on my ass eating pringles. life is what you make out of it, grasp it.
__________________
I speak the truth, and nothin' but. If I am wrong, well then there is no right.

Rule 1: You do not talk about Fight Club. Rule 2: You do not talk about Fight Club.

Last edited by v.Rossi; 03-24-2011 at 08:45 AM. Reason: fucking typos flying left right centre
v.Rossi is offline   Reply With Quote
This post FAILED by:
Old 03-24-2011, 08:36 AM   #6
My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: burnaby
Posts: 1,871
Thanked 471 Times in 151 Posts
if i find a normal chick who isn't crazy. sure.

is it too much to ask for a girl who:
holds a job
doesn't spend 80% of her wages on shopping
doesn't spread'm after a few drinks
smokes weed or doesn't mind that i do
isn't jealous

every girl i know that fits that criteria is wife'd up.
__________________
Feedback 24-0-0
Hot Karl is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-24-2011, 08:49 AM   #7
Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 818
Thanked 709 Times in 216 Posts
^ white girls, they're open minded. smoke weed, capable of holding their liquor.

have an ass, have a nice rack. not so much materialistic. except the rich cokeheads, but they're perfect 10s and are full of issues and are absolute snobZ
__________________
I speak the truth, and nothin' but. If I am wrong, well then there is no right.

Rule 1: You do not talk about Fight Club. Rule 2: You do not talk about Fight Club.
v.Rossi is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-24-2011, 09:28 AM   #8
Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
 
TheNewGirl's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Coquitlam
Posts: 1,476
Thanked 521 Times in 263 Posts
From the girl's perspective here...

I date so I guess I'm not 'forever alone', often the same person for years at a time.

But I have absolutely 0 desire to marry or live with anyone. I just don't want to, don't care to, I've tried it (at least cohabiting) and it's not my thing. There's two couples in my building who have been together in the decades but maintain their own apartments (one couple lives next door to each other even) and I could probably handle that but that's about it.

My girl friends generally regard this as kinda freakish, but imo that's because their biological clocks are all ticking while I've already done my baby making. So I choose to live alone and take care of my own life and shit until I run into someone that I love more than my independence.

^^ Hot Karl, they're all over the place. Stop looking at the clubs.
__________________
~ Just another noob looking for a clue
TheNewGirl is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-24-2011, 04:40 PM   #9
My homepage has been set to RS
 
MelonBoy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 2,101
Thanked 169 Times in 91 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Hot Karl View Post
if i find a normal chick who isn't crazy. sure.

is it too much to ask for a girl who:
holds a job
doesn't spend 80% of her wages on shopping
doesn't spread'm after a few drinks
smokes weed or doesn't mind that i do
isn't jealous

every girl i know that fits that criteria is wife'd up.

Sucker I snagged one myself that fits that criteria (minus the weed smoking cause I dont smoke haha but im sure she wouldnt mind :P)
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by getalove View Post
i took a shit in the shower and i tried to use my heel to push it down the drain
MelonBoy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-24-2011, 05:11 PM   #10
Banned (ABWS)
 
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Richmond
Posts: 5,138
Thanked 2,215 Times in 509 Posts
you be trollin' OP
illicitstylz is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-24-2011, 06:01 PM   #11
MoD
 
k2_alpha's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: a rainy city
Posts: 3,482
Thanked 1,803 Times in 225 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Hot Karl View Post
if i find a normal chick who isn't crazy. sure.

is it too much to ask for a girl who:
holds a job
doesn't spend 80% of her wages on shopping
doesn't spread'm after a few drinks
smokes weed or doesn't mind that i do
isn't jealous

every girl i know that fits that criteria is wife'd up.
comes down to the place you are "looking" for a SO.
going to bars and clubs is not going to help you out.
Majority of the woman are there just looking for some short term fun.
Got to look in places that are less "party"
try a sports team. ppl are generally more mature if they are on a sports team.

