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Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
Alright, here's another topic. Not sure if this is the right demographics but here goes: (I know no one is going to admit they have paid for sex, so) What do you think people pay for sex? Do you know why you have done so or what do you think guys and girls do it?
Oh, for those who understands Chinese, this question came about from here; women realize men cheat, so why would you think people would want to cheat / pay for sex.
Alright, here's another topic. Not sure if this is the right demographics but here goes: (I know no one is going to admit they have paid for sex, so) What do you think people pay for sex? Do you know why you have done so or what do you think guys and girls do it?
Oh, for those who understands Chinese, this question came about from here; women realize men cheat, so why would you think people would want to cheat / pay for sex.
my buddy at work buys sex quite a bit(well...dont know about now...but when craigslist had the erotic section he was).
his view on his wich he would always tell me was:
why the fuck would i go to a club downtown, spend 200$ on drinks...then an extra 100$ on a random broad and at most make out with her and get her number....id rather just spend the 50-100$ on CL and get a hottie and gurantee pussy and with the left over money im saving go buy a case of beer and still be up money.
hes got a good point...but id rather buy a hooker...i love the chase thats involved with trying to get the girl hahaha.
Hmm, very off topic. The video isn't really about paying for sex. Rather, the video shows you various opinions on what both genders are doing right and wrong in terms of relationship.
After watching the video, all I can say is that a lot of stereotypes are thrown around carelessly. Not all men and women are like that, and certainly not everyone from the SE Asia culture is like that. All the video did was to further engrave the stereotypes into the viewer's mind.
I know a guy that lost his virginity to a hooker when he was 32. To this day he still hasn't had any pussy he hasn't paid for. He wines and dines these hookers and buys them gifts and shit. He'll fly down to Calgary to see some of them. It's actually pretty bad, he feels that he 'connects' with a couple of them. Really socially awkward guy and pretty ugly, feel kind of bad for him, but he has to lower his standards on 'real world' women, girls I would consider an 8/10, he would call a 3/10.
I wouldn't pay for sex, I have had a happy ending before after a massage, I had no idea the place was a rub and tug though. She was white, and it's tough to say know when their hand is already in position.
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I wouldn't pay for sex, I have had a happy ending before after a massage, I had no idea the place was a rub and tug though. She was white, and it's tough to say know when their hand is already in position.
hiring a hooker is probably the most victimless "crime" in existence. The difference between a hooker and a girl you date for 3 months then leaves, is that the hooker has no pretenses about her motivations for being with you. Of course, a hooker will never take the place of a steady girlfriend who is more than just a fuck buddy, but prostitution is the single greatest prevention for males from going on suicidal testosterone fueled rampages during those long dry spells between significant others.
my buddy at work buys sex quite a bit(well...dont know about now...but when craigslist had the erotic section he was).
his view on his wich he would always tell me was:
why the fuck would i go to a club downtown, spend 200$ on drinks...then an extra 100$ on a random broad and at most make out with her and get her number....id rather just spend the 50-100$ on CL and get a hottie and gurantee pussy and with the left over money im saving go buy a case of beer and still be up money.
hes got a good point...but id rather buy a hooker...i love the chase thats involved with trying to get the girl hahaha.
I'd say theres no sense of achievement when you pay for sex, part of the joy of getting sex is the chase imo. Unless you just received a phat bonus from your boss for a job well done and want to reward yourself somehow... then i GUESS you could use sex as the reward opposed to the money if you're that kind of person.
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if you dont want to be tied down with having a GF, then its good to pay for sex...
im mean sure if you have a GF, sex is free... but you need to invest in that before she starts having sex..
and if you scared about catching something, its no different then going to a bar, paying drinks for her and stuff, you still dont know if shes carrying anything..
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I've paid $220 to go all the way at a massage parlor on two separate occasions.
that better be some exotic Hawaiian/Caribbean mixed pussy.. if its asian pussy, your over paying.. haha
Really socially awkward guy and pretty ugly, feel kind of bad for him, but he has to lower his standards on 'real world' women, girls I would consider an 8/10, he would call a 3/10.
You are 100% right. I know there are people who pay for sex, but then there are those like your friend who are serial users of prostitute. They lose sense of real girls, being in a relationship and it's close to a point of no return. They don't date no one no more and gave up on women. Is it right or wrong? I can't say...
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Originally Posted by Ineedmoney
I've paid $220 to go all the way at a massage parlor on two separate occasions.
You paid too much.
I talked to a few people and these FOBs was like "this is why i go up north and pay for sex, i gave up on girls giving me an interview" I am not sure if this is because I am getting older and that this is happening more or if paying for sex is becoming more socially acceptable.
Did you know there are website solely on rating the service you get from prostitutes in different cities? I'm not sure if that's sad that it's there or if these people are going so often to give out ratings.
The video ain't 100% perfect / true, it's jaded in a few areas, but I'm not here to argue too deeply into it. I have been in HK and experienced both relationships in North America and also in HK relationships, but I do agree mostly of what people are saying in the video.