REVscene - Vancouver Automotive Forum


Welcome to the REVscene Automotive Forum forums.

Registration is Free!You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! The banners on the left side and below do not show for registered users!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact contact us.

Go Back   REVscene Automotive Forum > Vancouver LifeStyles (VLS) > Relationship & Gender Discussion

Relationship & Gender Discussion THIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE!
The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 09-07-2011, 08:06 PM   #1
Official Texas Ambassador
 
El Bastardo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Houston, TX
Posts: 10,135
Thanked 5,356 Times in 1,206 Posts
[Confidential] How should I break up with her?

The following post is from an anonymous member. If they would like to reply to any replies please pm me.

So I've been going out with this girl for about a month or so, and I feel like I'm losing interest in her. Our relationship was kind of rushed, and we didn't get to really know each other, and I don't think we're a good match for each other. I don't want this to drag on and waste our time so I'm planning on breaking up with her. The thing is, her birthday is coming up soon, as well as our anniversary. How should I do this? We're still in high school, so this is fairly new to me...

El Bastardo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-07-2011, 08:06 PM   #2
Official Texas Ambassador
 
El Bastardo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Houston, TX
Posts: 10,135
Thanked 5,356 Times in 1,206 Posts
No flaming in this thread. Keep your responses mature.
El Bastardo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-07-2011, 08:14 PM   #3
I bringith the lowerballerith
 
guddagudd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: canada
Posts: 1,121
Thanked 1,352 Times in 263 Posts
Well it's only a one month anniversary so it doesn't really matter, also like you said, her birthday is fast approaching, so all the more reasons to break up with her now.

Really, there's nothing much to breaking up if it's a one month relationship, just tell her honestly what you are feeling.
guddagudd is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-07-2011, 08:17 PM   #4
What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
 
odotodoMAN's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: hope
Posts: 197
Thanked 4 Times in 3 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by guddagudd View Post
Well it's only a one month anniversary so it doesn't really matter, also like you said, her birthday is fast approaching, so all the more reasons to break up with her now.

Really, there's nothing much to breaking up if it's a one month relationship, just tell her honestly what you are feeling.
+ 1
odotodoMAN is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-07-2011, 08:27 PM   #5
Banned (ABWS)
 
Join Date: May 2010
Location: Richmond
Posts: 991
Thanked 994 Times in 180 Posts
I did a one month relationship before and you will get over it easy. The girl i dumped said she will never be shallow again.... It hurts my heart when I heard those words
dignatas is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-07-2011, 11:37 PM   #6
Official Texas Ambassador
 
El Bastardo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Houston, TX
Posts: 10,135
Thanked 5,356 Times in 1,206 Posts
The following is a reply from the Anonymous member

Thanks for the replies, turns out, she felt it coming so it was kind of a mutual thing. It's all good now I hope.
El Bastardo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-14-2011, 04:06 PM   #7
I am Hook'd on RS
 
fourthavenuecafe's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2004
Posts: 63
Thanked 26 Times in 11 Posts
oh nice.. glad it worked out for you.. i was gonna say just be a gentleman and dont break up with her on her birthday or your anniversary.. do it asap.. or wait till after those events i guess...
fourthavenuecafe is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-14-2011, 04:16 PM   #8
Hyde's Understudy
 
BlackZRoadster's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2001
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 6,003
Thanked 436 Times in 226 Posts
Break up on the most special days like V-day, anniversary, birthdays, christmas or NYE.

That way she would be so broken she wont be clinging on or pestering you after.
__________________
2011 335xi Coupe M-sport
BlackZRoadster is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-14-2011, 05:51 PM   #9
Need to Seek Professional Help
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Richmond
Posts: 1,097
Thanked 206 Times in 71 Posts
Just say you don't think it's going anywhere, or that you're not interested in her really. Better break it to her now than later.
__________________
:o
ecchiecchi is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 11:11 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
SEO by vBSEO ©2011, Crawlability, Inc.
Revscene.net cannot be held accountable for the actions of its members nor does the opinions of the members represent that of Revscene.net