Quote:
Originally Posted by MelonBoy View Post
Sucker I snagged one myself that fits that criteria (minus the weed smoking cause I dont smoke haha but im sure she wouldnt mind :P)
*interweb props.
Got my girl too!
Didnt take too long to find my girl. But so damn happy that i did.
__________________
Lets street race, first one to jail wins
k2_alpha is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-24-2011, 07:47 PM   #12
VLS Head Mod
 
saucywoman's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: E Van
Posts: 7,996
Thanked 896 Times in 392 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by k2_alpha View Post
comes down to the place you are "looking" for a SO.
going to bars and clubs is not going to help you out.
Majority of the woman are there just looking for some short term fun.
Got to look in places that are less "party"
try a sports team. ppl are generally more mature if they are on a sports team.
.
Hahah yeah, we are out there
Posted via RS Mobile
saucywoman is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-24-2011, 08:38 PM   #13
'
 
insomniac's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 4,657
Thanked 6,540 Times in 1,106 Posts
@OP

i always use the "forever alone" term with friends and we all have a laugh at it haha. but, i do not want to be forever alone. like the other posters here i have a hard time finding the "right one". of course they will have flaws but i have pretty low standards i must say. my criteria is literally less than 10 things.. but in my generation of people (im youngin) and/or environment i think its pretty hard for me to find the "right one" that fits my criteria. if people dont change and i dont meet more people then i will be forced, without it being my choice, .

Spoiler!
__________________
Buy & Sell Feedback (53-0-0)
insomniac is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-24-2011, 08:58 PM   #14
Banned (ABWS)
 
sean_wong's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Up Yours
Posts: 761
Thanked 73 Times in 22 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheNewGirl View Post
You're just selfish.

But you are forgiven. You are human afterall.

I can just imagine you dying alone in your apartment. Now THAT'S forever alone.
sean_wong is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-24-2011, 09:25 PM   #15
HELP ME PLS!!!
 
johny's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: here
Posts: 5,793
Thanked 146 Times in 67 Posts
good luck paying a mortage with one salary... you need a wife / husband to buy a house.
johny is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-24-2011, 09:26 PM   #16
HELP ME PLS!!!
 
6793026's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: BC, HK, USA
Posts: 5,735
Thanked 1,395 Times in 506 Posts
I have been forever alone for 2 years now. It's been a while but I much rather be alone than date some stupid random chick. It's hard to find a chick that's financially sensible because I have met a lot of girls who are in their 30s and still doesn't have a career yet.

I know if I wait, I'll be much happier than settling for retarded young chicks. I know I'm much better than a lot of retarded guys out there and I remain single for that reason specifically.
__________________
Arguing on the internet is like running in the SPECIAL OLYMPICS.

Even if you win, you're still retarded.
6793026 is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-24-2011, 09:27 PM   #17
bcrdukes
 
TOS'd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Edmonton
Posts: 9,056
Thanked 5,122 Times in 1,532 Posts
__________________
Posted from NE 1-J W Inglis Building

Quote:
Originally Posted by bcrdukes View Post
To quote the most misunderstood individual and figurehead on Revscene:

"I am a changed person."

- TOS'd
TOS'd is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-24-2011, 10:30 PM   #18
~~
 
rien's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 403
Thanked 343 Times in 44 Posts


I sure hope I'm not forever alone

Last edited by rien; 03-24-2011 at 10:46 PM.
rien is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-24-2011, 10:40 PM   #19
The Brown Reason
 
BrRsn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Whalley
Posts: 4,605
Thanked 5,848 Times in 1,522 Posts
its only fun saying if you know you're not

kinda how you can call your skinny friends fat, but not your fat friends because they'll get all moody and end up overdosing on cupcakes and whipped cream
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by bcrdukes
fuck this shit, i'm out
BrRsn is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 03-24-2011, 11:11 PM   #20
Banned (ABWS)
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: vancouver
Posts: 1,936
Thanked 233 Times in 129 Posts
even if you got a stable of women, u still want to settle down with your first option

nothing beats waking up together and getting that 10minute handjob before getting out of bed, you just dont get small yet great things like that from your stable of hoes, along with cooked meals, a confidante, and a life/business partner

plus sex is much more intense

i guess i'm lucky, found someone that wasnt my type at all but discovered that her type is much more compatible to a sane person, couldnt stand the high maintenance of my ex gfs

to all the single guys, keep searching for your one while fooling around with your side pussy but dont be complacent about the relationship, if she isnt willing to change her bad habits for you dont even bother, break down their ego so you only have the good parts
liu13 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-25-2011, 02:13 AM   #21
Editor
 
!e.lo_'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Raincouver
Posts: 3,490
Thanked 3,113 Times in 858 Posts
I've been single over 2.5 yrs.
But I'm still young (21) so I'm just doing my own thing right now.
Am I ? love-life, yes. Life, not at all.

