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05-19-2011, 09:02 AM
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#76 | | My homepage has been set to RS
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^ dude, I don't disagree with your pts, but it's not your call. You can tell your buddy he is being a idiot, but ultimately it is a family issue for him and his family to figure out...you might not agree with his personal choices, but you also do not have to deal with the consequences.
Men who leave their wives and kids for young pussy are selfish cowards. If you really can't keep it in your pants, go see a professional.
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05-19-2011, 09:15 AM
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#77 | | Need to Seek Professional Help
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Originally Posted by Z3guy Men who leave their wives and kids for young pussy are selfish cowards. If you really can't keep it in your pants, go see a professional. | Touche.
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05-23-2011, 04:25 AM
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#78 | | I *Fwap* *Fwap* *Fwap* to RS
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Originally Posted by 6chr0nic4 lol @ all you bitch ass' advising him to rat his buddy out to the wife.
thats not his fuckin business. a good friend will not make that decision for his bro. he doesn't have the right to. a good friend will try to set him straight, not fuck him over. | Amen. Let the friend do his thing. It may go well, it may not. You don't fucking know cuz u're not him.
If it goes well, celebrate together on his new marriage. If all turns to shit, be there for him, get him shitfaced.
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05-23-2011, 06:37 AM
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#79 | | I keep RS good
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let him do whatever he wants man, you dont know the intimate details of the situation.
maybe its for the better.
and if it doesn't work out, well he'll pay a hefty price and carry the burden of that mistake for the rest of his life.
it all works out either way.
mind you i think he should just be fucking her on the side and keeping it cool and then just ditch the LG later cuz they're just trouble.
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05-23-2011, 02:24 PM
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#80 | | Banned By Establishment
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honestly op, nothing you do will help in this situation.
Only your friend will need to realize whats good for him and whats not. and buddha help him make the right decision.
i won't lie to you being married with kids, and going through the "nut drought" really sucks i mean seriously it really is hell,i know ive been there, but i've worked it out with wifey (or still working it out LOL) and our relationship while not the best is getting better and better.
mind you,I am not defending your friend, he's an idiot and if he even loved his kids or his wife he would be stronger and not have had the LG.
for me, once you have kids then thats when the relationship really becomes a commitment, cuz honestly, i don;t want my kids to ever think that daddy doesnt want them.
Do i ever think about the LGs walking around half naked and looking so nice and tasty? fuck yea, but thats it.
mind you if i did have one i'd do like Ulic and keep it on the side, and no way in hell is anyone gonna know about it friend or not, cuz wifey is like a detective and i;ve already done my time in jail.
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05-23-2011, 07:43 PM
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#81 | | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
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For married men, especially with kids, getting into a relationship (one which you intend to keep a secret) is stupid. If you are going to cheat, best to see a hooker. Posted via RS Mobile |
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05-26-2011, 08:48 AM
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#82 | | Banned (ABWS)
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^lol
Cheating is bad. I was kinda forced to take a marriage prep course (getting married in June). Every couple should learn the basics. Communication, and not being selfish lead to a good relationship. I check out other pussy all the time, but I don't act on it. My fiancee is my best friend, and thats why I'm getting married.
When she's fat, stinks, or being annoying, I let her know. And she does the same to me.
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05-30-2011, 01:32 PM
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#83 | | Need to Seek Professional Help
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Originally Posted by Walperstyle When she's fat, stinks, or being annoying, I let her know. And she does the same to me. |
LOL!
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05-30-2011, 01:52 PM
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#84 | | I keep RS good
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Originally Posted by Walperstyle
When she's fat, stinks, or being annoying, I let her know. And she does the same to me. | Lol yeah dude that should be the way it is. I tell girls straightup. What's there to fear? It's the truth and they shouldn't get lazy anyways. Pinch em in the tummy or thighs, yo, getting a little flabby there.
What they gonna do? Go bitch on you? Lol. Posted via RS Mobile |
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05-30-2011, 02:05 PM
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has this guy ever had sex before his current wife? it seems like he was either a late bloomer, or only had sex with a handful of women in his life, who are in their 20s... then again, his sex life must be shit with his wife. i honestly wouldn't blame any wife or husband for cheating for sex only if they weren't getting laid. sex is important to both women and men in relationships.. BUT before the fails come, he should have sat down and talked to his wife about any issues with their sex life etc.. She doesn't deserve to be cheated on without any chance of resolution.
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05-30-2011, 03:25 PM
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#86 | | Ask me about how I answered the question "How fat is TOO fat?"
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Originally Posted by BlueG2 has this guy ever had sex before his current wife? it seems like he was either a late bloomer, or only had sex with a handful of women in his life, who are in their 20s... then again, his sex life must be shit with his wife. i honestly wouldn't blame any wife or husband for cheating for sex only if they weren't getting laid. sex is important to both women and men in relationships.. BUT before the fails come, he should have sat down and talked to his wife about any issues with their sex life etc.. She doesn't deserve to be cheated on without any chance of resolution. | ^this too, important to sample more than 1 woman before settling down. Apparently average guy sleeps with 10 different women in his time before settling down with his wife.
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05-30-2011, 08:36 PM
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#87 | | RS Veteran
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Originally Posted by The_AK ^this too, important to sample more than 1 woman before settling down. Apparently average guy sleeps with 10 different women in his time before settling down with his wife. | that's actually very realistic, and quite low.. imagine you having sex when you were say 16/17. say you get married at ... 28... there has got to be a point in your life where you weren't in a relationship and probably slept around for a year or 2... even having ONE sexual partner per year, you would have had sex with 10-12 people. Then again, a lot of guys endup whacking off to porn when they are single, until they meet their next long term exclusive gf lol
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05-30-2011, 11:47 PM
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#88 | | Banned By Establishment
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