Was seeing a chick last month, not dating, but that didn't work out. And I'm glad, because being single is fucking relaxing.
I'm not getting side-pussy or doing one nighters, I'm not that kind of guy. I'm def the type of long-term committed.
But contradictory to that, I don't want to get married (maybe common-law some day) and I don't want kids.
Again, I'm young, so maybe things will change when I hit... 30?
__________________
['00 Integra Type R][My Feedback]
!e.lo_ is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-25-2011, 02:45 AM   #22
RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001
 
TypeRNammer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 8,309
Thanked 2,632 Times in 754 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by !e.lo_ View Post
I've been single over 2.5 yrs.
But I'm still young (21) so I'm just doing my own thing right now.
Am I ? love-life, yes. Life, not at all.

Was seeing a chick last month, not dating, but that didn't work out. And I'm glad, because being single is fucking relaxing.
I'm not getting side-pussy or doing one nighters, I'm not that kind of guy. I'm def the type of long-term committed.
But contradictory to that, I don't want to get married (maybe common-law some day) and I don't want kids.
Again, I'm young, so maybe things will change when I hit... 30?
Holy crap you're young!
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by The_AK View Post
Or you meet some girl at the club, cum inside of her, find out shes only in grade 12, so you buy a Prada bag for her to make things right, she finds out the bag is a fake and decides to have the kid
Quote:
Originally Posted by RX_Renesis View Post
wtf did she get some bolt-on titties or what?
they look sooooooooooo much bigger than they were 2ish years ago.
Quote:
Originally Posted by nns View Post
I can't stand the sound of Mandarin either. Boo yow nee bey nee shing bo now noong gey shee mayo mayo mayo mayo mayo mayo mayo.
TypeRNammer is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-25-2011, 07:05 AM   #23
Rs has made me the woman i am today!
 
Join Date: Apr 2001
Posts: 4,353
Thanked 1,794 Times in 823 Posts
Being "forever alone" is silly to think about when you're in your early 20s. But, if you're single and approaching your 30s, it definitely becomes a possibility unless you lower your standards drastically. I have a couple of friends who will probably never find someone (they're, ahem, risk averse when it comes to women) and they're not losers by most definitions. On the other hand, I had a friend who settled recently (i.e. engaged) and I know it ain't going to be pretty (which goes back to my point about lowering standards.)
Tapioca is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-25-2011, 07:29 AM   #24
Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 818
Thanked 709 Times in 216 Posts
The more experience you go through in life, the good the bad and the ugly, the more mature and knowledgeable you are IMO. Im not talking chick wise well I am, but im talking you landing a career, car crash, your love ones passing away, traveling around the world. Just going out and living your life. The more memories you have, the more your life has value. I'm not talking about your level 70 wow account worth a couple bills kinda value.

You can't be 30 never dated and expect to find the one. You have to go through a couple bad ones in order to get that good one. Life isn't a Disney movie, where the longer you wait the even better it gets. If you have this mentality, you will die forever alone.

You go through a couple break ups, you're able to move on and advance in life quicker than someone who has no experience in the dating field at all. Makes sense?

Disclaimer:
Though that's my westernized view, hongers think on a different level.
Posted via RS Mobile

Last edited by v.Rossi; 03-25-2011 at 07:36 AM.
v.Rossi is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 03-25-2011, 12:20 PM   #25
My homepage has been set to RS
 
yellowpower's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: East Atlanta 6
Posts: 2,442
Thanked 257 Times in 92 Posts
Rossi are u asian?
Sounds like somebodys in love haha
Posted via RS Mobile
yellowpower is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 02:43 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
SEO by vBSEO ©2011, Crawlability, Inc.
Revscene.net cannot be held accountable for the actions of its members nor does the opinions of the members represent that of Revscene.net